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Because self-disciplined people generally know what they want, after having knowledge, they will only become more and more enlightened, perhaps some of their choices are willing to be ordinary in the eyes of others, but in fact they are just different in the pursuit of life, being willing to learn does not mean that they must be high-profile, 9 to 5 also need to be persistent, some people will feel tired and lose motivation in the fixed work order, but there are also people who work hard to think about their original goals and move forward, and finally get what they want.
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It may be that the people you meet are willing to be ordinary, and I think people from prestigious schools should have higher requirements for themselves, because after all, the starting point is higher than that of ordinary schools. So it's all personal feelings, not so it's all like this.
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In my opinion, people with high academic qualifications are obedient "good students" from an early age, who know how to follow the rules and follow the path paved by others, while people who do not have good academic performance receive less attention, and they will naturally choose their own path. A high degree of education may be a stepping stone or a limiting thinking, for example, a person with a high degree of education wants to find a decent and good job, while a person with a low degree can only do business on his own. Putting aside the losers in the two, this is why those with a high degree become teachers, and those with a low education become bosses, not that a high degree is useless, but when you have a high degree often limits your ambitions.
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Everyone is in the ordinary, no matter what class you are, you can't get out of the ordinary, highly educated people have no proud capital, only in the ordinary to do extraordinary things to be respected. Arrogance is a manifestation of immaturity in self-cultivation, full of losses, and humble benefits.
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Because in colleges and universities, students have more contact with the high-level in society, and the background of students is also very mixed, so although students are on campus, they also have an indirect understanding of the complex society, and rational students can objectively position themselves, and the lower-level people who have not read many books, the people they come into contact with are also busy people, and they don't really understand the society at all, let alone themselves, so they will speak falsely, which is a very normal phenomenon.
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Because now the class solidification is very serious, the consumption in big cities is high, and the housing prices are even higher fears, people who are admitted to universities in big cities with their own efforts, even if they work very hard, may not be able to afford to live in big cities, plus the relationship households that appear from time to time, you think that you are outstanding, but in fact, you may have been eliminated because of other people's relationships.
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If you are admitted to a prestigious school, you can enter the state organs, the living environment is the most superior, the small life is carefree, and you start without thinking of making progress, scientific research, product development, industry leading the world, and other difficult things are getting farther and farther away from the high-IQ people who graduated from famous schools. This is the reason why China's education and talent selection are lagging behind. The more difficult it is in China, the greater the difficulty, but often no one wants to do what leads the development of the world.
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When a person has struggled for many years and is admitted to a school of his ideals, he will feel that he has been admitted to a prestigious university, even if he does not work hard, he will graduate from a prestigious university and lose his original motivation to struggle.
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What do you define as ordinary, my mom is from Stanford, and my dad is from Princeton. Both undergraduates from one high school were admitted to Peking University and went abroad for master's degrees. Then my mom came back and did her PhD.
Now I am living an ordinary life, earning more than others, what do you define as ordinary, I think it is already extraordinary for my parents to have so many experiences in that era.
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It's not that they are willing to be ordinary, but that they are in a field that we can't reach and don't understand, so we give you the impression that they are ordinary.
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When you are surrounded by people who are better and smarter than you, and you work hard, you will inevitably feel that you are too ordinary, and your frustrated heart will lose the pursuit of your dreams, and gradually fall to the bottom of the fame and fortune society, and you will be willing to live a mediocre and stable life. After all, the person who can achieve things is one in a million, and the one who can achieve things is one in a million.
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First, what you can't get is good, and it's just like that if you try, the essence of human beings is that life is not fame and fortune.
Second, there are few people who are extraordinary, do you think that making some money is extraordinary?
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Because the ordinary is the normal state of life, the world-shattering talents are rare in the entire history.
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Because he is ordinary in his own right, it still depends on the family he was born in that determines how he lives his life.
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How do you call it extraordinary? I was born in the top 10 in the world, so I want to find a decent job and find someone I like to live a peaceful life. In addition to IQ, students from elite schools are really just ordinary people.
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First, not everyone is content to be ordinary, and second, ordinary is not the same as mediocre.
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Ordinary? Not extraordinary?
Today's extraordinary people basically have a turbulent heart, and there are many people who go astray.
The so-called ordinary people, who work hard in a down-to-earth manner, cannot give full play to their strengths in this environment, and cannot truly show their value.
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It's all mortals, what are you talking about, you are extraordinary, can you fly or can you escape.
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However, when people's material life and quality reach a certain height, they will naturally regard everything as ordinary. However, this will vary from person to person.
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The more you know, the less you know.
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Because they haven't been ordinary.
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Because they can choose the ordinary, they also have high-profile capital, and ordinary people only have ordinary.
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It's an ordinary person! Or else? Want to go to heaven?
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Because you have seen too much, and then you don't have the strength to struggle, when a person doesn't believe in struggle, what do you want him to do?
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Because they are silently great in the ordinary.
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All great people in this world feel that they are ordinary, but some people who have no ability are pretentious!
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What about the ordinary, what about the extraordinary, what is the ordinary, what is the extraordinary?
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Most people are destined to be ordinary, not something that people can decide.
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The more educated a person is, the more he knows what life is like at the top. They know the competitive pressures of working at the top. I also know the busyness and hardship of the work at the lower levels. So they would rather choose to be ordinary people and live an ordinary life.
In fact, life should be plain, when you really climb from the bottom to the top, you can experience the hardships of this transformation process, people with high education are not unable to live vigorously, but they don't want to.
Tranquility is important to them. They are talented and can also make a big difference in their work. But they don't want to compete for the limelight, and if they steal the limelight from others, there will be people who secretly complain about them and give them small shoes.
So they would rather choose to be an ordinary person and have no quarrel with the world, wouldn't it be better to live an ordinary life like this? Therefore, poets and scholars in ancient times chose to live in seclusion, and they were hidden in the city in the forest, which is the wisdom of being a man.
Being an ordinary person is the truth of life, an outstanding person, his competitors are too many, and the pressure he has to bear is too much. Those who are highly educated have read a lot of poetry and books, know the experiences of many people, they know these experiences, and they use them for themselves. Life is not easy, so why add troubles to your own creation?
Why don't you live an ordinary life? It is gold that will always shine, and they will always be useful to them, and they don't have to fight for it, which is also a kind of confidence in themselves.
Readers are open-minded, and those who really read books thoroughly are those who have a full understanding of life, and even if they choose to be ordinary, they will live an extraordinary life.
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Because life is ordinary!
Everything in life is ordinary, depending on how you understand it, some people's dream is that the children in the mountain village can receive a good education, some people's dream is to protect what they want to protect, and some people's dream is to stand on a higher stage. Everyone's dreams are different.
Nannan Rendong, the father of Tianyan, pays tribute to Nan Lao here! )
Ordinary is great, and all people who can be willing to be ordinary and never forget their original intentions are great. No matter how great the work and cause are, it is only for the people to live a safe and stable life, and the human beings on the earth can develop in the long run. Being willing to be ordinary has little to do with the level of education.
In the past, there may be a college student in the family, and being able to go to school is a dream of many people, and they are very happy and eager to be known, just like the champion of the family in ancient times, but now the living conditions are better, the education obligation is popular, and college students are basically everywhere.
For example, some highly educated people, doctors, masters, sometimes see them on the news, for example, there is one who sells pancakes, and the other goes to clean and sweep the streets. Do you still remember the national college entrance examination champion that year? A famous talent, he finally escaped into Buddhism.
In fact, I feel that this is normal, is it at a certain time, to a certain extent, that we have defined: highly educated talents can only do high-level work? Hahaha.
In fact, I personally think that some people with very high academic qualifications know and master a lot of knowledge, have a certain amount of thinking about their own lives, and have their own perceptions of everything around them, and they will not be swayed by secular views, and feel that high education must do some good work, do some lofty careers and so on.
So there are a lot of people who give up high-paying careers and treatments, and they are willing to do things that they are happy to do and feel worthwhile. Even if this career is very ordinary and is not understood by others......But what does that have to do with them? They're just doing what they want to do!
Isn't there a saying that peace of mind is "hometown".
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Now there are a lot of highly educated people, the employment pressure is too great, some highly educated people don't want to live and compete with colleagues every day, so some highly educated people are willing to be ordinary, and some highly educated people come from rural areas, and their families don't have too much money to let them work hard for their careers, and they can't find relationships to enter good companies.
They don't dare to invest some money in themselves, which is too risky, they are still willing to live their lives plainly, as long as they can eat enough and be happy at home, it is already their greatest hope.
It's a pity to think that these ordinary highly educated people can't do better jobs, and they have been studying since they were young, just to be successful one day, but the reality is always cruel and they can't do things according to their own ideas.
Many of us in life are in this situation, what we want to do can not be completed, we can only let ourselves live, find other ways out, even if the choice of the road is difficult, but also persevere, sometimes I think, ordinary life is also very good, do not have to live a busy life every day, let yourself keep your heart at peace.
Some highly educated people have achieved success, but if you want to continue to be successful, you must keep yourself motivated, and think about how to do your job every day to be better.
You may lose something when you are successful, for example, in order to make your career successful, you may not have time to care about your family, this is possible, such a life seems to be good, sometimes it will not be so smooth, now highly educated people choose an ordinary life, it is also a good choice to learn, and ordinary can also create a good life.
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Everyone has their own life pursuits, and people with high education do not necessarily have to engage in some more advanced jobs. It is possible that at a certain point in time, you have a different mind and a different view of life.
In the eyes of some people, ordinary, ordinary is the greatest pursuit of life. Just as some people like a lively environment, and some people like a quiet environment, different people have their own unique understanding of different things. It's not that it's a bad choice to live plainly, on the contrary, some people think that plain is true, and living a life of sunrise and sunset every day, living a regular and fulfilling life, this is the most important thing.
It's not that you can only be happy when you go out and reach a certain height, of course, some people just like this kind of pursuit, but different people have different choices.
The more books you read, the more different your mood will become, and you will realize that there are too many things in this world that are worth exploring and learning. However, people's life experience is very limited, and not everyone is suitable for living in strong winds and waves, so some people begin to choose to return to their own tranquility and return to the embrace of nature, which is more like an open-mindedness, not an escape as we see. After looking at a certain level of this society, the understanding of life will become different.
Just like some people, although their careers are like a kind of daylight, but they retreat bravely, although there are many people who can't understand this state.
A high degree of education can only mean that a person has acquired a certain amount of knowledge, but the knowledge obtained is indeed everyone's own choice. Some people will choose to serve the country, some people will choose to start a business to make money, and some people will choose to take the civil service examination smoothly, etc., which are just some of their own understanding of life.
Many highly educated people now choose not to marry and have children, mainly because the cost of marriage and the cost of having children are too great, so they make such a choice to be responsible for themselves.
Quality has nothing to do with academic qualifications, always talk about academic qualifications, high academic qualifications mean good learning, and nothing else can be proven.
Personally, the understanding is the same. University education is divided into liberal arts and sciences and specialized education. You can take a look, the American liberal arts colleges are the representatives.
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Why are most of the more than 95% of the elite generally highly educated? In contemporary society, there is no mine at home, and if you graduate from elementary school, your achievements will not be great. The ability to achieve requires a full-time higher education to support it!