I want to volunteer, but my parents are firmly opposed, should I listen to my parents?

During the graduation season of our school, there will also be some information about teaching in the west, which is a good platform for many people who want to teach to dedicate their own strength. But everyone has to look at this problem from a long-term perspective, and I think the reason why your parents will firmly oppose you may be that they have already analyzed the advantages and disadvantages of volunteering for you, so I think you should listen to your parents.

For example, you may live in the mainland, the living conditions in the mainland are very good, and when you go to teach, you find that the conditions there are really poor, and you can't buy anything you want to buy, maybe you think it would be good to let your parents send it to you. But there are other aspects to consider, such as what to eat, the north may prefer pasta, while the south prefers rice, and you may find it difficult to adapt to this aspect. Moreover, the natural conditions in some volunteer teaching areas are also very poor, especially in spring and autumn, sandstorms and windy weather make your whole person feel like a devilish life.

And the reason why your parents don't want you to go may be because of these factors that you can't adapt to, and the fact that whether you are a girl or a boy, your parents want you to be by their side. After all, there are fewer and fewer opportunities to accompany the elderly, so they want everyone to live together, so that they don't have to watch other people's families reunited, and their own homes seem very lonely, which makes them feel very lonely. And if you want to start a family and return to your family in the future, you may feel that it is nothing if you go to teach, but if you think about it for the future, it will be difficult for you to make a decision after all.

Instead of making a choice when the time comes, it is better to listen to your parents now and stop teaching!

But it is impossible not to respect their ideas. There's a reason why your parents don't want you to volunteer. Your parents worked hard to raise you, and they waited until you graduated.

You have the ability to earn money to take care of them. I finally returned to their side to stay with them, and you chose to teach at this time, which caused them a very big psychological gap.

And I don't know where you teach? If you are in very difficult conditions, your parents will also be very worried, because you are their child after all, and they just want you to be happy, not to put you in a difficult environment to teach the children.

I had the experience of teaching in a rural primary school for more than a year when I was in college. I know the place, the children's learning conditions are not bad, and it may not be as difficult as the place where you are teaching now. I think the reason why your parents are very opposed is that the environment in which you teach is too harsh and too far away from them.

So you have to understand their painstaking efforts. But you have every right to choose your own life. You can communicate with your parents and show them that you want to teach and that you want children who don't have the money to go to school so that they can help others like you in the future.

You can show your parents that volunteering can show you your value, make your life more meaningful, and make you feel happy. I'm sure your parents will understand you.

Actually, I think you're great anyway. You are willing to dedicate your youth. Kudos to those children in need!

First of all, I want to say that you can consider volunteering, then you should be an adult, even if you are not an adult, then you are at least on the edge of an adult. You are starting to be able to think on your own, and you know exactly what you are doing.

Volunteer teaching, I think it is a thing that many college students want to do, anyway, when I was in college, I was more eager to have the opportunity to teach, it was a long time, some were more than ten days, some were months, and even up to several years. Volunteer teachers usually go to some remote areas, where there are many inconveniences, so it is normal for parents to resolutely oppose it.

In the face of parental opposition, we should learn to be calm instead of arguing with our parents. You know, parents always want their children to have a better life, and their decisions are all for your good, and there may be times when they just don't express it in the right way.

I think it's very important that you calm down and ask yourself if you're really ready to volunteer. If you are hesitant and want to persevere and give up, then it is best to listen to your parents, because you are most likely not ready to volunteer. If you think that the team is very important to you, and you have a strong desire to help the children in the mountains, then you can stick to your own ideas, but you have to think from the perspective of your parents and convince them to support your decision from their point of view.

A large part of the reason why parents are opposed to volunteering is because the conditions in the mountains are too difficult, and they are afraid that we will not be able to tolerate it. If your parents are resolute, you are like your parents, and you are adamant that you must go to teach, which is very undesirable. Communicate with parents in the right way and get them to support our decisions.

This is really a very real and tangled question, I will listen to my parents, don't be anxious to say how noble I am, I must have my own principles and reasons for making such a choice.

When we were in college, we were generally 18-20 years old, and if we were abroad, we were already at the age of self-reliance and earning money to support ourselves, but we were fortunate enough to be born in China, and this national condition allowed us to rely on our own still on campus and continue to ask our parents for living expenses. After graduating, I couldn't hold my face, and I had to go out to be self-reliant.

Some family conditions are not so good, and the parents have been through most of their lives, and they are almost at the age of retirement, and the burden of supporting the family will fall on those of us who have completed their education. Your parents grew up with you, but can you grow old with them?

It's a very emotional question, but it's also a very real one. After you graduate, you will find that your parents who were once young have gray temples, you will find that your parents may no longer be so flexible in doing things, and you will find that your parents' memory is slowly deteriorating, etc.

I have to say that people who have such an idea are kind, great and noble, but in the face of such a choice, you ignore your elderly parents, completely ignore their opposition, and may not even be able to support yourself, is this great?

We all know that the income that volunteer teaching can have is not much, and it is definitely not as good as the income of a job in the city. But if your family allows, if you really want to do something good, you can also ignore the willfulness of your parents, but I will choose my family more realistically in front of my parents and children in the mountains.

Helping children in mountainous areas is not only one way to teach, if you are really so caring, you can choose other ways to help them. In this way, you can take care of your own family and help those children, which is the best of both worlds!

Now that you have the choice of volunteer teaching, it must be not small, you should have an idea about everything, you can't do or not do something because of your parents' unilateral reasons, and you should measure whether you have the intention to do anything.

Volunteer teaching is generally to go to the countryside to teach during the university vacation or to go to remote mountainous areas to give lectures to children during the work after graduation, in different forms and different times. Like us, we want to volunteer to teach, just to help the children in the mountainous areas, participate in public welfare activities, do something meaningful, so as to exercise ourselves, and improve our receptivity in all aspects.

And in the eyes of parents, doing public welfare is a good thing, and they will not object, just because it is you, their children, they don't want their children to be too far away, they are afraid of going over there to suffer and be tired, and they will not accept it for too long, so parents will oppose it.

Many things still have to weigh the pros and cons by yourself, everything is for your parents' good, but blindly obeying them will miss a lot of opportunities to exercise themselves, so communicate with your parents for a long time, and you will find a way to do both.

First of all, I am very much in favor of everyone volunteering, and I think it is a very meaningful thing. There are too many children in poor areas in China who are unable to receive a good level of education, no way to receive information from the city, they are not stupid, they are not born as smart as others, the reason why it is difficult for them to go out of the mountains to study in famous schools in big cities is nothing more than the geographical location and economic development have affected them, and they desperately hope that they will have such an opportunity to contact the outside world.

Since they can't get out of the mountains, let's get into them as highly educated. Therefore, I very much agree with and advocate that college students go to poor mountainous areas to teach and give some hope to flowers in remote areas.

Of course, as we all know, volunteering is not a trip, it is a difficult road to education, you may have to give up the prosperity of the big city, even the envy of the job, away from your family and comfortable life, and go to the mountains to be with a group of strange children. When we do charity and volunteering, we often have to sacrifice our personal material wealth or spiritual wealth, we may not get any actual return, but let our souls be sublimated.

Above, I will support you to boldly communicate with your parents about volunteer teaching and solve their biggest concerns. It is nothing more than the difficult teaching environment and the distance from home to make you suffer hardships, after all, you are brought up by them little by little, and you are a baby from childhood to adulthood, so you naturally don't want you to suffer and suffer. What you have to do is to communicate with your parents well, ensure that you will take care of yourself, and reassure them that your parents actually support you to do such a meaningful thing from the bottom of their hearts, just out of concern and reluctance.

If you and your parents don't think about surgery, everyone will like to do the job they love, just imagine, I choose a job mainly because of my own interests.

If I didn't think about the income, I would definitely not do the job I am doing now, but do the job I love. Specifically, the jobs I most want to do without considering my income include three jobs: volunteer teacher, photographer, and writer.

First, teaching and educating people is my ideal career. In my ideal career, volunteer teachers are the first choice. The reason why I regard this job as my ideal job is because I think that the behavior of teaching and educating people is very noble, and I want to be one of them.

For this reason, without considering my income, my first choice is to become a volunteer teacher to realize my dreams.

Second, I love photography, so I really want to be a photographer. Being able to turn your hobby into a career is a very happy thing. I like photography very much, and I often go out to shoot with my favorite camera in my spare time.

In my mind, the job of a photographer is perfect, and I will be very happy if I can do it as I wish. If I didn't think about my income, I would definitely make the choice of becoming a photographer.

Thirdly, I love writing in my spare time, so I really want to be a writer. Outside of work, I enjoy reading and writing about things. This has become Jeanna's biggest hobby in his spare time.

In my mind, if I can concentrate on writing, I will definitely be able to write very good works. Therefore, if I don't think about income, I will choose to be a writer and use my pen to write beautiful articles that leave a good impression on readers. If I can make my dream come true, I will be happy, happy, and satisfied.

Hello, let your parents know your original intention, the life you are pursuing, doing public welfare is also a major goal of life, helping others to bury themselves and bring happiness, why not do it!

During the summer vacation this year, I participated in a volunteer teaching team and went to a caring school in Douwu Village, Maoshan Town, Kunming City, Yunnan Province for about half a month.

It is undeniable that I have seen a lot of this volunteer teaching activity, both good and bad, five months have passed, and now the clearest thing in my mind is the children's faces, and the picture of the grandfather wearing a hat and a coat driving a donkey past the school every morning.

During the last few days of volunteering, the team videotaped everyone, similar to an interview, with one of the questions asking, "Why are you volunteering?" ”

The answers are mixed, some are locals, but live in the more developed parts of the region; Some of them grew up in big cities and were curious about the mountains...The same thing is that everyone wants to bring happiness to children.

But after I came back, I was thinking about what we had brought to them, what had been left for them in less than half a month, and what appeared in front of me at this moment was a pair of eyes full of tears on the day I left.

I like the eyes of children in the mountains, I don't want tears to occupy such beautiful eyes, I prefer the two twinkling stars when they laugh.

After returning to Shanghai, my sister-in-law submitted a ** I took when I was teaching to a photography competition in the district, and I was lucky to win the award.

**I took a picture on the first day I came to the volunteer school, and it was three children sitting in front of the blackboard and smiling happily. I picked up the microphone and said to everyone: The eyes of children in the mountains are so clear and transparent, as if they can see the bottom.

When I shoot them, I don't have to do any post-production, and when I press the shutter, what appears on the screen is a very natural picture. I hope to use my small lens to show that innocence and simplicity in front of the big city, so that we can enjoy a material life while not forgetting the people who need care on the other side of the mountain.

When I came back, I made a decision that I would spend two years teaching after graduation.

I don't think I know why we should teach, so I just don't think about why, it's straightforward.

We're going to teach.