Posted on Moments and said that someone borrowed money and didn t pay it back, so that he could come

Asking for accounts in the circle of friends does not mean that your emotional intelligence is not high enough.

In fact, it is a very correct way to let him in the circle of friends, because then you will not have any conflict with him, and you will have to return the money to you for the sake of face.

It's not that you have low emotional intelligence, it's just a sign of being very angry. It's fine, but only if someone actually borrowed money from you and didn't pay it back. In real life, there are indeed people who are good to borrow money and annoyed to ask for money, and for such people, they should be let know the consequences of doing so.

Personally, I don't think it's low emotional intelligence, because now many people have the experience of borrowing money from others or lending money to others, if you don't say your name directly, other people who have borrowed money from you and haven't had time to pay it back still think you're talking about them, so this is not low emotional intelligence at all.

If you get the name of the person who borrowed the money in the circle of friends, he doesn't necessarily have low emotional intelligence, and it is also possible that he has no other way to find him to pay back the money.

This EQ is not low, it is natural to repay debts, that person has the face not to pay back, why can't he send a circle of friends and write his name, this also warns the people around him, don't lend money to this kind of person who doesn't pay back, lending money to him is originally love, and he still has the face to not pay back, this is simple, anyway, for this kind of person, you have to send a circle of friends to force her to pay back.

First of all, I think someone borrowed money because he was very angry and didn't want to make friends with this person, I don't think it's a disease, it's not low emotional intelligence, but the person who borrowed money is too much, borrowed money for too long, and if you don't pay it back, you can go straight to your name.

If someone in the circle of friends borrows money and doesn't pay it back, the name is also brought out, which is indeed low emotional intelligence. In this way, it exposes other people's privacy.

Personally, I think that borrowing money and not paying it back is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, and if you borrow money and don't pay it back, what you lose is your integrity and personality.

said that he posted on Moments, said that others borrowed money and didn't pay it back, and he was able to give his name, is this of course low emotional intelligence? Can it be said that he has high emotional intelligence? No, he has low emotional intelligence to say this directly.

It's not a normal thing to borrow money, if you don't want others to borrow your money and not pay it back to you, then you'd better not lend it to the other party, when you lend money to the other party, then there is a high probability that the other party may not pay you back, so you still need to think about it yourself first.

I don't think he borrowed money and gave his name, I don't think he has low emotional intelligence, he wants to break off his friendship with this person and ask him to repay the money early.

This can't be said that people have low emotional intelligence, this needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and it is possible that others owe too much and have been procrastinating.

I don't think you should post on Moments, it's not good, and people will ignore you if you want money in the future.

This kind of behavior is not considered low emotional intelligence.

No, this is a clever way to never die, never to die.

Not really! When you borrow money, you think about it, and don't borrow it if you think he won't pay it back, so it's not good to post it on Moments anyway.

Yes, don't ask him to borrow money in the future.

There is no mistake at all in using the right means to protect your own interests.

Sending a circle of friends to say that someone borrowed money and didn't pay it back, and gave out his name, is this also a rival who borrowed money from someone in the circle of friends and didn't pay it back? Write out the name, this is not considered a low emotional intelligence.

I don't think it's necessary for others to borrow money and not pay it back. This is not the place and way to vent your emotions, the best way is to communicate with the other person. If communication fails, go through legal procedures.

It's not that EQ is low, there may be no way to do this, so I want everyone around me to know not to lend him money.

Posted on Moments and said that someone borrowed money and didn't pay it back, is this also low emotional intelligence? This is not a problem of emotional intelligence, it's just that you borrow money from others and don't pay it back.

It's not low emotional intelligence, it's human sophistication, this part is not clear, I don't understand, I don't understand.

This kind of thing shouldn't be posted on Moments, it will embarrass the person who borrowed money.

What you do is indeed a bit of low emotional intelligence, and this kind of thing should not be posted on Moments.

If 150,000 won't affect you too much, just borrow it, and in addition, look at your brother-in-law's character, whether it's worth borrowing back from you, ask.

Answer your object's opinion, as for the interest, don't be more serious, if you really want to borrow, you can't still struggle with these problems, after all, it's a relative, and people can't look at money all their lives, but now there are many white-eyed wolves, and there is really everything for money, so mainly look at your brother-in-law's character, borrow if it's worth borrowing, don't think about interest, don't borrow if it's not worth borrowing, just say no, there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

I don't think I borrowed it as bai

Good. In these years, it is easy to borrow du, but it is difficult to take it back. And as a relative, you are not too embarrassed to ask others to pay back, you say, right?

I don't know what your brother-in-law's personality is, but I think it's likely that he owes it when the time comes, and this will become your sponsorship of him.

You still tell him that you don't have much money yourself, and you have to keep some of it for emergencies, and you can't borrow so much. Then, ask him how he plans to borrow and calculate the interest? Is it a one-time payment or a one-time payment after 5 years? Then decide how much to borrow or not to borrow.

If you really don't want to borrow money, you should decisively refuse him and be brave enough to say no!

Explain the situation and don't be afraid to offend people. It's better not to lend money to someone else, and when you ask him to pay it back, he won't remember how good you are. When you are in trouble, he may not help for a few hundred dollars.

When he asked him to pay back the money, everyone and friends couldn't do it. People don't borrow other people's money unless they have to, I have a friend, another boy from our bunch of friends borrowed her 10,000, and she doesn't know how many times she said it in my ear. And this boy has helped her so much, more interesting than her own brother did.

If I have difficulties, I will never borrow her money for the rest of my life.

In a person's life, there are very few friends who are truly worthy of making friends. People have to learn to refuse, I deeply understand this truth this year, if you have always been good to this person, as long as you are a little careless, and you have taken care of her like a relative, she feels that you are not. Therefore, we must learn to say no, and we must be measured in our kindness to others, and we must leave distance and space.

Money is for emergency relief not for the poor, if you are sick and hospitalized, you also have the conditions, and you feel that this person is not bad, or others have helped you and can help.

Look at who borrows money from you, if it's a good friend, they can borrow money and ask for it, because everyone is familiar with it, otherwise they won't ask for it if they don't have money. For ordinary friends, to borrow money, a larger number of requirements to write an IOU, after all, not very familiar, if it is dozens of dollars, borrow once and do not pay back, next time remember not to borrow, do not think about lending him more to the account, know not to pay back, the big one will not, so, to divide the person.

First, borrowing money must be within the range you can afford, and you have enough spare money in hand;

Second, when borrowing money, you must ask the other party when you can repay it, first the villain, then the gentleman, don't be the villain;

Third, if everyone borrows, it is equivalent to charity, and the person you borrow is not grateful to you, and the person you don't borrow resents you, because you are a good person without principles, and a good person suffers;

Fourth, be good at expressing yourself, explain your situation without making them uncomfortable, you lend money to them, it shows that you understand them, if you don't borrow, they must understand you;

Fifth, the face should be thicker, be cheeky and not borrow money, be cheeky and ask for money, but the shame is that they have to learn to adapt, just get used to it, dare to take the first step, and it will not be difficult later.

Hope it helps

Explain the situation to them, if they don't borrow it, they will say that they can't turn it over.

In fact, it also requires a certain amount of courage.

Who will borrow it? Friends? If it's the Iron Party, those who have been good to you, who have taken care of you, are kind to you, it doesn't matter if you borrow something...

But those who have no money and are blind, and those who have money are flattered, simply say that they will not borrow. This kind of person is estimated to have not had many contacts, so it doesn't matter if he is offended or not... This is a personal opinion.

Live to save face, and die to suffer! When Guan Zhong had not yet made his career, he was still a scoundrel, and he always took advantage of doing business with Uncle Bao!

You can tell them that you have not paid back what you lent to someone else, and now you really have no money to borrow, and if he needs it urgently, he will borrow it from other friends. In fact, after you decisively refuse to accept it a few times, he will not borrow it from you, because he can't borrow it every time.

You just say that you can't turn around, and tomorrow you have to use it to turn around, and if you give it to him, you will hang up yourself, and no one will listen to you like this.

To put it simply, you can borrow it too, and ask whoever you want to borrow, and don't say that you want him to pay it back, it's just borrowing, you just say that you can't turn around and let them help, and you also say that you will pay it back tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. If you borrow him, let him pay off the debt, and if you don't borrow, you have to pay it back.

The ultimate pursuit of life is a healthy and happy life, when there is a certain amount of material, I begin to imagine my own health, and I have worked hard for a lifetime.

Once, you can borrow.

Twice, I can still borrow.

By the third time, I didn't borrow.

The fourth time, he came to me again, and I will explain to him the reason for not borrowing, and I don't think there will be a fifth time.

Explain your situation to them!

Don't borrow, just say that you still have to borrow someone else's money, or just say no, this is more straightforward.

There are also contracts to write about borrowing money.

Write on the door of your billiard hall that you don't have to open your mouth when you borrow money.

If you don't borrow, you won't borrow, you have to have perseverance! It's not a question of whether to offend anyone, it's a matter of principle!

I can't bear it, why do I have to borrow, everything has to be limited.

Tactfully told him that my situation was not very good.

Is she referring to women? I'm sorry, I'm a man, but if you're of the same sex as your friend, I think you'll be more mindful. Be a man at least pay attention to credit, such as suffering a loss once or twice, if this kind of thing happens again, you can do this:

If you really can't push it, you will temporarily agree, and then say after you are done, it will not be an example. If your friend still does this, there is a limit to how noble the character of a greedy person can be. You also know the truth that far villains are close to sages.

If it's a different situation, it's up to you to tell her directly, don't put it off.

Brothers, settle accounts.

You didn't make it clear before.

Others, of course, are also confused.

As for money, I think if you really think of her as your friend, you don't have to care about the gains or losses of anything outside of you.

As far as I think. They do treat you as a friend, they just like to rely on you for something. To put it simply, it's convenient to make friends.

In fact, in addition to helping them do something to charge their phone bills, what else is there to do among friends? 10 yuan is not the reason why you are worried, it is that they always treat you like this The first 10 yuan is not much. Second, she asked you to charge 10 yuan to test you, what?

It's just that you're overhearted. Maybe it's because you don't have a phone bill and don't want to use your money more.

As for things that can only save a few dollars, he always hands it over to you to help him. You don't think it's necessary, but he doesn't necessarily think so. Friends are not businessmen, you want money and goods, you help him don't care what he has to help you.

If you are a true friend, don't doubt your friend.

Tomoko's suspicion of neighbors is a good lesson.

Please don't think he's testing you, you're sincere to people, but you want someone to be comforted, and if you borrow money from me and forget to pay it back, then should I think you're testing me?

If you really can't figure it out, tell your friend, maybe he will tell you what you want to know, and someone who thinks that your friend's request may not necessarily go back to help, if it is very small and unnecessary, I will find a reason to shirk it.

I hope you will solve the confusion soon.

Such a friend keeps his distance from him, he just wants to take advantage of you... Alas, you're really good at talking, unless it's me, unless it's a very good friend. I'll help him.

Then again. If I think it's a very good friend, this money. We don't care about it.

We're about the same age). It's good for you to have this mentality, make more friends. But friends also divide a lot of them, don't serve them in one pot...

If you feel that he is not worthy of deep friendship. Then treat him as an ordinary friend, he asks you to help him, do it if you are happy, refuse if you are unhappy, don't hesitate...

It is still necessary to have some focus, otherwise there will be no people and money.

The friendship between friends is not maintained by money, friends need to help each other, if you have been depressed recently, you can also find some confidantes, or the object of confidante (it is better not to know each other), spit out these unhappiness, and the mood will be better.

Be cautious about making friends, and if there is no friendship between you anymore, or if your friend is using your friendship to ask you for something, do so.

No one borrows, but borrows money.

It comes to hurt feelings.

The thing, because I don't borrow money, I hurt my feelings, I hurt when I hurt my feelings, and I can't pull it where I can get it! Don't have this kind of feeling. Is a relationship bought with money still a feeling?

Borrowing money is to save the emergency not to help the poor, in the event of natural disasters and man-made disasters, you can't get the money for a while, no matter who you have to borrow it to help it tide over the difficulties, marriage This kind of thing has money to do the key point, if you don't have money, it's simpler, don't slap your swollen face and become fat, if they have the ability, they won't borrow money from you, since they are looking for you to borrow money, they are not capable, how to pay it back after they are incapable? Whose feelings did you hurt when you didn't get on yet? If you voluntarily give them money and don't need to pay it back, that's a different matter, otherwise no one will borrow!

By the way, I would like to remind you, no matter how difficult it is, don't think about borrowing money to spend, the money is easy to repay, and the debt of love will not be paid off in a lifetime.