What is the reason why I often want to smoke my colleagues when chatting with them?

Hello, the contract is not often when chatting, it may be because you think the other party is talking very badly, so you feel that you want to hit him.

The two of you don't fall in love, the difference in personality must be very big, you don't blame him for his behavior, you are not suitable for chatting and working together, you may also be easy to be impulsive if you don't have a good temper, you try not to be together.

It shows that you have a general relationship with your colleagues, or you are suppressed by your colleagues, and you are a little dissatisfied in your heart, so you will have resentment.

What is the reason why you want to smoke your colleague when you are chatting with your colleague, how do others know what your reason is, you ask your own heart. Are you annoying her, or are you upset, or have you had some past with her, or have you offended you? You ask yourself, how do others know?

If you don't have any reason at all, then you should go to the hospital. You've got a problem in your mind.

It may be that you and your colleagues do not talk about speculation for more than half a sentence, and you have not talked about an option, so you are a little angry when you chat, which will affect the relationship with your colleagues and must be corrected.

It must be that the two of you don't get along. If it's not the two of you, you can have less contact together.

When chatting with colleagues, I often want to smoke my colleagues, probably because I think my colleagues speak more ugly!

It should be that this colleague's words are not very good, which makes you feel very disgusted with him, so I want to smoke him and beat him.

Does he make you angry, does he make you angry, thinks that his speech makes people very angry, and wants to go over and beat him, then you have to restrain this impulse and don't expose your thoughts casually.

It means that your mind is not healthy, and you have to see a psychiatrist, otherwise you will be afraid of committing a crime at that time.

It was probably when the two of you were chatting together that she talked to your sore spot......Thank you.

You see that the other person is unhappy, so that such an impulse appears.

When chatting with friends, you should talk steadily, and don't mess around or cramp things, which is impolite.

If you don't feel comfortable with your co-workers, then you don't want to get along with them. Because sometimes we are born to dislike some people, and we are born to like some people, so don't force yourself if you don't like it.

You can say something that doesn't sound good, if you don't like him, try to avoid less contact with him, there won't be too much friction, it's really not okay to hit someone, you still have to refrain from it.

Maybe the other person will hurt you intentionally or unintentionally.

Is it because of the colleague's words, deeds or words, inappropriate, if so, you try to minimize your interactions with him.

If a colleague has something to say, it is particularly mentally retarded, or it is easy to stab your self-esteem.

Probably he hit your bottom line...

Think about it from the bottom of your heart, why? You should regulate your emotions yourself.

What is the reason why I often want to smoke my colleagues when chatting with them? It's because you two don't talk speculatively, so you try to chat together as little as possible. So as not to really be impulsive one day.

In the workplace, communication and communication are essential, get along with colleagues, the most important thing is communication, but after all, people need to pay attention to fate, not everyone gets together to have endless topics, if there is no topic for each other, what should you do? Follow the news around you and the things that everyone cares about It's a good idea to talk about recent news. You can talk about the things that happen around you and everyone is more concerned about, such as housing prices, transportation, etc.

In addition, it is possible to discuss five.

1. How to live this kind of thing that everyone is very happy to talk about. Smile often and make eye contact with the other person As the saying goes: "Raise your hand and don't hit the smiling person", get along with your colleagues, and if you feel that you have nothing to say about the topic they are discussing enthusiastically, then you need to learn to smile and listen.

When talking to the other person, be sure to make eye contact. In the workplace, if you want to get along happily with your colleagues, you must first have the idea of actively integrating into everyone, and pay more attention to the things that your colleagues around you are concerned about, so as to lay a foundation for finding topics. In the face of gossip about the rights and wrongs of specific individuals, skillfully maintain neutrality At this time, it is not good not to intervene at all, where there are people, there is right and wrong, the so-called water is clear, there are no fish, and people are observant.

When your colleagues gossip, learn to subtly remain neutral and appropriately echo a few words: "Really? Don't give a clear opinion on things that you haven't figured out, in short, learn to "participate but not mix".

Talking about different topics with people of different ages With younger people, food, clothes and interesting things in life are all good topics, while older colleagues with children are inseparable from children, you can listen to them talk about children's interesting things and echo a few words. When chatting with an older colleague, have an inquiring attitude and show that you want to hear his advice and teachings. Of course, these will vary from person to person, so pay more attention to the hobbies and personalities of your colleagues and look for common interests.

Women's topics must be popular where there are women If you want to find a topic with a female colleague, it's even simpler. Topics about women, must be popular: beauty, discounts, cosmetics, clothes, shoes and bags, **......The exchange of some tips and experiences immediately made you talk.

When chatting with colleagues, pay attention to listening Listen to each other's opinions and pay attention to each other's opinions, which is a very important communication skill. When chatting with colleagues, you have to listen and listen and listen again. Don't:

Don't talk about the privacy of your colleagues, and talk less about the affairs of your own unit Colleagues can talk about each other together, but don't involve privacy, even if your colleagues themselves tell you, you should think twice before expressing your opinions. How you treat people, how people treat you. All in all, we still have to pay attention to sincerity and enthusiasm in treating people, being a person is like looking in a mirror, you laugh at him, you cry and he cries.

When talking to others, you need to be skillful, but you can't just have skills. After all, after a long time, everyone knows what people's hearts are.

Sometimes people are complicated. You can't see his heart, you don't know his face, you don't know his heart. Therefore, you can socialize with colleagues at work and dinner, and it is difficult to have true friends.

He just wanted someone to smoke with him, and he didn't want to do anything else, not even socialize.

There are two situations of not replying, one is not seeing and not replying to you. One is that I see it and don't want to reply to you at all.

Just a general colleague, right? I can't talk about how good a relationship is, when the average colleague is at it.

In that case, don't go if he calls you in the future.

Don't play with him in the future. Female colleague, right?

There must be something, or you've been smoking his cigarettes.

Judging by your conversation, it's D, and she's interested in your male colleague, not you. The metaphorical message of the interjection is that firstly she cares about the other person, and secondly she wants the other person to care about her too. This proves that she is interested in your male colleague.

Maybe she's just this kind of character, just don't worry about him.

If you have a pack of 2 pieces on your body, if you want to give him a pack directly, next time you want to say that the pack is all drawn? If it doesn't work, just buy one and give it to him.

You analyzed this well, it makes sense, he is unconscious, and you are not easy to say. He may be a person who doesn't see you and treats you as your own, so you can also use his way to deal with this problem between you. I think you can trouble him in other ways, such as work, life, etc., as long as you can use him, although tell him that this degree should be grasped by yourself.

Maybe he did you a favor and spent more than 1 year of cigarette money for him (of course, you just need to know this account in your own heart).

Actually, it's nothing, friend, why pinch it, but it's really not like that for you, a colleague, to go on like this. Once or twice. One day or two.

That's okay. But that's not the case for a long time. Me and my brothers too.

Although sometimes there is no smoking. But not today. When playing the next day.

Bring it with you. Even if everyone has it. When playing, I also give a few to the brothers.

That's the way to talk about the past, right?

Hehe, I don't know what to do either.

I feel that this kind of person is quite troublesome when encountered.

It's good that you think of sharing as happiness.

Quit smoking......It's not good for your health, hehe, there's really nothing good to ......

Physical contact does not mean that there is an affair!

Maybe your female colleague is more outgoing and will have physical contact with a colleague with whom she has a good relationship, which is a way for her to express that she has a good relationship!

A good relationship does not mean that it will be ambiguous. How can you see it if it's really ambiguous. Who said that the opposite sex can't be good friends, why care about other people's opinions.

Don't think too much, maybe it's just her personal habits, everyone's personality is different, and the practices are different, some people like to be coquettish when they chat, some people are coquettish and beat people with their hands, and some people are coquettish with words.

Since you are married, it means that you are no longer qualified to be ambiguous.

It's just beating you!

Whack your thump.

Either that, or just have a crush on you! Or just don't believe what you say.

May be a little interested in you....

You can reject the other person directly, this is how you are a human being, you must directly reject the other person, and wish your friends to be happy.

Changing the subject, if they still ask, shows that they have low emotional intelligence or don't care what you think, this kind of person is not worth making friends.

The working atmosphere is relaxed and colleagues can often chat with each other, is it a good thing or a bad thing? <>The atmosphere at work is relaxed, and this thing has its advantages and disadvantages. First of all, I think the advantage is that the society is developing faster and faster, especially in some urban areas, people's life rhythm is getting faster and faster, and the pressure is getting bigger and bigger.

We don't feel a lot of pressure at work, because the rest of our lives are basically dealing with our own work and our own families, and if we don't have a comfortable working environment, it is contrary to what we want to pursue a high quality of life. In fact, many people still yearn for this kind of relaxed working environment. You can chat with your colleagues and enhance your relationship with each other.

However, I think that if colleagues can talk to each other often when they are at work, it will also affect their work efficiency. In addition, there are some jobs, they are forbidden to appear office romance and prohibit chatting between colleagues is a reason, are afraid of affecting the company's work efficiency, there is a saying that one mind can not be used twice, if we are thinking about how to go to the worksheet working atmosphere and how to get along with colleagues when we go to work, then who will concentrate on their work? Maybe some people just need to be in an absolutely quiet working environment to innovate.

Every place has its own system, and every place has its own rules, so that each company can operate well. <>

Therefore, I think that when you go to work, you can adjust the atmosphere of work appropriately, and you still have to work hard when you should work. The combination of work and rest can promote our healthy development, not only to meet work efficiency, but also to make our boring work life full of fun. In fact, one of the best ways is to keep our eyes open when we go to work, and when we find someone thinking about a problem, we try to give him a quiet space, and if someone encounters any difficulties, we can all help him together.

I think that's a good thing. At work, you should get along well with your colleagues, and you only need to do your own work well. This will also make you feel much happier.

The bad thing means that you are not busy at all, and the company has no business, just like I am now, sitting here every day, there is nothing to do, in fact, it is very distressing, and time passes slowly.

Where the working environment is more relaxed, the room for growth is generally not high, there are not many challenges, and it is difficult for people to grow without difficulties. However, if colleagues can chat with each other frequently, they can also get some good teamwork spirit, and a good company atmosphere will also have a certain role in promoting the company's culture.

I think it's a bad thing, you should work hard when you go to work, and it's okay to chat after work.

This is actually a very good thing, because such a friendly relationship between colleagues is conducive to better cooperation