Should I give up on this crush?

No, but if she really doesn't like you, don't force her and give up. Find another one!

I think he may feel a little unacceptable, because you have always been good friends before, and she may not be a little confident in herself, I think you should work hard at this time, don't give up, give her a little more time.

I think you should let go, not give up. You should let go of her as a person, but you can keep your feelings for her, and she is just a carrier of your feelings. Your feelings for others, especially love, are difficult to forget or give up, the important thing is that you should let yourself understand that she doesn't love you, she thinks you are not good, love doesn't talk about feelings, she said that you can only be like friends, this is how she feels about you, at your age, we can't guarantee how firm and lasting the love for others will be, how long-lasting, you still keep this feeling for her, and have already confessed, it is her love who is not blessed and thin, where is there no grass at the end of the world, right.

The man takes it up and puts it down, and it should be magnificent.

I'm glad you can ask me questions.

From the standpoint of a girl, I think, "I rejected you decisively, and said that you are very bad like this, that is very bad", I should really not like you. I used to have a boy I liked, and he liked me, but my dad said (of course my dad didn't know about it) that if you let me know you're in love, you don't need your legs. It's really deterrent.

So when he was about to confess to me, I ran. It really hurt him a lot now that I think about it. But if you like someone, you won't say that this person is so bad or that way, you will only feel very embarrassed and don't know what to do.

Explain that the other person's feelings have changed, that they perceive that the two people are not suitable, or that they have simply lost their patience because they are not open enough on both sides. The two people obviously had a crush on each other, but they didn't seize this opportunity to confess in time, which led to the end of the relationship. Although it is a pity, it is also reasonable, and it is not difficult to imagine.

Feelings change. Personally, I feel that the other party chose to give up before they were officially together, and the most direct problem is that her feelings have changed. Maybe she was having an affair with several people at the same time, and finally determined the person she liked, or maybe it was just a temporary good feeling, and after a few days, she found that she was tired of it, and she didn't want to continue her crush.

When she discovers her transformation, she doesn't hesitate to let go. After all, it has never started, and there is no need to explain to the other party.

Sensing that the two were not suitable, they withdrew in time. The process of crushing on each other is actually a process of increasing mutual understanding. If two people have a compatible personality and get along happily, then this crush may be able to speed up the pace, say happy as soon as possible, and officially be together.

But at the same time as the heartbeat, I found that the other party has habits or experiences that I can't accept, which is like placing a stone in my heart that cannot be broken, which is unbearable. Then it is possible for her to withdraw from the emotions of love, start to think calmly about whether the two of them still need to continue, and choose to give up according to her wishes.

Expectations are disappointed, patience is exhausted. Crush is always a person's love, the other party does not necessarily know, and mutual crush is even more suspenseful, everything is just speculation, sometimes certain, sometimes flickering. And once the crush lasts for a long time, the speculation will turn into negation, denying the other party's intentions, and also accelerating the emotional change of one's own disappointment.

Especially for girls, they are already more sensitive and careful, and can detect all changes in their relationship. If the relationship is not truly certain, their hearts will hang in the balance. This expectation is constantly disappointed, and the process of patience is nothing short of torture.

This shows that the girl's feelings for you are not particularly sincere, there is a fate between the two of you, the girl thinks that being with you may affect himself, or he thinks that you are not the one who is worthy of his life, and thinks that continuing the crush will affect him, or he has met someone he likes more.

It may be because he doesn't like you much, or because he likes another person, or because he can't get a response from you for a long time, so he gives up, it may be because he decides to forget you, it may be because he doesn't like you for various reasons, or it may be because he thinks you are not worthy of his liking, so he gives up.

It shows that the girl feels that she has no future with the other party, or she may feel that she is not suitable for what she is doing, or she may see her own shortcomings, and the other party can't accept it.

It means that he is impatient, he may be a three-minute hot person, or he can't see any hope in you, so he chooses to give up, if a person is too active in love, he will be tired after a long time.

When they are in love, girls want boys to take the initiative, because every girl wants to experience the feeling of being loved.

1. Finally let go of the other party and let go of yourself.

When you have a crush on someone, you will unconsciously become humble, and the other party's every move can easily affect your mind, but all emotions only belong to yourself, and the other party will never know the ups and downs of your heart. Once you decide to give up this person who has been secretly in love for a long time, it means that you have finally decided to let go of that silly and simple self, and also let go of that imaginary self.

Second, there is a sudden relief and relief.

The hard work of having a crush on someone is only known to you, the kind of entanglement that you want the other party to know that you like her, but you are afraid that she will find out that you like her, only you understand. The crush is so painful, I have wanted to give up countless times, but I have never been cruel to myself. When I finally make up my mind and decide to give up and continue to like that person, I will have a sudden relief and relief, as if the boulder that I have suppressed for a long time in my heart has finally fallen to the ground, and my heart will no longer be as erratic as before.

3. There is a feeling that you can be refreshed.

For a person, giving up a person who he has had a crush on for a long time is actually saying goodbye to his past. It is not only the relationship that belongs to oneself that is let go, but also the self that is up and down in this relationship. When a person gives up the person he has a crush on, it also means that he finally musters up the courage to face himself, start his new life, and say goodbye to his past self.

1. Boredom. Because of the formation of habits, suddenly give up will be a little confusing, I don't know what to do every day, every day will not affect his mood because of some of his actions, and I will not go to ** his every move every day, I will not see what he is doing, I will not pay attention to him from time to time, at this time your time will be empty, you will start to not know what to do, and start to be bored.

2. Relieved. will not slowly begin to get used to life without him, and then he will slowly let things fade out of your field of vision, and you will slowly begin to forget about your secret love, and slowly you will be relieved.

3. Be a better version of yourself.

One less person who affects your emotions, one less person who you have been paying attention to wasting time, your energy may be slowly invested in your study or life, and you will slowly become a better version of yourself and a better person.

Summary. My dear, it is very hard and very tiring to have a crush on someone, because I blindly miss and pay, but I can't get anything in return, and the most important thing is that the other party doesn't know, so in this case, you have to be brave enough to confess to the other party, how do you know if the other party's mind is a confession failure, at least I have tried hard, and I won't regret it in the future, if you give up before you confess, then this will also make you regret <>it in the future

I want to give up my crush.

My dear, it is very hard and very tiring to have a crush on someone, because I blindly miss and pay, but I can't get anything in return, and the most important thing is that the other party doesn't know, so in this case, you have to be brave enough to confess to the other party, how do you know if the other party's mind is a confession failure, at least I have tried hard, and I won't regret it in the future, if you give up before you confess, then this will also make you regret <>it in the future

Teacher, do you know any quick ways to forget?

The best way to forget a person is to find another person, or to travel for a few days to relax, of course, the best is to find someone, because if you have someone around you, he cares about you every day, and after a long time, you will naturally forget about the other person.

Why don't you confess to the other person?

I'm too young to want to ruin him, let alone myself.

How old is he? Second.

How old are you. Some people know they can't, but they just meet it. So even if it's in pain, you can only relieve yourself.

In fact, you are still young, and the days ahead are still very long, so you can get along with each other in the way of ordinary friends.

But I love you and it has nothing to do with you, I know he has a girl he likes, but it's not destined to be me.

In fact, at this age, liking someone does not mean that you will like it in the future, so it is best for you to get along with him as an ordinary friend now, and maybe you can still get together in the future.

One; Because after I started chasing stars, I found that he didn't seem to have any merits, and he sent a couple bracelet with his girlfriend to announce his relationship.

Because after receiving the selfless and warm love of others, I finally understand that your casualness is not worthy of my affection.

Because I found that my existence was only an intrusion for him.

Because I never had the chance to see him in my life.

Your life is too far away from me, I have looked in your direction for too long, and I know that there can no longer be intersected, and it will only increase my troubles if I keep it, so it is better to end it myself.

After deleting it, I was relieved for a moment, and I turned around and burst into tears. The end of a crush is like the beginning of a crush, which begins quietly and ends quietly. The taste of a crush is only understood by those who have experienced it with repentance.

If you feel like you shouldn't be spending your time and energy on your crush, turn away.

Third, whether you are having a crush or are ready to give up your crush, you have to make yourself strong and make yourself able to afford to let go. Some people can be easily erased with time.

Because there will always be someone who stops for you, who will know your goodness and give you warmth. I especially like Mr. Shen Congwen's words:

I have walked on bridges in many places, seen clouds many times, drunk many kinds of wine, and yet I have loved only one man of the best age.

Giving up a person who has been secretly in love for a long time is more of a sudden enlightenment! Crush is bitter and sweet, but making bitter and sweet is all for others, a virtual character, and a fantasy object. That feeling of caution can only be truly appreciated by someone who has had a crush.

However, after giving up, you will have a trance-like feeling, feeling that it was not Ling Zhilu before that it was very real, and even a feeling of self-doubt. Sometimes, we idealize and perfect the person we have a crush on, which is why we suffer from gains and losses. In fact, he or she may just be an ordinary person.

Since you're planning to give up, I'm sure you've figured it out. Moreover, you will slowly find out that he (she) is not as important as you think, it is already in the past!