What was your most rebellious thought when you were younger?

When I had a disagreement with my parents about something when I was young, I always stubbornly did what I wanted, so I often made my parents unhappy and I was very unhappy at the same time. Looking back now, this situation is actually due to the difference in understanding between parents and adolescent children due to differences in age, life experience and social roles, and the most rebellious thought I had when I was a child was that a neighbor kicked my dog, and I was so angry that I ran to his house and kicked his dog to death.

At that time, my most rebellious idea was to think about why I had to listen to my parents for everything, and I also had my own thoughts, why couldn't I do what I said, and the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, so I pinched out the canary that my grandfather raised and put it in a puddle to pluck its feathers.

At that time, it was really rebellious, during the Chinese New Year, the family was pasted with the word Fu, the one at the gate was the most beautiful one to buy, I told my mother to paste this blessing upside down, my mother didn't want to, I began to lose my temper, why don't you listen to me, I'm also a member of this family. I was very angry.

I couldn't listen to what anyone said during the most rebellious period, and once a relative from my hometown came to my family, saying that I was so old that I didn't know how to pour tea, maybe it was originally a joke, but I was very angry when I heard it, so I threw the water cup to him.

One day I went to the park with my mother to play, I wanted to row a boat, but my mother was seasick and couldn't get on the boat, so she didn't agree, I was so angry that I cried for more than an hour, wow, wow. My mom was stunned for so long, and now that I think about it, I'm really vexatious. I really admire my mother, my mother really loves me.

My mother remarried when I was in junior high school, and I think the examples of the vicious stepfather in ** will happen to me, and I have wanted to kill him more than once at night!

Once, when I kicked the glass of the neighbor's kitchen because I kicked a ball, the neighbor's aunt said a few words to me, and I looked at the chickens in her yard and wanted to kill them all.

The dog in the neighborhood had soiled my new shoes, and the dog had just stepped on the mud, and I wanted to stew the dog at that time.

The first is not to ask too much of him.

Some aspects that are not particularly bad are tolerated.

And don't be verbose in front of him too often.

If you talk too much, he won't feel it.

Occasional education.

Nor can it be preachy.

Finally, he must feel the warmth of the family.

Clause.

1. Communicate more with children, understand their problems, and solve them in a timely manner;

Second, we should give children the opportunity to show themselves and satisfy their vanity.

Third, we should look at children with an appreciative eye, praise and encourage them more, so that they have a certain sense of achievement, do not scold, scold and complain, but praise and encourage them more.

Fourth, it is necessary to avoid hurting their self-esteem, and not to criticize and blame them with serious language, and to carry out verbal attacks.

Fifth, take care of your children and spend more time with them.

Adolescence refers to the transition from a child to an adult.

In general, puberty begins earlier in girls than in boys, around 10 to 12 years old, while boys do not start until 12 to 14 years old. However, due to the great diversity of individuals, the period between the ages of 10 and 20 is usually referred to as puberty.

Adolescence is a critical period for the rapid growth and development of the human body, and it is also the second peak of growth and development in life after infancy. During this period, many great and wonderful changes took place both inside and outside the body, both boys and girls. Therefore, it is undoubtedly a very important matter for children to successfully pass through adolescence by understanding and understanding the changes in the body during this period.

Adolescence refers to the stage of an individual's sexual function from immaturity to maturity, and biologically refers to the transition period of the human body from immaturity to maturity, that is, the transition period from a child to adulthood. During this period, the personality is sexually mature and can already be fertile. It can be seen that adolescence is mainly a stage divided by physiological sexual maturity, which overlaps with the stage of life divided from psychological or social aspects.

During the growth and development phase of the human body, puberty takes up half or more of the time. Adolescence currently does not have a consistent age range across countries, but generally refers to the age of the year, and in psychology, it is also called early youth, which is equivalent to the secondary school stage in education, and is characterized by rapid physical growth. In addition to adolescence, adolescence will continue until the age of 25-30.

Since males mature about a year later than females, the age range of puberty for males can be set at 14-18 years. It is normal to be 1 2 years early or late. Men of this age are often referred to as adolescent boys, while women of the same age are referred to as adolescent girls.

During adolescence there are not only noticeable physical changes, but also often great psychological changes.

Consciousness wants to be free, wants to be free from control, and doesn't want to be watched.