Can grievances be fulfilled? Grievances cannot be fulfilled

Where do you put you for the sake of someone else's fulfillment? All grievances are made for others].

Look at what kind of person you are raising to be wronged, the other party is not a person who will understand others, and if you are wronged, you have to think about it, whether the other party is worth it for you to compromise, if it is not worth it, then break out].

If you are wronged, it is only others who seek perfection, not you, so that you will be more sad and miserable, and lonely

Stoop to compromise. When a person's sense of security is insufficient and his ability is not strong enough, compromising has become the only choice to meet the needs of survival. At that moment, in our consciousness, the part we gain is greater than the part we give, so we ignore our own feelings and use reason to balance the pros and cons and make trade-offs.

However, with the passage of time, we no longer worry about survival, but it seems that compromises have become a part of the lives of many of us. When we encounter a conflict between our own interests and the interests of others, we still habitually seek compromise. Because only by doing this will we have peace of mind.

We are worried that we will not be able to have a harmonious relationship once we stop compromise, because we have accumulated a lot of experience in the past long years, such as the recognition of others and the satisfaction of being needed.

But this is not what we should be living our lives for. We should live out the person we most want to express and become in our hearts, we have done so, but in exchange for the denial and suppression of others. We paid a lot of price for this, especially the fear in our hearts, the alienation of our relationship.

In order to avoid loneliness and to integrate with others, we learn to compromise and really benefit from it.

Now that there is no threat, and we don't have to rely on the affirmation of others to gain strength, it's time to take off the armor of compromise and live life as it really is. I'm a lot, a lot stronger than you think!

Sometimes, I obviously feel that other people's treatment of me is unreasonable and unfair, but I still choose to forget it, don't care, stupidly wronged myself, but I didn't get it thoroughly.

Sometimes, I obviously feel that I have my own views and opinions on a matter, but I still do what others say, and I am unwilling and unwilling, but the result is not satisfactory, and I stupidly wronged myself, but I did not get it thoroughly.

Perhaps, seeking all grievances is just a pretense, just self-deception. Seeking perfection from the side of the paragraph will not bring true freedom, and seeking perfection will never lead to true happiness!

In fact, there is no so-called grievance at all, and if you have wronged yourself, you often can't seek perfection. As for what happens if you wronged others, who cares?

On the contrary, wronging oneself is a practice of abandoning one's own heart, a decision to give up the initiative, an act of abandoning one's original intention, a betrayal of one's true heart, and a tantamount to giving up oneself.

Wronged again and again, retreating step by step, and finally couldn't bear it anymore, couldn't back down anymore, and broke out in an instant, the consequence is often, not in silence**, or in silence to die. This is not alarmism, but reality, a cruel reality!

Everything in nature has its own laws, which cannot be violated. How can clouds fly freely? How can the wind blow as it pleases? The clouds are subject to the wind, and the wind is subject to heat, but they do not compromise easily, but insist on themselves.

No, the clouds are thin and thick, and the clouds are large and small, all of which are the result of the action of natural laws; The wind is the same, there are strong and weak, and the wind direction is west and east, which is also the result of the operation of the natural regulation of the state and the law.

The clouds are very light, the wind is very light, the clouds have never given up their weight, the wind has never given up their direction, so that the wind and clouds can be harmonious.

People are the same, insist on themselves, don't easily agree, don't compromise easily, don't bow their heads easily, don't wronged themselves, in order to be thoughtful.

Grievances and grievances are made to be compromised and frank, which means to be accommodating in order to achieve success.

Source: Where you pass through the scriptures, you should practice the way of the ancestors, how can you compromise and seek perfection, and seek wealth and wealth!

Selected from the debate of You Tong: Eastern Han Dynasty Bangu "Hanshu Yan Peng's Ancestral Biography".

Examples: 1. Based on the safety of the current situation, I dare not compromise on it.

2. The prison army is afraid of the enemy like a tiger, and has no intention of fighting, but only wants to compromise and seek perfection, regardless of the endless troubles in the future.

3. I don't understand why people are so calm in the old situation, and so quick in the newer planes. So compromised in the already completed situation, and so blamed in the early days?

Analysis: With a positive meaning, it is generally used as a predicate, object, and adverbial in the sentence, emphasizing that the purpose of making oneself wronged is to preserve and have a purpose.

Grievances are all made into sentences

1, it's no wonder that Wu Dong is compromised, after all, this kind of character of bullying the weak and fearing the strong Wu Dong is already deep-rooted.

2. Forcing others is not to force yourself, and the result may not be comfortable. Forcing oneself is to make compromises, and when there is a grind, it is a success, and sometimes it is a greater failure, so it is better not to be reluctant. A lot of times, it's good to go with the flow.

3. Whether it is a person who writes a story or a person who reads a story, in fact, it is the same, the more you grow up, the more you understand that no one will compromise because of your self-esteem.

4. When I was complained by passengers, I had to apologize frequently, and when I met someone with a perverse personality, I had to make compromises.

5. After thinking about it again and again, her answer still can't be compromised, and she must have her own bottom line.

6. In my family, my mother is a peacemaker, and she always compromises when she encounters problems.