If you could give a message to your past self or someone, what would it be?

"Learn to play the guitar. ”

Well, if I had to give a word to my past self, I would probably say this.

Of course I love the guitar and have been playing it for over a yearBut the reason why I say this to my old self is not because of how much I love the guitar, but because I don't think I have anything to say, and since there is nothing to say, it wouldn't be bad for me to learn guitar earlier.

Yes, I don't have much to say about my past self, so I will briefly talk about my reasons in a few points.

1. Although I have experienced many difficulties, I will not tell me about the past

Yes, everyone has experienced a lot of difficulties. For example, I only scored an ordinary score in the college entrance examination, which caused me to encounter a lot of problems when I applied for university; For example, when I used to study data structures in computer programming theory, there were many things I couldn't understand, and I couldn't master effective learning methods. But I don't run to the past and tell me about the past.

Told me that I should have listened carefully at the beginning of high school and not fall behind in the course again, because it would be really difficult to keep up with the class. Or tell me in the past how I should study most effectively and what routines I should learn.

It is true that if I had told me to go, I would have done better at those things, but if I hadn't experienced these difficulties myself, I would not have been able to improve myself, and I would have encountered more difficulties at some point in the future. Therefore, the respondent always firmly believes that there is no escaping difficulties, just go through them.

Second, although I have made many wrong choices, I will not tell my past self

Each of us also makes a lot of choices that seem wrong to us right now. Answer: There are many such options - I chose to go to the ordinary city of Wuhu instead of going to a big city to go to university; I chose to buy the bulky laptop I have now instead of a thinner and lighter one; I chose to buy the dress that I didn't like at all just because it was cheap. For me, these are all wrong choices.

But if there is an opportunity to tell me about the past, I will definitely not tell me. Because I think that our lives are always making choices, we can never guarantee that we can make the right choice, it is possible that a choice may seem wrong now, but it may feel right later (butterfly effect). So I think since we can't guarantee that we are making the right choice, we should accept the choice of our own heart.

Because even if I had to do it all over again, I would still make the same choice, so why should I change that?

Since there's no need to say anything, tell me to play the guitar more.

<> to you in 2009:

In 2009, you were in junior high school, and you were a good child in the eyes of everyone, and an obedient child who never had to worry in the eyes of parents. At that time, you sat in the third row of the first group against the wall, with books piled high on the table, and sat quietly in the corner against the wall all day, not talking much, watching others fight. Maybe someone in the class can't call your name yet, and you really want to play with others, but you are very shy and seem to have low self-esteem, and you don't know how to fit into their small group.

The first boy in the class to talk to you was the boy who borrowed your English homework and asked you to help cover up, and sat in the last row of the fourth group against the wall. When the teacher finds out that the two of them have exactly the same homework, you can only bow your head and say that you two discussed it together. After that, he also occasionally played with you, but you were still shy, he was popular, and he had a lot of friends, and slowly his friends began to talk to you, and you slowly dared to raise your head and blush to quarrel with them, and your life began to become colorful and sound.

You guys had a good time, and soon there was gossip, and in order to avoid suspicion, you began to alienate him from the quiet third-row girls against the wall, quietly watching them play, trying to suppress the urge to play with him, just to maintain the title of good boy who was nothing.

In this way, you miss that touch of color in life, a very important friend. Even if he wasn't a good boy in the eyes of others, he was still bright. This will become a lifelong regret and regret.

In 2009, if you can, please don't make such a mistake, leave such regrets, be brave, be brave. Let your life still shine.