Every man and woman has to face a problem that gives 200 points for satisfaction

It depends on whether she takes the initiative to tell me, if she takes the initiative to tell, I will still love her, if she doesn't tell, I found out, but if she takes the initiative to admit it, I will still love her. Only if I don't admit it to death, then I can't help it, I can't be with someone who deceives me.

I don't want to divide ... Just to make a point.

A 200-point question is generally too difficult.

Few people answered, but not all.

Personally, I feel that there are more people who answer questions with 100 points.

200 points because I found a lot of things that I couldn't find ......So he asked someone else to help him find it

50 points must be something urgent or something he can't find

There are fewer people out of 200. There are many people with 50 points!?

Is it my delusion!??~

I want to tell you this: even if you are born indifferent to fame and fortune, and you only want to have three or two confidants and a good book, you must have someone who shares your philosophy of life and can appreciate you for spending your life together. The so-called radish and cabbage, each has its own love, and there will definitely be people who appreciate you if you lie in this world.

Don't look for the wrong person, know that what you see as a good thing in one person may be an unacceptable disadvantage in the eyes of another.

In addition, there is another element of marriage, not the character, not the amount of money, nor the taste of eating, but whether you can really relax in front of the other person.

In front of the other party, you can not brush your teeth and wash your face; You can put your legs on the table; You can cry out loud; You can talk a lot......In short, all your words and deeds, whether good or ugly, good or vicious, can be undisguised in front of the other person. If that's the case, congratulations, you've found someone you can live with for the rest of your life.

Imagine how tiring it would be if you had been dating someone for three or five years and still had to wear a mask in front of them.

The most important thing is whether you love him or not, if you love him, you should believe that love can transcend everything, and it is easier for you to change yourself than to change others!!

He may have an inferiority complex when facing you, and I think you should encourage him through every detail of your life

I also graduated from college, but I think that many college students still like to enjoy comfort, it is difficult to have the motivation, and those who have a low starting point have more motivation and motivation to work hard They are not afraid of failure, they are not pampered, less high, and more self-humble

You have to grasp every detail of life to encourage him, he should have a lot of other advantages, but he is not as good as you in terms of study and work for the time being

For example, if he is very good at something, and you can't do it, you worship him. inadvertently tell him more successful cases of entrepreneurship with low education to encourage his self-motivation; Tell him more, the comfort of being his own boss gives him the motivation to fight

In fact, first of all, you should have a kind of confidence, a willingness to work hard, not like a civil servant leisurely, you have morale first, and it will definitely drive him

What is not a gap, alas, my boyfriend is a secondary school student, but we have a lot to say, he will learn from him, I also affect him a lot, as long as people have a long insight, how broad-minded, there is no gap at all, it's just a matter of time.

Personal post bar - Harry Bolong's love rice field, share your and my feelings.

I don't think there are some things that you don't need to expose him when you know the truth, maybe you can communicate with him.

In fact, if there is a gap in education and ability.

If you really love each other.

Those are not the main reasons.

It depends on where the contradiction between you is.

Then go and deal with him.

I wish you all happiness.

First of all, in your opinion, what is the gap? Culture, connotation, or perception of life?

If you feel that there is a gap, then why did you fall in love in the first place, it seems to be your boyfriend's problem now.

It's not a question of how to change it, it's whether it's possible.

Human inferiority complex and comparative psychology are common problems among men, and to change such problems, unless you put down your body and are gentle and obedient to him, and do not talk about any problems related to work, and do not take a suspicious attitude towards his affairs.

Then again, if you feel cheated, why do you want to stay together?

There are some things that can be tried to change, and some things that cannot be changed.

Then use your own actions.

Look at what he's going to do.

If you don't have time, you can ask a friend to help you.

See what the hell he's doing.

Your boyfriend still has a bit of an inferiority complex, so communicate more with him.

In fact, the most important thing is that you must have faith.

You can encourage him more in your daily life, and I don't mean you saying to him that I don't care about the gap. I mean to give him more affirmation in normal times, to make him feel that you have to rely on him, to make him feel that he is important to you. For example, if you ask him to do some things for you, you can say that you can't do it yourself, and when he finishes it for you, you can praise him for doing things beautifully.

Slowly, he gained self-confidence.

Try it, and believe you can do it.

Hehe, heart disease still needs heart medicine, your boyfriend has low self-esteem, your boy's current psychological condition will have a great impact on his future life, many couples have this situation, and the inferior party will always find someone who feels commensurate with him and can afford to have an underground affair, so the consequences will be difficult to clean up.

The solution is to communicate with your boyfriend more sincerely, not only to show that you care about him, love, but also to encourage him to take time to go to night school or training courses, etc., when he gets his college diploma, his inferiority complex will disappear.

Men always have vanity.

Be considerate of him.

But at the same time, you have to communicate with him well.

It seems that he truly loves you.

And you love him.

So I think you'll be happy.

Don't back down from momentary difficulties.

There should be more communication between the two people.

Understand each other in communication.

Learn to understand too.

Be with him more, do what he wants, admit that you belong to him, listen to his domination, let him trust that you will not leave him because of the gap in education, and let him have self-confidence. Just give it a try!

It's a feeling in his psyche!

If you want to get rid of this feeling! He's going to work hard, too!

It's not just you!

As long as there is love, there is hope! You can tell him that no matter what he is, you will love him and will not leave him, and maybe it will be better to say something that will make him feel good!

Communicate more with him, my wife and I just found a place on the Internet, wrote down everything I wanted to say and told each other, so that communication can avoid the intensification of some contradictions.

You have to talk to your man that a man can't have a career.

Tell him to work harder, and you support and remind him from time to time

Have a good talk with him, say what you think, I hope that the two hearts that love each other should be transparent, whether it is troubles or troubles, they should be put out and discussed.

I also encourage him to work hard, although he may not be as good as you now, but it doesn't mean that he will be in the future. You want him to cheer up, you want him to keep improving, and try to beat you. I think if he really loved you, he would do it well. He will work hard to give you happiness.

Why not give him some time and if he improves, you keep being with him.

If after a long time, he still looks melancholy now, a man who can't untie the knot in his heart, what's the point of you being with him?

The above is purely my personal opinion, I hope my suggestions are useful to you.

Communicate with him well, usually care more about him, so that he can face the reality, men want to be successful and have the ability to protect their girlfriends.

Let him know that you don't care about anything else, that the person you love is not academic and material.

Hehe. It seems that there are girls like me, so let's shake hands with the landlord first. I'm going to be in the same situation right now. If you can have a good idea, thank you in advance.

Boys. Alas.. The conditions are good and proud.,The conditions are not as good as the girl's and he is inferior.。。。 Fainting.。。。 Annoying.

Ask for leave to accompany him, men will die to save face and hate

Have you ever noticed that when men and women are together, if the woman's ability is stronger than the man's, then they are actually very difficult to get along with...

It's probably all a law!

I think if you want to be happy all your life, character is the most important thing!

Don't look at these two men yet. Listen to your own heart first, what kind of man you think can give you happiness in your heart, and write it down.

If you fancy your appearance, naturally choose a second man.

If you fancy the wealth of the present (note that it is the present), then you should naturally choose the first one, if you fancy the wealth of the future, then you should evaluate the ability of the two to make money, if you fancy the family harmony, then you have to look at the family of the two families, to contact more parents, if you fancy the feeling, it depends on who is the most to you.

Don't be so arbitrary, analyze comprehensively, don't just look at one side.

As for money, it can be earned at any time, as long as a person does not die, as long as he works hard, the money will come! But there are some things that don't come by saying, such as height, does he have so much money to make him taller? No!

One of my cousins' family is very rich, but my cousin's height is not ideal, and he spent a lot of money to increase his height, and in the end he is still the original height! So, there are some things that are not available, and there will be later; But there are some things that don't exist now, and probably never will!

So my answer is to choose the guy with less money but the ideal height!

Let's go a little further: do you want your child to be so short in the future?

To be honest, I'm not discriminating against this brother Ang, I'm just talking about things, Mi Ye is too short! It is not recommended to be nice with him!

100,000 can only fall in love and marry 10 million.

Human beings are realistic creatures, in this society, 100,000 men have no houses and no cars, do you want to crowd the bus alone to live in a rental house after getting married and pregnant? And the reason is simply that he is poor and has to work hard.

On the contrary, 10 million men love that you can have a car to take you to a very good hospital [ps: Simulated scene of pregnancy after marriage].

Regarding the 'money can be earned' downstairs, I must remind you that if you choose 100,000, you and your husband will not be able to earn 10 million in your life, unless you don't eat or drink, don't let the child fall into the pie in the sky and hit the luck.

In the past, we had just come out of the society, and the salary was only a few hundred yuan, and we have been working hard, but now there are thousands in a month, and we are still working hard, and we find that we have never stopped. The starting goal is 1,000, and now the goal is 10,000. When you have millions, there are billions of goals.

Rely on your hands to work hard with him to pursue your dreams. Step by step. Men become bad when they are rich.

I don't know how to answer. It's true. Because you only mention their appearance and money, it is enough to prove that you only value appearance and money, so which one you choose is just as superficial, because appearance and money are superficial things.

Both of these are excellent, are you sure you love both?

If it's me, I'll choose 10 million.

Why? You can earn so much, understand a lot, not frivolous, not reckless.

Otherwise there will be no achievement.

Actually, it's up to you.

Prefer which.

No matter what his appearance and wealth are, I only choose the one I love.

With someone who doesn't love you, or someone you don't love, that kind of pain can't be ***.

Once again, I feel that there is no true love in the world, only desire, you can do whatever you want, this kind of thing still needs to be asked.

It's not about marrying someone else, it's marrying you, and you just think it's good, and it has nothing to do with other people. If I'm a woman, I don't want anyone, whoever is good to me wants whom? Does it matter if they are good or not?

Just talked about appearance and money, other aspects are important, I didn't say it, I can't judge.

Whichever you like, unless you can ignore the money, you can't ignore it, you can choose 1000.

100,000 tall and handsome, because everyone likes good-looking, believe you too.

10 million... Well, if you really think you can afford to play, you can manage.

But if you don't have that much energy ...

Nature? Age? Diathesis? The key is to look at these three aspects. What has connotation and what you can get along with your personality is more important than anything else!

If you want to be material, it's the 10 million, and if you want to go out with face, others praise your boyfriend for being good-looking, and you want the 100,000, put it aside, you have to choose what is really good for you, just follow your heart, don't ask others this kind of question, ask yourself.

Whichever is good for you, choose whichever is better. It's people who you're going to live your life with, not money. So choose the one you are most comfortable with.

10 million people will think that there are beautiful women everywhere. 100,000 will.