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You have fallen, this may be because this country is atheistic and lacks more spiritual cultivation, not alone, this is a common disease in the spiritual desert society, people want to get rid of vulgarity and ugliness, to achieve a higher spiritual realm, you must have faith, not necessarily religious, you must at least believe in philosophy, morality. Imagine how different it would be for a person who reads gossip magazines every day and is bright every day and a person who likes to read Nietzsche's philosophy and appreciate the life world of classical Europeans!Your outlook on life should look like this:
There must be ideals in life, there are some things that are worth spending a lifetime of energy to pursue, and money is just an auxiliary tool for you to survive and recuperate in the process of advancing towards your ideals. Therefore, money can be said to be one of your goals, but it is not the ultimate goal, your own ideal is the ultimate goal!
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Not everyone can follow their ideal life, and the ideal has become a dream in the real society, and only exists in the dream. However, there will always be some dreamers who are not willing to turn their ideals into dreams, jump out of the real society, and start their own ideal life.
You will see that they are happy, they are happy, but there are also some who are painful, unfortunate, and then return to the real society after the experience, in fact, it depends on the attitude of each person towards their own life, no matter what, be true to their own heart.
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Then solve the economic problem first, and then have a greater degree of freedom in the future, and then play the ideal.
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environmental impact, or are you short of money?Get to the roots. You can also read some Confucianism and Taoism, don't get lost in society, maybe you will know what is important to you when you are young and experienced.
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Now society is like this, no matter how lofty the ideals, living is the most important thing.
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This is caused by the pressures of the social environment, and human nature is so greedy, when everyone around you is looking at money, it has to be so...
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No, in today's society, you have to survive first. But don't care too much about money, don't care about it after you have enough to live a little more, and care more about yourself.
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Be clear about your goals in life and pursue what you have earned through your own efforts!
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That's the reality. Let's bury your ideals in the bottom of your heart first.
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Because this society is toxic. You can check out Fromm's book or "The World Is So Sinister, You Have to Be Strong Inside".
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Don't do it, the people on the street are just like you, it's normal!
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Like you, I feel like I've changed. I don't know why. Is this a social necessity?
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There are many situations where there is no choice.
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Just accept the performance of reality.
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No, it means you've grown up.
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What is a good man like???
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Do what you can.
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Yes, why is this society so realistic, I would rather sit in a BMW and cry than sit in the back of a bicycle and laugh, are there so many handsome and rich people in the world? I think about pie-in-the-sky things all day long. Actually, you don't have to be angry, friend, don't you know the successful love story of your cousin and your father's friend's son?
This shows that there are still good women, you are surrounded by gold worshippers, you can go to the provincial capital, go to Beijing, it seems that God still wants you to go out and break through, go, friend, your true love is far away!
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It's nothing. Maybe I have seen the reality of society clearly.
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As long as you are determined, why not give it a try, work hard, think, and make good relationships.
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To say something you don't like to hear, you're in your 20s, and you don't know anything, and if you have a low education, then it's hard for you to have money. Either pinning on the lottery, or dreaming! Otherwise, work hard to learn a technology, but if you want to be rich, you must learn well, then there will be 3000 4000 a month, of course, if you learn high-end technology, the salary will be higher.
At this point, if you are satisfied, start a family and live an ordinary life, if you are not satisfied, use a few years of savings to do business, but it is difficult, and even if you succeed in reaching tens of millions of millionaires, you will be about 50 years old at that time, depending on how you choose, if you have a little money at home, you can do business directly, it is easy, in fact, it is too difficult, it is also very complicated, it depends on your ability.
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Generally speaking, there is a big distance between the ideal and the reality, and some people have been depressed that the reality is cruel, unchangeable, and must be unconditionally adapted, so they can only give up the ideal and accommodate the reality. But in order not to think so, my understanding is:
Accepting reality, adapting to reality, and integrating into reality does not mean giving up ideals. If it is said that the ideal is realized in reality, it means that the ideal conforms to the objective law of reality; The fact that ideals cannot be realized in reality shows that ideals are divorced from reality and are castles in the air. Therefore, we must adjust the content of our ideals and goals so that our ideals conform to social reality.
It is normal for there to be a conflict between the ideal and the reality, and it is not that once there is a conflict, the ideal should be abandoned, and as a positive person, we can only reconcile the contradiction between the ideal and the reality and make the ideal conform to reality. The behavior of our social practice activities is a process of transformation in which we are constantly improving the contradiction and struggle between our ideals and reality. Therefore, we must establish our ideals, and gradually uphold and discard some of the contents of our ideals and goals in practice, so as to correct the gap between our ideals and reality.
Finally realize your dreams in reality!
1. Correctly understand the relationship between ideals and reality.
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Keep learning, keep working hard.
Bridging the gap between reality and ideals.
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We must focus on reality, and reality is what we have to face.
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The main thing is to deal with your own mentality, mentality is really important, start from the heart, ask yourself, what you can do now, how to do it, you can realize your dreams.
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Only by learning to adapt to society can we realize our ideals.
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It's just to do whatever you want and don't think too much.
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This question should.
It is a philosophical question.
This is also normal.
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I don't think it's good, you're an extreme behavior, it's good to be happy and chic in life, don't care too much about money. Thank you for adopting.
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You are normal! In reality, the one who doesn't worship money, just thinks in his heart, and won't say it generously! The landlord can say it, which shows that you are still honest!
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I think we should put such people in a prison built with money, not give them food and drink, and then tell them that this is the reality of this society, and then they will know how important money is. Originally, if everyone only thinks about money and has no feelings, then people are not as good as low-level animals, hehe remembers that there is a saying, called everything must be grasped to a degree, only talk about feelings without eating or drinking, only talk about money, money, money and not feelings, I pity them. Friends, for money worshippers, you just ignore their existence, don't let them spoil our mood, don't you say?
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Hehe, it's just too realistic
There's no way, now people in society eat people.
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vulgar, helpless to be restricted by the laws of the country, otherwise I really want to kill these people!
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There is no feeling, and there is no ink after graduating from elementary school.
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The most important thing in life is not where you are, but the goal you are heading for, constantly striving for your right goal, enjoying life in the process of constantly pursuing happiness and perfection, continuous dedication, and continuous giving. Only in this way can we live a meaningful life.
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Life depends on my own efforts, and my life is colorful. But I'm not optimistic, after all, sometimes I feel sad, because what experiences on the road of life are not completely ** now. Sometimes I think life is to enjoy and work, and sometimes I think life is to live, to sleep in your own corner, waiting for a beam of light to illuminate your life, so, when waiting, life is lonely and sad, and when you welcome the dawn, life is colorful.
People not only live to enjoy life, but also to be painters who paint their own blue sky, future architects, people should have pursuits, and people with dreams will not waste their time. Come on, fight for your own tomorrow!
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Be content and happy, and be at peace with what happens. Don't climb, don't compare, don't let the "gap" anger yourself. Face it with a normal attitude.
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You still need to write this in combination with your actual life perceptions.
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Together with my lover, I quietly blew the sea breeze on the beach and said I love you! `
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: Experience the ups and downs! Happiness is not about having much! It's less counted! Contentment.
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Don't complicate simple things, live simply, live happily.
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Dreams are about wanting to travel the world.
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Life depends on my own efforts, and my life is colorful.
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Life needs to be tasted slowly.
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The main content is the understanding of the purpose and meaning of life and the attitude towards life, including the concept of public and private, the concept of righteousness and benefit, bitter optimism, the concept of honor and disgrace, the concept of happiness and the concept of life and death. The outlook on life is gradually formed by people in life practice and living environment.
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I've been working for a while after graduating from college, and I've been doing an internship, and my family suggested learning technology, and now I'm watching it!
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I hope to travel the world one day.
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His own outlook on life is not someone else's.
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Does the outlook on life need to be talked about on this? And ask others, is this your outlook on life?
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I still think you're more reliable on your own.
Your disease should be in two aspects, one is the drug, I suggest you take some supernatant tablets to vent the fire, the other is from the heart, the body is actually very scientific Everyone has a self-regulation function, you must be in the work of things to meet the obstruction, to think about things better, I suggest you listen to the song to relax your mood, you can think, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy to live this day, every day is a new beginning, Don't bring the stress of work into your life, believe in yourself and cheer up.
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