What are some ways to become confident?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't understand, you can learn, learning is the best, and in this process, you will continue to experience yourself to make yourself stronger and more confident. When you take action to accomplish something that you think is impossible, you start to become better, and in the process, you will slowly become more confident. In fact, the main thing that is not confident is to avoid it, everything that should happen will happen, and the person or thing that should be faced must be faced.

    Develop the courage to be confident and face all. Exercise self-confidence, study more, read more books, and communicate with others more. Improve your knowledge and increase your self-confidence. ‍‍

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Face up to your own shortcomings, work hard to improve, and improve your abilities. Actively change your external image, but also make yourself more confident, learn to wear makeup, dress, active fitness, and become beautiful. Develop a confident temperament. Speech and demeanor also make you feel confident.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In my own opinion, self-confidence is a certain mentality of dependence in the heart, just like a student who can usually score 100 points in the exam, he must be very confident when he takes the exam, and an ordinary boxing champion must be confident when he asks him to fight an ordinary person, because he is confident, if he is allowed to fight Tyson, he will definitely lose his self-confidence in an instant. Generally speaking, learn more, improve your ability in all aspects, self-confidence comes naturally, and develop a fearless character, this thing is not born with it, many of them are acquired personality. ‍‍

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are many ways to become confident, such as reading biographies of celebrities or encouraging myself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Self-confidence is self-belief in oneself. I don't believe in myself, it is my own words and deeds, I can't get recognized by everyone, I can't achieve the expected goals, then I have an inferiority complex, if you want to achieve self-confidence, you must learn more knowledge, humbly learn the strengths of others, make up for your own shortcomings, arm your own mind full of knowledge, knowledge, solve problems, and achieve the expected goal, only in this way may produce self-confidence.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find your dreams, set goals, transform big goals into small goals to achieve gradually, clarify the direction, take one step at a time, and take your time. When you don't have anything to rely on, you know that everything can only be relied on yourself. The spirit focuses on beauty, and the mentality focuses on sunshine.

    You just have to work hard, and Providence will do the rest. ‍‍

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, you will have low self-esteem, not so self-confidence, is that you feel that you are not as good as others, but everyone has their own good and not good at, you use your own shortcomings to compare with others' strengths, you yourself will definitely be very hit, but you work hard to improve your own shortcomings, and uphold your own strengths, so that all of your own become excellent, you compare with others, and find, I can do everything, of course, I can't do anything, so I use my own strengths to see the shortcomings of others, look more at my own good, and slowly self-confidence will come up!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, there is a correct value, in this world, everyone is different, each has its own strengths, don't use your shortcomings to compare with others' strengths, so that you can't be confident, you should look at the problem with an objective attitude, and at the same time learn more, observe more, think more, improve your inner core values, and your self-confidence will come.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The way to make yourself more confident is that first of all, you must read a lot of books, full of poetry and self-style, and secondly, you must communicate with others more, understand other people's ideas, and say your own ideas, and then when you are recognized by others, you will have great self-confidence.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Make a list of your strengths, let your strengths be fully utilized, and after gaining a sense of accomplishment, you will be able to become confident.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, you need to have a certain level of knowledge. Pay attention to your own moral cultivation. Learn to deal with all kinds of problems, not be impatient or impatient, and win steadily.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Accept yourself. You must know that no one is perfect, and behind every person you envy may have unknown difficulties and even embarrassments, so we don't seek the United States, only seek the true self, no matter what you are now, you need to accept and understand yourself first! ‍‍

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you really want to talk about it, strength is the most important.

    People should understand themselves correctly, because people's personalities are very different, and understand their own personality strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses will help you develop your own unique self-confidence.

    People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to be constantly renewed.

    Only by constantly improving our understanding of ourselves can we make ourselves better and more perfect. To understand ourselves correctly, we must be comprehensive.

    Look at yourself from the perspective of development.

    Therefore, people especially need to be full of self-confidence to accomplish their goals and careers.

    First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals.

    Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty. Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times.

    Hope it helps, hope, thank you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to be strong in the face of difficulties, the way is not to "endure" tears, but that your heart can really withstand it! If you are really strong, then you will not shed tears in the face of difficulties, instead of using your strength to "endure" tears. You are not strong enough in character because you have experienced too little, you have taken on too little, and you have had too much smooth sailing.

    Our generation of only children, parents spoil too much, help us bear too much, help us block too many difficulties, when difficulties come, we will always hide behind them, watch them solve, watch them bear. And when they grow old, and we have to bear many things ourselves, we are used to being afraid. No one is born strong, and strong people only know how to bear it after going through a lot.

    To be strong, you have to know how to go through it. When misfortune and pain do strike, it hurts once; The second time, maybe you'll be a little better; The third time, maybe you've learned to comfort yourself; Fourth, maybe you're starting to calm down......One day, when misfortune returns, you stop crying, but think calmly, smile and comfort those who are suffering as you are.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To believe in yourself, you must first know what this "self" is? Is it life? Sentiment?

    Behavior? Is there a "self" that is unconfident and needs to be affirmed? The best way to believe in yourself is to keep affirming yourself, affirming what you've done, accepting that you're who you are so far, believing that you are even so, and I know I can do better in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Very good idea, lots of ways.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to make yourself more confident and calm, you can try the following ways:

    1. Learn to accept your own shortcomings and have a correct understanding of yourself, everyone will have shortcomings, but everyone is unique. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen your sense of worth and learn to accept your shortcomings.

    2. Positive autosuggestion is required. People who are not confident often get little affirmation since childhood, and their own excellence is not absolutely equal, they do not get the affirmation of the people around them, and their own core is not strong enough to isolate the negative voice, resulting in self-doubt and self-deprecation. I always want to get affirmation from my surroundings, and I doubt myself more seriously when I can't get it.

    I think that if this is the case, establish the core first, praise yourself in the mirror every day, find your own advantages, and praise yourself every day when you find it. Psychological suggestion is useful to a certain extent. It also helps to discover your own shining point.

    3. Increase your hole cards.

    **The way to be unconfident is to break the source of inferiority, for example, if I feel that I am not beautiful enough, I will analyze myself from the appearance and posture of the standard beauty, and then learn makeup with my heart, and consciously straighten my back and shoulders; I don't think I have a skill that I can master, I will start with my area of interest and then study it seriously, not requiring mastery but trying to make this skill my label; I feel that I can't output expression, I will read books every day and ** insist on knowledge input, and then reorganize the language for writing expression, and practice can make up for it"Not confident"and internal and external changes will give us a strong confidence.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Therefore, we must study hard and strive to continuously improve ourselves and improve our knowledge level and ability, so that we can communicate with others more confidently and wisely, so as to achieve a more ideal conversation effect, and we will also gain and improve.

    Hard work is the most effective path to any success, and it is also the best way to achieve all your dreams, no matter what situation you are in, as long as you put in the hard work, you will definitely reap the rewards, because life has never failed anyone who works hard.

    Opportunities are the same for everyone, many times, who has more opportunities, it depends on who works harder, countless facts have also shown that those who can become excellent people live a better life, the initial success is inseparable from focus and hard work, this good luck, must also rely on their own efforts to get.

    Hard work means that you must be diligent, as the so-called diligence can make up for clumsiness, diligence is our inexhaustible ability to erect jujubes, but also the basis for determining the success of life, there is nothing difficult in the world, no matter what kind of conditions you do, in what environment, as long as you can do positive efforts and diligence, you will definitely have the opportunity to succeed.

    If the goal of efforts is too much, the ability will inevitably be scattered, if the current state is because of the goal that you are trying to pursue too much, then we must quickly reflect on ourselves, find out the most important thing for ourselves and the most able to move towards the goal, and then concentrate on the ability, focus on doing this thing well, and then do the next one, so that our efforts can be called efficient.

    Life will not always treat us well, there will be setbacks will experience failure, go your own way, live your own life, life needs to work hard, but also need to learn to choose, choose the right direction, choose a sunny and positive attitude, everyone is through their own efforts, to determine the beautiful look of life, don't let tomorrow's self because today is not hard enough and disappointed, the ideal can only be realized in reality by focusing on the efforts of action.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's simple, as long as you show courage.

    Sublimate self-confidence into narcissism. Hope.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Self-confidence comes from the accumulation of personal life experience and knowledge and skills, and people's life experience and knowledge and skill reserves are the premise and foundation of self-confidence. Generally speaking, the wider the knowledge and the richer the experience, the higher the self-confidence, the lack of knowledge and experience to support the self-confidence is like the moon in the water, the flower in the mirror, there is no capital self-confidence, just like people without money (knowledge and skills), in the face of a dazzling array of goods (problems and confusion) will involuntarily produce embarrassment and anxiety (lack of self-confidence).

    How to improve self-confidence.

    1. Learn a skill, realize your own economic independence, do not reach out to others, do not depend on others to live, do not ask for others or ask for less is the foundation of self-confidence;

    2. Treat people with sincerity in exchange for the sincerity of the world, thus forming a good personal interpersonal environment, and others should adhere to the basic principle of value exchange, do not accept the benefits and gifts of others free of charge, and do not owe others anything psychologically, and self-confidence will have the soil for growth;

    3. Think twice before acting, use rational thinking to deal with the world, put an end to emotional behavior, and be confident that there are rules and regulations;

    4. Self-confidence is like building a building, life skills and life experience are the bricks and tiles of building a building, one more skill, one more experience, the building can be built solid and majestic, and self-confidence has the premise and foundation. Learning and practice are the fundamental ways for people to gain self-confidence.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Alas, what a fellow traveler. I used to be like that! I have a deep understanding of your feelings, and I can empathize with you.

    I'm a very self-pitiful, introverted person. I never dare to speak in front of everyone, even if it is just standing in front of everyone, I really can't stand the gaze of others, their gaze is like a knife cutting my inferiority complex heart, as soon as I speak, I am nervous, I am afraid of making mistakes, and the more nervous, the more my brain is very messy, the more mistakes are made. And now that I am in college, I have become more cheerful and confident by participating in more group activities and social activities.

    Now I think back to myself at that time I was so stupid, in fact, there is no need to care about the eyes of others, others are not what you imagined, but you care too much, to say that it is not good to say that "there is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself". Besides, time will wash away everything, and who will remember the little mistakes that happened to you in the past? Besides, people are not saints and sages, people will always make mistakes, and making mistakes is not a bad thing, but a good thing that can allow you to accumulate experience.

    So, open your heart and be yourself with confidence! Just do it! One day you will find that you can do it yourself!

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