Am I mentally ill.? I hope you will be patient. 15

The fact that you are now able to correctly realize that you were only at that time and had a discord with your parents in adolescence is enough to prove that you are still very mentally healthy, because at least you correctly recognize the real cause of this problem, and they are now saying that you are also very brave enough to deny their claims to prove that your thoughts are still healthy, don't pay attention to what they say about you, and don't go out every day, right? There are many people who don't go out every day, so are they too? There is no basis, right, you know the real reason why you don't want to go out, right, this is good, I have an idea, I don't know if you are willing to try, you can go out early every day, and then go to some places where you know few acquaintances, try to find those people you don't know and try to talk to them, or you can find something to do, try to contact some people you don't know, get along with them according to your ideas, even if you occasionally meet acquaintances, don't care what they think, As long as you slowly recognize more people from the people you don't know, the situation around you will quietly change, only let more people who don't know you understand you, know that you are really a very good person, acquaintances will slowly know and then change their views and ideas about you, after a long time parents will no longer think so, but the premise is that you must be able to persist for a period of time, if you are willing to do, to try to change the status quo, I believe you can succeed, support you!

I admire your dedication to love; Your girlfriend did change her mind.

There are two sides to people's hearts, and it depends on which side you want to win the game. You find the reason for your thoughts in yourself. In addition, the human heart is fragile, don't let it always come into contact with those violent things.

You have to learn to experience the emotions of the outside world, instead of using your five senses to observe things in the outside world, it's good, you feel that others are sorry for you, because you can't experience the emotional world of outsiders, your emotions only stay in your body and do not interact with the outside world, you just rely on your senses to perceive things, not emotions, it may have something to do with your work pressure and so on, how to say it? For example, you said that your cat bar pot overturned, your first feeling is angry, you are angry, sensory above, hear, see, and then start to get angry and lose your temper, you only experience your own emotions, the kitten provokes you, provokes you angry, eats can also overturn the pot, can't control it, and you can't experience the emotions of the kitten, ordinary people see the kitten overturning the pot, will experience the emotions of the kitten, it is a small animal, it is normal, although also angry, but direct experience will understand the kitten, Because ordinary people can understand the emotions of the kitten and know why it will overturn the pot, and you can't realize it, your first emotion is your own emotion, the emotion, provoke you to be angry with this emotion and can't experience the kitten's emotion, you think that others have offended you, it is also a truth, you don't understand the person who offended you and his emotions, so you can't understand, you will lose your temper,! You and your mom are the same, you misunderstand other people's real emotions, you only experience other people's intentions and purposes, not emotions, so you get angry! >>>More

Heh, I feel that way once in a while. I always feel like I'm wearing a mask, and I'm a little depressed inside, and I feel that they won't understand even if I say it. I like to put myself in the position of a spectator to see the people and things around me. >>>More