When you meet a boy who doesn t like to talk much, how do you find a topic?

Updated on workplace 2024-04-02
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find an opportunity to enter his circle, ask him for a favor if you have nothing to do, have a meal together to discuss or discuss something, go out with friends a few times, and fall in love over time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If this guy likes you too, then I don't think you have to worry about how to find a topic. Because from the nature of gender, girls are more talkative. And when a girl likes a boy, she will have a lot of things to talk about, and there is no need for the woman to worry about how to find a topic.

    As long as girls can talk, then don't care, don't find topics.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's best to chase such a boy, watch movies, eat, drink tea, play ball, run anything, as long as he doesn't show disgust with you, you can tell him directly if you are bolder, if you feel shy, you can tell him around the bush, don't think too much. My boyfriend is like that, he didn't say anything at first, and as long as it took a long time, he was defeated.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not liking to talk is a person's personality, but there are many people who don't talk much, but the popularity is very good! If you speak appropriately and appropriately, you will naturally have friends who appreciate you, so if you want to find a topic, you should find something he is more interested in, as long as it will better integrate into his circle.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personal feelings. It's not that I don't talk much, it's just that I don't have much to say to you. So you still have to make him interested in you and what he likes first. You just talk to him about anything. Try to focus on him as much as possible and show your true side.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In my opinion, shy boys are better chased because they don't have much experience in love. Take the initiative to tease, don't think about whether he will look down on me if I take the initiative too much, anyway, the kind of person who doesn't like to talk can chase slowly, and he will talk about whatever topic he does. Anyway, I think this is the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I'm not too interested in love, of course, it has something to do with my living environment and upbringing. I have experienced the age of innocence, but later I found out that it is nothing more than that. College is an important stage in life, I still recommend learning more and precipitating more, if you want to pursue high-quality love, it depends on high personal ability.

    Only knowledge lives up to you and me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I met a guy who doesn't like to talk very much now, and he doesn't pay attention to anything you say, and sometimes he says yes, okay or something, it's really annoying, and then I don't want to talk to him anymore, and I feel like I won't talk about anything for too long.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello friend, boys often take the initiative to chat with you, but they don't look for topics, you are asking, he is answering, in fact, this boy likes you and wants to chat with you, but he doesn't know what it means to chat, and the other party has you in his heart.

    That is to say, this boy is more wooden, and his personality should be a more introverted person, that is, the kind of person who can't speak, in the case that the other party doesn't know how to communicate with you, you can take the initiative to find a topic, and falling in love requires a process of understanding each other, and you need to run in with each other, understand each other's personality and temper, so that love can get better and better.

    How two people find a topic, you can take a look at the following words, I hope it can give you a little inspiration, two people talk about common hobbies, things that they like each other.

    If both of you are skateboarders, then you can usually skateboard together and exchange experiences and ideas.

    If both of you like to sing, then you can go to KTV to sing together. If a boy can play the guitar, a boy can also play the guitar and a girl can sing, and the two of them can cooperate with each other to enhance the tacit understanding.

    Two people can describe how they were inspired by the same book or similar books, and communicate with each other.

    This can inspire each other to think about something, and in the same way, it can also avoid unnecessary embarrassment, so as to arouse the common topic of the two people to arouse the interest of the chat.

    If you have a common topic, you don't need to deliberately look for it, two people who like each other will definitely have the same hobbies. As long as you look carefully, then you will definitely find the topic!

    Finally, I wish you all happiness and love to the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The guy takes the initiative to chat to show that he is interested in you. But he didn't find a topic because he didn't want to find it, but he didn't have a topic. If you're interested in him, you can take the initiative to find a topic.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe he's not good at finding topics in the first place, and just wants to chat.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Judging from the above description, I personally think that this Ming Tangerine boy is not very good at chatting, so don't make any noise Huaiqing knows which topics you pay attention to, of course, you don't look for topics.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, about your question, what should I do if there is no topic with the boy who is happy and happy, first: how to deal with Jing Danyuan when there is no topic in face-to-face chat, then you have to take the initiative to find a topic, don't be silent all the time. This is because if there is silence, then the atmosphere between the two people becomes awkward.

    Therefore, in my opinion, it is a good idea to take the initiative to find topics. As for how to find it, it's actually very simple, you just need to provoke a topic based on the other party's hobbies, interests or previous experiences, for example, if the other party likes sports, then look for sports topics, if the other party likes games or anime, look for games to get anime problems. In addition, you can also provoke a topic according to what is happening around you, for example, when someone around you is passing by with a doll, you can take the opportunity to bring up the topic of catching dolls with him, and then take the opportunity to ask him to catch dolls together, so that the embarrassment of not having a topic can be relieved very smoothly.

    In short, when there is no topic in face-to-face chatting, it is good to pay attention to borrowing the topic, and think flexibly. Second: When we are together face to face, we don't need to say anything, if we really like it, we can look at each other and smile, take each other to the place we like, and eat the food we like.

    Due to the limited number of words, I hope I can help you.! I wish you all the best. Thank you for your inquiry.!!

    Hope I can help get you, thank you for your consultation. If there is something that you can't explain, I hope you can describe the problem clearly. It is convenient for me to solve your doubts more clearly and clearly!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason why people like to chat without a topic is that they are facing the person they like and then their brains are blank, and they don't know what to talk about or what topics to talk about with each other, so that they can arouse the other party's attention to themselves.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because I like it, I have scruples about saying the wrong thing, and in the face of the person I like, boys should take the initiative to find topics, understand the preferences of girls, and prescribe the right medicine.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As long as this boy chats with you every day, it means that this boy still feels this way about you.

    Although it is said that this boy doesn't know what kind of topic to talk about when he chats with you, it is relatively normal, because the two people who just met just don't know what kind of topic to talk about, because they haven't been in contact before, so it must be very strange at this time.

    As long as the two of you are chatting together, or the relationship between the two of you is slowly getting acquainted, I think that the stool will not be so awkward when chatting in the future, and will slowly talk about the topic of mutual interest.

    So you still don't have to be too anxious, you should still chat with this boy slowly, don't question this boy for destroying you has no feelings, I think that when the boy has no feelings for you, he will definitely not take the initiative to chat with you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't talk to him for the time beingMany love experts suggest that when talking to the person you want to communicate, you can temporarily not talk to the other party, you might as well talk to a few friends around you, or people you don't know. This will allow you to relax in a short period of time, so as to improve your charm and conversation ability, which can be said to be a warm-up process for chatting. Men have a tendency to be willing to talk to women of the opposite sex, which is called spousal plagiarism.

    Before accosting a conversation with a man you like, you might as well communicate with someone around you, in addition to increasing your ability to chat, you can also increase your charm, so as to stimulate your desire to talk to the man you like to a certain extent.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To find a topic to chat with guys, you can consider the following directions:

    Common hobbies: If you know some of the other person's hobbies, you can start with these hobbies and ask them about their preferences, experiences, and opinions to further discuss them. If you share a common hobby, it's easier to find a topic to chat about.

    Daily life: You can ask him about his recent life status, work or study events, such as what interesting things he has done recently, or what fun plans he has, etc.

    Current events: You can start with current events and discuss some current events, news, sports, entertainment and other topics to understand each other's views and opinions, and also exchange information with each other.

    If you want to chat with a guy you don't know well, here are a few things you can try:

    Say hello: Start by saying "hello" or "How are you?" "Wait, to show your friendliness.

    Find common topics: You can find topics based on what he's wearing, his surroundings, etc., or bring up some more general topics, such as weather, weekend plans, movies, and so on.

    Express your interests appropriately: You can express your interests and opinions appropriately in conversations, but be careful not to be overly abrupt or offensive.

    Pay attention to tone and body language: Maintain a friendly tone in your communication, try to avoid cynicism, and also pay attention to body language, such as smiling, eye contact, etc., to show your friendliness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Know his preferences, do what he likes, and find a common language.

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