How to forget an ex girlfriend you love a lot but don t love you?

Move around with friends. Instead of focusing all your attention on a woman who doesn't love you, you should walk around with your bosom friends more, which will both enhance the relationship between friends and distract you.

Keep yourself busy and focus on your work. Since you can't get it, let's leave. Despite the endless pain, perhaps forgetting is the ultimate direction.

But once people are idle, it is true that every moment they will think of the voice and smile of the person they love the most, and the more they miss it, the more they want to find her, and the more they find her, the more painful they are.

Go to another city, walk around every street there, eat all kinds of specialties there, release your mood, and suddenly find that in a distant place, there are so many differences, so many magnificent buildings, so many crowded people, and your heart is too narrow-minded, and you actually hang on a person who doesn't love you at all.

Don't think about the happy times you used to have with her, think more about her shortcomings and disadvantages, otherwise it will be difficult for you to forget her, and you will be very miserable yourself.

Try to keep contact as little as possible. If you fall in love with a woman who doesn't love you, it will always be you who is hurt, even if you give everything, others don't cherish it, and it's really cruel to yourself.

For a woman who doesn't love you, the best thing to do is to forget. This is the best protection for yourself, and you will also make yourself more open-minded and mature during this period of growth.

Throw away all the things she gave you, all the things she bought with her, all the things she used, all the things she left at your residence. Then he hated his heart and completely cut off the back road that reserved space for her.

In such a situation, I will choose to break up, because the other party can't forget his ex, so this kind of relationship is also a waste of time, and I should stop the loss in time.

I would have broken up with her, thinking that two people who have no feelings together will make the marriage worse, and there is no point in it.

I will strengthen communication with my girlfriend, to understand the other person's real thoughts, but also to judge according to the specific situation, I will try to change the other person's mind.

On the road of our life, we may experience a lot of relationships, and there will definitely be inappropriate places in the relationship, perhaps because two people are not suitable for living together, so after a long time, they will slowly fade, and they will be separated from each other, and it is difficult for someone to stick with a person until they get married. What would you do if your girlfriend never forgot her ex? In fact, I think that if the other party can't forget their ex, then I don't think there is any need for this relationship to continue, because staying together like this will only waste each other's feelings, make themselves unhappy, and make the other party unhappy.

One. If you can't forget the past, then don't start the next relationship.

When I am with my girlfriend, the other party always can't forget my ex, so I don't think there is any need for this relationship to continue, our life is so short, we have to be with people who love each other, instead of giving others ** feelings all the time, the other party doesn't have too much affection for themselves, and has been missing their ex, so what's the need to be together? The original intention of love is not to let two people like each other and live happily together, rather than letting themselves be in this unhappy relationship all the time. <>

Two. Breaking the connection with the predecessor is disrespectful to the incumbent.

In a relationship, the most unacceptable thing for me is that my current and ex are disconnected, at such a moment, I will resolutely end this relationship, because in the process of getting along with two people, I will make myself have a lot of suspicion, if the other party is always in contact with each other in private, my mood will be very bad, so the long pain is better than the short pain, if there is such energy, then I will not continue this relationship. There are so many people in the world that it is painful to waste time in such unhappy relationships all the time. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, what would you do if you were in such a situation?

I will choose to break up, if I don't break up, it will definitely hurt myself, and if I can't forget her ex, it will not be good for me.

You can communicate with each other, cultivate the relationship between two people, let the other party understand their love for him, if there is no way, it is best to choose to break up.

Be nice to her, most women are more emotional creatures, as long as they are good to her, she will slowly like herself.

What I want to say is that you are married, so please keep a proper distance from this female colleague. You are a middle-aged man with a family, and you are responsible for the family and your wife. If you fail to do this, then your marriage will break down as a result.

I admit that feelings are not preachy, we always can't control our own feelings, but we are already adults, we should have self-control to do the right things, and stay away from the wrong things. Love is beyond your control, there are some things that can only be thought about, and things that cannot be realized in reality, you are now thinking about her feelings, but ignoring your wife's feelings, please think about why you married your wife in the first place, why you have children.

Because of love for each other, she will give herself to you, will give you a lovely child, you have to know that your wife loves you very much, you should not give others so many feelings, learn to love your wife, as for your female colleagues, you can try to be friends again, even if you have feelings, you all know that you can't be together, so please seriously consider your choice.

I always can't forget a boy I liked before, but now that he is married, I used to have only a faint contact, and now I don't even want to contact him, since I like him, I still want him to be happy, I hope not to be disturbed by me, his family does not change because of me, even if we are together, it is not necessarily happy. This relationship is the best for me, not to destroy each other, and to keep the good that it was before.

You have passed the time to have the right to love, what you should face now is responsibility, it is your own family, how many people are hurt by the combination of the two of you, I hope you can also let go and cherish your respective families. Don't linger in these things in the future, if you let your wife know, how uncomfortable it will be, so please love this family of yours.

It is true that people will be troubled for a long time by the things that are unattainable in their youth. But whether it will haunt you for a lifetime is still up for debate.

Unless you have her in this life, she will not marry.

You'll miss her so much.

In fact, it is likely to be because of regret and unwillingness, or because the current life is not good.

1.Regret and unwillingness.

It is very likely that when you were together, you felt that the other person loved you, but you didn't respond to the other person in a good and timely manner, and you felt indebted and regretful to the other person.

Or because they are not confident enough, they feel that they can't give the other party a future, and they take the initiative to give up that relationship.

2.It's not a good time at the moment.

You haven't met a girl like her in Akagi for the time being.

Or that you yourself don't bother to spend your mind and energy on who to pursue.

The teacher thinks it's not that you can't meet a good love.

It's that you have an obsession at the moment.

You think. You won't meet someone who is as infatuated with you as you used to.

Maybe you've tried to have contact with other people of the opposite sex.

Encounter a similar scenario.

How she treated you before and how she treats you now.

There's a stark contrast in your mind.

Your judgment definition of love.

It's the one who was before who has fully given and satisfied you.

You think she's the one who loves you.

But has it ever thought about a point.

There may be something missing from your heart.

It just so happens that the person you met has it on her.

Just what can she give to you? ...

It's just that you haven't encountered it again.

It's just someone who fits your heart's needs.

At different stages.

People's mentality: Dealing with the world face to face.

More or less will change.

The more you lack something in your heart, the more you cling to something.

Able to ** our own.

It's just us.

When you really want to say goodbye to the past and start over.

You will find out. It is suitable for people who fall in love and get married.

There are still exists.

It's just a matter of time sooner or later.

Above, I hope it can help you.

Reach out to new people, and let the past pass.