What is it like to graduate from a prestigious school but mix it up?

A 985 graduated, after graduation, I felt that the professional was too easy to do and I couldn't bear to give up, so I went to a research institute in a third-tier city, and in the year I graduated, it happened that the house in the third-tier city began to rise wildly, and I missed the opportunity to buy a house.

For the sake of a civil servant, I have withdrawn my graduate students, and I have also withdrawn ...... schools that others can't get intoJust to go back to my hometown to receive a salary of 3,000 a month, I think everyone has their own ambitions, and I don't have much experience. ‍‍

Generally 211, 3 years after graduation, 4k monthly income, nothing, it's too boring. ‍‍

The work is not unsatisfactory, to be precise, there is no spring breeze, and life is as light as the white clouds in the sky, fluttering and fluttering. ‍‍

When I was young, I always felt that I would eventually counterattack, but now I find that the gap between me and my classmates is getting bigger and bigger, and I can't help but feel a little depressed. ‍‍

Seven years after graduating from Nanjing University, I still have no house, no car, no money and no girlfriend, and I don't know what I have done all these years. ‍‍

985, the top 10 engineering schools, graduated this year, insisted on going home to work, and still has not landed. Looking at the life of the people around me, I can't tell if I have any suffering. . .

I am also a famous school, and my majors are among the top three in China. After graduation, I changed my career to finance, but my classmates are all working in the field of their major, and I am still very envious, after all, I like it. ‍‍

Growing up is the process of slowly realizing that you are just an ordinary person. Ambition before graduation, dreams of breaking out of the world; Compromise step by step after graduation.

Graduates from prestigious schools are not good at mixing, and they are indeed quite inferior. I can understand the feelings of the students.

A prestigious school is just a process, and it depends on strength to go into society.

Don't be sour, 985 must be alive and well, unless there is a problem with the major. Don't take the individual for the majority.

I don't dare to say that I graduated from that school. Low self-esteem to home.

I don't think a prestigious school may have my experience, it's very cool, so cool that I don't have friends.

If you graduate from a prestigious school, your major is not good, and you are really mixed in the company.

School IQ and society are emotional intelligence ability contests.

Isn't it learning knowledge when you go to school? Does it have anything to do with whether it is good or not? Besides, what does it mean to mix well? What does it mean to be mixed badly? Is there a definition? The more people talk nowadays, the more they don't understand.

I saw it, I just wanted to complain about 985 ......

Mine is actually not bad, but I am embarrassed to say that I have lost the face of my alma mater at this level. Now I only have a girlfriend worth a little money. ‍‍

The top 20 engineering schools graduated from liberal arts majors, but the majors are not so bad, and the university is in Chengdu. Just graduated 2 months ago. In a company in Hangzhou, the probation period is 2000 for three months, and the probation period is 2500 at the end of the probationary period. I don't know what I'm messing with. ‍‍

Interviewer: Zheng Lihan.

Interviewee: Psychological counselor Li Qian.

Chinese society has always admired famous schools, and graduates of famous schools have their own halos. It is actually fair that there are more opportunities to graduate from prestigious schools, after all, the college entrance examination is a very good way to select elites, and it is reasonable for the society to give the winners a broader space for development.

On the other hand, it is not easy to succeed if you do not graduate from a prestigious school, and to some extent it is reasonable, but it is not absolute. On the one hand, it depends on what you think is the standard of success, whether it is material success or spiritual wealth, if it is only spiritual wealth, there is no fixed standard for making money materially, I think it is entirely possible for graduates of ordinary universities to achieve, on the other hand, the graduation certificate of a prestigious school is just a stepping stone to a good industry, and whether you will succeed in the future depends on your efforts and the contacts you develop in your work.

And the success of a person who has graduated from college in general proves his strength and shows his strong perseverance. The most obvious example is Ma Yun, who was forced to engage in the Internet at that time, although the profits were not good at that time, Ma Yun still worked hard for decades, and only after many deep buoys did he have today's achievements.

Therefore, success does not mean that you win at the starting line, but to see who can have the last laugh, which is a competition of comprehensive quality in life.

1.Field of Expertise: For some specific areas of expertise, a degree from a prestigious university can improve the competitiveness of job seekers. For example, in fields such as finance, law, medicine, etc., many employers prefer to recruit graduates from reputable universities.

2.Subject rankings: Even if your university isn't a top university, ranking high in a particular subject may increase a candidate's competitiveness. This reflects the high level of education and research in this specialty.

3.Experience and skills can be used to make a difference: Compared to the university, personal experience and skills are more important or important. Accumulating experience and the necessary skills through internships, volunteering, or other volunteer projects will open up more opportunities in the job market.

4.Networking resources: Networking resources such as alumni organizations and networking events can help find job opportunities and support personal development.

In conclusion, regardless of whether one graduated from a top university or not, one should focus on self-growth and use all available resources to improve one's personal competitiveness to get the dream job.

In the field of education, prestigious schools and ordinary schools are widely discussed. While both types of schools can provide students with educational opportunities, there are some significant differences between elite and ordinary schools in terms of the quality of teaching and learning, the quality of teachers, student competition and academic performance.

First of all, elite schools generally have better teachers. In prestigious universities, professors and researchers have a higher academic reputation and a wider range of academic exchange activities. These teachers also ensure the quality of education and the effectiveness of teaching methods.

In ordinary schools, the quality of teachers may be relatively low, and the quality and effectiveness of teaching will also be affected.

Secondly, the pressure of competition is also a clear difference between prestigious schools and ordinary schools. Students often encounter more competition at elite schools, where academic rankings and careers are closely linked. In ordinary schools, there may be less competition and more cooperation and seeking common ground while reserving differences.

However, there are also ways to help students in regular schools overcome the gap. One way to do this is to get involved in school extracurricular activities, clubs, and volunteer activities. These activities not only enrich students' social experience, but also improve their leadership skills and teamwork skills.

In addition, by using the Internet and social platforms, you can also improve your knowledge level and enhance your learning and development capabilities. In addition, making full use of resources, such as libraries, labs, and other academic resources, can also expand one's knowledge.

In short, there is a big difference between the gap between elite schools and ordinary schools, but as long as they make full use of their own advantages and resources, and work hard to learn and develop their abilities, practices and beliefs, students in ordinary schools can also achieve good results and development.

Prestigious universities and ordinary universities have their own advantages and disadvantages, which are crucial for the growth and development of every student. If you want to challenge yourself to come to a prestigious school, then you need to put in more effort, but you will also get more rewards. If you choose an ordinary university, you also need to give full play to your own potential and discover your own shining points.

This may be encouraging news for students who want to choose a prestigious school or an ordinary university. So, what is the biggest difference between a famous school and an ordinary school? How can this disparity be overcome?

1. The fierce competition among students.

In prestigious schools, the degree of competition between students is generally relatively high, which is also one of the learning environments of elite schools. Most of the students admitted by the school are high-achieving students, of course, this does not mean that the students are not qualified for their studies. However, this means that students at elite schools will face very high academic pressure and a competitive environment.

Conversely, competition for students in ordinary schools is relatively low. The school's admissions standards are relatively relaxed, and the difficulty of unified learning is not too high. This means that students can easily adapt to school life in such an environment, but this is not an effective way to stimulate students' enthusiasm for learning.

2. Teacher-student ratio.

Student-to-faculty ratios at elite schools are generally low, which means that professors can pay better attention to students' learning and accurately support students' learning abilities. In such an environment, the task of professors is not only to teach knowledge, but also to guide students to think, inspire and help students discover their potential, and even provide students with research opportunities. However, the average university usually has a higher student-to-faculty ratio than a prestigious university, and there will be a greater difficulty in managing the classroom environment.

Professors are not able to pay attention to every student well and provide timely teaching support to students. Students' attitudes towards learning can also be affected by issues such as the quality of teaching, such as the perception that learning is too difficult or that the learning content is too strenuous.

3. Teaching. The first thing to talk about is the teaching aspect. Prestigious universities usually have a group of high-level teaching teams, which will have strong scientific research experience and leading academic research results, as well as high-level education and teaching theory and practical ability.

These professors are constantly updating their textbooks with each semester and are strict about student engagement and test scores. In such a learning environment, students will be exposed to cutting-edge academic ideas and scientific research results, and will be motivated and challenged to their academic abilities. Compared to hollow, the level of teaching in ordinary universities is relatively ordinary.

Because there is no suitable development path, or because the heart is high. The workplace is more competitive, so you need to adapt slowly and start from a lower position. Coming from a prestigious school may be arrogant and affect personal development.

Because there are many students who graduated from prestigious schools who do not study hard, and the knowledge they have mastered is not strong enough to draw inferences from one another, so they get worse and worse after work.

First of all, because after entering these companies, they feel that they have a sense of superiority, or that their abilities are relatively strong in the eyes of others, so they will be very easy to satisfy.

Especially when recruiting students, the gap between ordinary schools and prestigious schools can be highlighted

The first is to make pure teachers.

Elite schools are more likely to attract relatively good teachers to work because their fame is there and the pay is very good.

At the same time, prestigious schools also have a mature training system. The teaching staff is generally highly educated, and the business growth is fast.

Second, management.

The management level of the leaders of prestigious schools is higher, more humane, more scientific, and more respectful of the professional authority of teachers. However, ordinary schools are prone to face an embarrassing situation, and many educational problems arise and do not adapt to the laws of education.

Third, teaching.

The overall level of teaching in prestigious schools is definitely higher than that of ordinary schools. For example, teachers at prestigious schools will have a variety of activities: group teaching research, large group teaching research, semester evaluation, individual presentation, etc.

Fourth, the source of students.

There is no doubt that students of prestigious schools are better because prestigious schools are not easy to get into. Previously, only wealthy and powerful families could enter prestigious schools. Now, with the reform of educational equity, more and more students are able to enter such schools, which also means that the difference in student origin is gradually narrowing.

Fifth, comprehensive quality.

The parents of students in prestigious schools have relatively high comprehensive quality, higher knowledge level, higher education level, and pay more attention to their children's education, which has laid a good foundation for their children's future education. Therefore, the comprehensive quality of such children is also relatively high.

In real life, parents in ordinary schools, in general, have a low level of education and cannot provide a good education for their children. Therefore, this kind of students have a weak foundation for radical learning and do not have a good learning atmosphere. Relatively weak academic performance.

Sixth, the school spirit.

When many parents choose a school, they are afraid that their children will come into contact with some bad classmates and form bad habits, which will have a bad impact on their future development.

The management of the school spirit in the famous school has done a good job, so that parents can feel more at ease.