I feel alienated from my dorm mates, and my relationship with my classmates has become very estrange

Buy a *** to listen. They don't know anything anymore. Only wonderful ** pull. Put on your headphones and get into the dream.

Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped; The aspirations are different, and the ways are different. In other ways, they may have something in common.

You must know that no one lives for you, and no one is obligated to accommodate your habits. Be brave and try to accept what you can't accept! Don't expect the environment to adapt to you, you have to take the initiative to adapt to the environment! Good luck

Life is like this in the world, change can change, accept what can't change

I hope you can face the difficulties you are facing positively.

If you really don't feel like you have something in common with them, do what you like, and the more you care about them, the more miserable you will feel. From time to time, you will wonder how they talk to each other, and this is the reason for your psychological effect.

But then again, as long as you are good at discovering, there will always be common interests, and you will feel very warm to have a harmonious bedroom environment.

Hopefully you'll solve your difficulties sooner, okay?

You have to learn to adapt to the environment, and there will be more such things in the future.

I'm also living in the school dormitory, oh, hehe, I have your problem too, and it is now.

Sometimes, I really want to sleep, I want to sleep, but they're always talking about something, whether it's a game, it's a girl's, or something

You can talk to them and tell them to be quiet

I'll tell you a secret of mine, oh, after a lot of self-reflection, I came up with a very effective way to sleep, and that is to put the quilt on, and I don't know why, maybe it's very secure, and whoever is fast, no matter what they say, I will fall asleep quickly, and you can try it, hehe

If you can't accept it, run away! Do what you want to do and keep yourself busy.

If you can't change others, try to change yourself.

Of course, it's not to persuade you to play games.

Listen to them talk to each other as a pleasure.

Slowly you will get used to it.

Why don't you try to talk together, maybe you won't find it annoying.

You are all classmates and dorm people, and you are destined to be together.

There's no need to disagree with them.

You also try to play the game, and you may like it too.

Two ways: 1. Accept the views of the people upstairs, change yourself, and endure humiliation, so that you will become a vulgar and cowardly person, and will affect you for a lifetime, so that you will be bound in your future life and work, and be submissive!

2. Be brave enough to change the status quo. One of the purposes of human life is to strive for one's own freedom and to enjoy one's rights. Strongly ask to change the dormitory, if not, go to rent a house to live by yourself (you can also make an appointment with one or several friends), maintain your independence, in order to be invincible in the future social competition, but also to create greater performance!

Remember, be worthy of yourself!

Just get used to it, get used to it.

Just let it be. If you feel that you should respond, you don't have to be limited to the two of them, you usually participate in more activities to meet some people, and there is always someone who is your confidant. You don't need to think too much, what gets along well is a friend, if you don't get along well, just be a nodding friend, don't force yourself.

Making friends requires trust, just as people need air and water. Trust is the key to opening the heart, and whether people are harmonious or not depends on whether there is a sense of trust. If you don't trust your friends, it's hard to be sincere.

1. Communicate more.

You may come from all over the world, whether in language or living habits may be different, so you usually have to communicate more, talk about your hometown, talk about your hobbies and personality, talk about your ideals, etc., so that you can pull in the distance between you, understand each other, and let everyone have unnecessary misunderstandings.

2. Be more considerate of others.

The dormitory is generally four people, or six people live together, so the usual life and study habits are different, which leads to some people are not used to it, so we should think more about each other, and think differently, such as don't disturb the classmates who go to bed early at night, don't make a lot of noise in the dormitory, etc.

First of all, you need to adjust your mentality, you need to know that you come from different places, have different values and worldviews, come from different families, and have different economic levels, so that you can seek common ground while reserving differences.

Are you sure it's not envy? Does it have anything to do with you if the two of them have a good relationship? Since you hate it, it's good not to look, not to listen, not to think.

The distance between you and your friends after leaving school is very common in modern society. In school, people have a lot of common interests, do the same things, and spend more time together. However, once he leaves school, Fu Sheng's personal interests, hobbies, work, and life will be very different.

With less communication and contact between the two sides, it is easy to drift apart.

Sometimes, the two will even have disputes due to differences of opinion, and even break off their relationship.

Of course, whether this situation is normal or not depends on the specific situation. Sometimes, it is not uncommon for friends to get along only temporarily, and then break up after a long time. But it can also be that there is a problem in the interpersonal relationship, and the communication between friends is skewed, which makes it difficult to coordinate in the end.

In either case, don't despair if your friends are out of touch. Sometimes it can be harder to reconnect, but it's all the more precious. We can take the initiative to make a meeting, talk about each other's recent situation, lack of partners, feelings and ideas.

In the process of communicating with each other, there may be some misunderstandings, distances, alienations and losses that are alleviated, and it may be possible to get along with each other more harmoniously.

Even if the relationship between friends sometimes deteriorates, we should not blame ourselves or be depressed. At any given time, growth and development require more profound experiences, constant experimentation, and revision. We can cherish and appreciate the good experiences we have with our friends with an optimistic attitude, and even if time changes, it will not let us lose our precious life memories.

This is a question that varies from person to person, and different people will have different ways of contacting and socializing with their roommates after college. Some people will continue to stay in touch because of their deep relationship, while others will drift apart for various reasons.

If you and your roommate have a deep friendship and mutual understanding, your bond is likely to be more frequent and closer. You can stay connected through social, social, or face-to-face gatherings, sharing each other's lives and work experiences, and getting through life's important moments together.

On the other hand, if you and your roommate don't have a very close or conflicted relationship, you may drift apart after graduation. This doesn't mean that there is no friendship between you, it's just that you Duan Li Kuan have chosen different lifestyles and social circles, and you have drifted apart.

In short, whether or not you stay in touch with your roommates after college depends on your relationship and personal wishes. If you feel that your friendship with your roommate is worth cherishing, you can spend more time and energy to keep in touch; If you feel like your life is drifting away, don't feel guilty, there are other ways to expand your social circle.

There's nothing to think about about this, of course, it's a good relationship between the two of you. Roommates are not good unless there is something particularly serious and the relationship is not good, but the relationship between the two of you used to be relatively good, and slowly because of estrangement, the relationship is average, which is not worth it.

There are also two people in my dormitory, who used to have a very good relationship, but then because of a small matter, they got a little unpleasant, and neither of them spoke. That day, my roommate happened to be angry with his girlfriend, and he was not in a good mood and was eating there, and my other roommate went over and took a dish to eat, and they had a good relationship, if they changed it, it would have been no problem, and everyone was very happy. But today he was in a bad mood, even if my roommate hit the muzzle of the gun, he disliked him and took it with his hand, and then scolded a few words and stopped eating, and threw the meal away.

After that, these two people had nothing to say, and we could all see that there was nothing to do, but the two of them would be estranged if they didn't speak for a long time, and no one was embarrassed to open this mouth first.

We also talked to the roommate who was angry with his girlfriend, and he said that he didn't know how to say it, of course we had to create a little opportunity, we just said that we would play a black game together, and then called them both on, and slowly played a few times and the two began to communicate, and after the game, we went out to eat and drink, one person went around, everyone had a communication, and it was okay when they came back, and both of them began to talk.

Of course, it's to get close to him again and keep you close

Talk to him more often, go in and out with him, maintain the habits and behaviors of when you have a good relationship, and communicate with him more, so that your relationship can be restored.

In fact, it is difficult to break off a relationship with someone, after all, it hurts feelings and face, and even makes you have to break out conflicts with the other person. You must know that the outbreak of conflict is very troublesome and painstaking, and the Cold War is also very costly. But if you're going to maintain a relationship with someone, it's not hard at all, it's not that hard at all.

Because there is already a relationship between you, there is a basis for that communication, and there is no quarrel between you, so it is natural that the relationship between you will be easily restored, and it is even possible to make your relationship with him better.

So it's much easier to renew a passionate relationship with someone than to break it off completely.

Slowly estranged because you gradually don't care about each other, but this is only very superficial, the emotional foundation between you is still there, as long as you can restore your heart to each other, continue to be enthusiastic about each other, use your sincerity to maintain this relationship, to protect the relationship between you, then your relationship can be restored soon.

The main thing is to be attentive.

In fact, feelings are very precious, but also very fragile, and very difficult to obtain, so since you used to have a good friendship between you, then you must not be estranged, because this is a pair of friends who have separated and indifferent because of something, and are no longer friends, which is a very sentimental thing.

The importance of roommates goes without saying, but when the relationship is estranged, we should take the initiative to make up for the relationship between roommates.

We go out to eat almost every week in our dormitory, on the one hand, to relieve the pressure of studying, to get rid of the tasteless but expensive meals in the cafeteria, and on the other hand, to eat regularly and make friends. In fact, eating is just a formality, it is important that we maintain contact between roommates, and dormitory culture is an important criterion for measuring the quality of college life of a college student, because you will definitely not be happy in an indifferent environment, and the quality of learning will not be very high. Our dormitory can be said to be the best dormitory in our class to maintain the dormitory atmosphere, because the personalities of the four people in our dormitory are very similar.

Since the freshman year, the four of us have basically taken classes and eaten together, and every time the class committee arrives, we don't need to order our dormitory at all. But when I was a sophomore, I talked about a girlfriend, so the pace with my roommates gradually became inconsistent, especially at night, when I was basically not in the dormitory, so there was no opportunity for everyone to have a meal together. Later, when I broke up, I really couldn't keep up with the group when I wanted to integrate into the group.

But I'm an open person, so I've been looking for opportunities to get in touch with my roommates, and I found out that I thought too much, and they have always been there, and they have never left anyone behind. This is also what touches me in our dormitory, compared to other dormitories, the relationship between our roommates is really much better than them, at least we will take the initiative to solve conflicts when there are conflicts.

It doesn't matter if the relationship is estranged, the key is to make changes and integrate into the roommates.

In fact, this phenomenon is often encountered in college life, especially in the circle of women's life, what do girls say? It's easy to be affected by the environment, and it's easy to get together and distribute, today I'm hello to you, tomorrow it's possible to get along with others because of a trivial matter, the friendship between girls is not as stable as that of boys, and it won't affect the feelings between brothers because of a trivial thing, of course, this is not absolute, there is pure friendship between girls, and boys are not all so iron.

Let's start by thinking about why the relationship with my roommates is slowly estranged. Is there some misunderstanding with your roommate? If there is really any misunderstanding, it is best for the two of them to sit down and talk about it in private, and talk about everything, besides, after all, you will not see you in the dormitory after all, maybe the misunderstanding between you will be resolved, and the relationship between you will be better than between you.

But if there is no misunderstanding between the two of you, you get along very well at the beginning, probably because the two parties do not know each other, and after a long time, you find that the two have different personalities, habits and hobbies, three views, etc., that is, they are not the same person, so the relationship between the two of you slowly fades, and your roommate slowly distances himself from you, and begins to look for new friends, if this is the case, in fact, you really don't need to sigh or be sad about it, it's just that you don't have the same will. After all, you are a dormitory, and there will definitely be intersections in the future, since you can't be intimate friends, but you still have to get along with each other, and you still have to have basic greetings, otherwise your dormitory life in the future will be very embarrassing.

So, no matter what, you have to relax, don't think so much, everything has to go with the flow, dormitory life is like this, it's easy to say it's simple and complicated, it's up to you how you think. In short, be yourself, don't go against your heart, and there's no need to be inferior to please others, so the friendship you get in exchange is not worth it.