How do you see your future being easily changed by one person?

If you want to change a person's destiny, there are only a few ways, one is to study hard, knowledge changes fate, the second is that character determines a person's destiny, the third is that the preference for opportunities can also achieve a person's destiny, and the fourth is that reform and innovation can also change a person's destiny. Let's talk about learning first, most people don't know how to study hard when they go to school, they don't pay attention to listening to the teacher's lectures in class, they don't do homework after class, they don't do workbooks, and they often fail exams, resulting in academic failure. Besides, character determines a person's fate, a person in a unit, talented, capable, will come, will definitely have a chance to be promoted, the same talented, capable, will not come to things, speak straightforwardly, will not be flexible, then there is no chance to improve, character determines fate.

The preference of opportunity can also achieve a person's destiny, opportunities are generally accidental encounters, but they are not available, not everyone is lucky to meet opportunities, so the preference of opportunities can also achieve a person's destiny. Reform and innovation can also change a person's fate, such as being optimistic about a project, boldly investing, daring to take risks, experiencing setbacks and failures, and finally succeeding, becoming bigger and stronger, making a lot of money, eating and drinking, and having a good house. A good car, money to travel, and a greatly improved quality of life, which changed the fate of the family.

In fact, changing your destiny is very simple, it depends on how you get out of your life. I came out of the countryside, if I don't come out, I will be the same as the old generation, farming, giving birth to babies, living a life of sunrise and sunset, coming out is different, I have to eat every day, I don't work hard for a day, maybe you live on the side of the road, this is life. Fate is just a carrier, depending on how you look at him, the only one who changes his fate is himself, a pebble, you put there, it is a pebble, if you put it in the training, it is a good ornament, and it is a good roadbed in the middle of the road.

Different ways of putting it will have different values. It is not others who really change your fate, but yourself.

Now you are in a low period, you are a little confused or completely denying yourself during this period, it is normal, I have had such moments. What you have to do now is not to think about what your future holds, and the meaning of your efforts ......What you need at the moment is to cheer up, such as waking up early every day, going for a morning run, listening to your favorite songs, doing your favorite sports, in short, doing something that you like and are interested in at the moment, and then most importantly, it is time to go to school, it is time to go to work, when you are tired, you can rest, and when you are sleepy, you ......can sleepThen you feel that the world is not so bad, and life is still good. Hope you're doing well.

Almost everyone goes through it, usually we can know the flaws and weaknesses of our own character, and we want to try to change, but there is always a force that pulls you back. Periodic repetition, painful. We tend to get caught up in this kind of samsara, and it's hard to get out of it.

The best way is to slowly cultivate your good habits, constantly fight against your inertia and weaknesses, slowly change, and improve every day. Don't give up even if you experience short-term regression, as long as you are progressive and upward in the long run.

Be positive and don't think too badly. When people are crushed to death, it is easy to see the last straw that crushes them, and it is easy to ignore what they have carried before. Everyone around us will have all sorts of impacts on our future, maybe just a word, maybe just an idea.

But whether this effect is good or bad is really known through the test of time.

No matter what the situation, you must insist on improving yourself, change yourself, and seize the opportunity when it comes. Blindly being anxious and irritable will not solve the problem, only by taking action and seeing your progress can you stop this emotion, which must be beneficial to your body and mind, such as reading a good book and developing a good habit. Only down-to-earth actions can improve one's ability and turn oneself into gold.

Life is sometimes like this, there will always be such and such unsatisfactory things, except for adjusting the mentality to face it correctly, there is no particularly good way. Not being able to change your major does not determine your life, and your current major may not necessarily be as good as what you want to change, not to mention that you can change your major direction through postgraduate entrance examination or study abroad? Since it's all happened, let it go as soon as possible, it won't always be unpleasant.

I sit in the first row in class every day, take better notes, ask questions in class, wipe the blackboard for the teacher, and add class cadres. Don't be late and leave early, chase the teacher after class and ask a few questions. Basically a semester is excellent, if you don't like it. Then re-read it and take the college entrance examination again.

Because I like someone and make myself better and better, this is an important change that many people will choose after meeting the other half who really makes their hearts excited, and I have had a similar experience.

It was when I first met my current wife, when I first met my wife, I fell in love with her, but at that time she was so good, and I had a lot of shortcomings, in order to be able to get the other party's recognition as much as possible, I seriously reflected on the problems in my own body, and made a lot of changes, just to make myself better, because only in this way can I truly achieve what I want, and I can really be with each other.

First of all, I got rid of my habit of smoking, for many smokers, it is a very painful thing to quit smoking, but in order to make myself better, in order to be able to really get the recognition of the other party, I gritted my teeth and persisted for two months, although I also suffered a lot in these two months, but in the end I still persevered, and finally let myself quit smoking successfully, it is because of my success in quitting smoking, but also let my overall mental state have been further improved, And it was because of this change that my wife really recognized me and accepted me.