What should I do if I am out of love, how can my heart hurt when I am out of love

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Falling out of love will definitely hurt heart, it's normal. Time is the greatest teacher, you may be uncomfortable for a long time, but it will not be forever. There is no one in the world who must love anyone, and no one who cannot live without anyone.

    Actually, it depends on your own mentality, if you are negative, you will be miserable. If you look at it, you will see that it doesn't really matter. I was also in pain for a while, but then I figured it out, even if you are uncomfortable, will the other party understand?

    If she really loves you and feels sorry for you, she won't look at you so uncomfortable. So how can you fall out of love? I think a lot of falling out of love is not liking someone for a person.

    There's nothing you can't let go of. Cherish everything in front of you, family and friendship, etc., and there will be a better love in the future. Don't feel sorry for unnecessary people.

    It's really not worth it! I wish you to come out of the shadow of broken love soon

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe what you can't get is the best! Lost though! But at least we once had each other!

    If you really love each other, bless each other! Lost love. It's really heart-wrenching at first.

    I still can't help but think about him and what he's doing now. No matter how much he has hurt you. Don't try to find someone to replace him, it turns out that won't work.

    I don't want to borrow wine to sell my sorrows, that will only make me more sad. And don't abuse yourself. If you don't love yourself, who will love you?

    Calm down and find something to do. Enrich yourself and let your mind naturally not think about him. Time can change everything, and I'm sure as time goes on, you think about him less and less often.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It will definitely hurt my heart, I proposed to break up with the girl, and I have known each other for a few years, but I am also reluctant, after reality, I understand that there is a big difference between love and marriage, this is the song that people who love each other can not be together, if you fall out of love, don't think about it anymore, maybe he doesn't belong to you, forget the past, because there is still your happier love waiting for you, I believe that if you have a broken love, there will be happy days Don't be sad, cheer up!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can meet someone in one second, know someone in one minute, like someone in an hour, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone for the rest of your life. Falling out of love does hurt, but almost everyone has to go through it, so don't be overly sad, come out of the shadows early, find your own true love, and know that he didn't cherish you and you are the biggest mistake in his life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    .Lovelorn. I've also fallen out of love.

    So what can it be? Whose fault is it? Why do you fall out of love?

    I thought it was all her. But looking back, I was more wrong than she was. When I first fell out of love, I didn't have the courage to play ** and QQ chat with him, meet him or something.

    But now. We thought maybe it would be better for us to be friends than to be couples. So now I also keep in touch with her a lot...

    But not as a couple. It's about connecting with the mentality of a friend. Don't think about it, it's nothing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are really together, you won't fall out of love...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Today, he told me that we were separated, at the moment I heard it, my heart was broken, I went to wait for him at the school gate, waited for a few hours, but he refused to see me, I kept thinking about it when I came back, I thought about it all night, I was still so uncomfortable, I was a boy, but I really wanted to cry, so I searched for your post, are you already well? Got out? What should I do???

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My heart hurts and I don't have the strength, and I feel helpless.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Books are man's best friend and can find comfort in them. Lose a tree, but get a forest, I hope you will find your true love one day.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The past is gone, what's the use of asking him, you should live every day, forget about it, go and fall in love with another person, don't talk about it easily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone will be in a mood depression for a period of time when they fall out of love You want to forget about this relationship as soon as possible It is best to leave the city where you are together for a period of time For example, to travel, to relatives' houses, to the homes of close friends and find someone who can comfort you Don't drink too much alcohol is not good for your health I wish you to get out of the slump as soon as possible and face every day with confidence.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Time is the best medicine, if you fall out of love, why is it painful, because this relationship has not developed as you expected, and the relationship is a matter of two people, and you have no way to ask that person to do something. Because feelings are the most unstable, sometimes even you can't understand yourself. So if you've worked hard, then let it go!

    You just want him to miss, it's his loss. If you feel like you're not trying hard enough, then from now on, go for it! When that true genius appears in front of you, don't miss it again.

    Look ahead, you know?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Falling out of love with friends is something that most people have to go through, and everyone who falls out of love will have heartache, and some will feel like they have lost their souls.

    But as time goes by, this feeling will slowly lessen, slowly disappear Maybe how can you think it is possible, you love so deeply.

    However, no matter how deep it is, people are human beings after all, and feelings cannot withstand the exploitation of time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go out and have fun; Scatter your heart with your friends; go out shopping, eat, sing, travel or something; Slowly, the mood will get better, and I believe in myself; Everything will pass

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In love, it's normal to fall out of love, the key is to look at it with a good attitude, it will only bring you benefits, trust me, you will come out as soon as possible! Keep yourself busy first!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Falling out of love hurts because you didn't let go, and you didn't recognize why.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Today I also fell out of love, I am also a boy, a year of getting along with her is very reluctant, we started a long-distance relationship last month, I want to go to him after a while, I said it seriously, she said that she still has classes, and it is too late to borrow me, I am a little disappointed, frowned, did not do to spoil her, I broke my promise, she is not happy, I did not accommodate her, we quarreled several times because of some trivial things, I want me to find her to relieve it, but the result is still the same, she said it may not be appropriate, I'm too easy to get angry with her, she doesn't understand me, I also have my own classes, and it's a lot of money to go back and forth, I take out a large part of my current energy to see him, and the decision I just thought about hasn't had time to be realized, and she joked about it, and in the end we were not happy, and I don't want to argue about right or wrong, couples always quarrel and turn their faces because of some trivial things, is it really worth it? Are our feelings so fragile? This has a lot to do with the fact that I don't know how to deal with relationship problems, but late, she determined that I didn't understand her, broke up, and I suddenly felt this feeling of this feeling scraped from my heart one by one, my heart hurt, my eyes were swollen, and I cried ugly, for what?

    I hope you can come out soon, how about me? Helpless and physically and mentally exhausted, may we all have a lifelong lover by our side, and may there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Falling out of love is a very painful thing, and only when you have experienced it yourself can you understand how deep the pain is and how painful the hurt is.

    The beauty of the past, the vows that were once spoken, in a sentence let's break up, it was nothing in that instant.

    It used to be beautiful, but now it's cruel, accept it. Because we can't change anything, even if we change, we can't go back to the past, it's an eternal pain, and it's --! taste

    Sad, cried As long as you have a clear conscience, accept it bravely, and there will be a person who will be with you for a lifetime waiting for you in the future

    Time is the best approach.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Everyone has a scar in their heart, and maybe time is the best healing agent.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Go with the flow, heartache is unavoidable, and it will fade into oblivion after a long time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When I fell out of love, I would go to exercise and soothe my pain with sweat.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do something else, distract yourself.

    I don't have a girlfriend and a buddy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Fall in love quickly, the way to fall out of love is to fall in love with someone else.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Forget your feelings, sing more and forget your feelings.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's a sign of your growth.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Drinking, getting drunk and forgetting about him/her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You were the one who made him hurt! ~~

    Do you think the pain is necessary?

    If necessary, you let him hurt!! Let me ask you a question, do you think you are an ordinary person?

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