What prompted you to make the decision to divorce?

I would like to state that I am not married yet, but I know something about it, so I would like to share my thoughts with the example of others.

An aunt I know, who has been married for 15 years this year and has never had a child, adopted a child last year. They would have quarreled before, and they always thought that it was because they didn't have children, so they adopted a child in a welfare home. But instead of becoming their peacemaker, the child hastened the demise of their marriage.

I don't want to say it's the child's fault, but there is a child's reason. They themselves are not very rich, and their monthly salary is just enough to feed and wear, and there is almost no surplus. But since I have a child, I want to give my child the best in everything, and I feel that I can't treat my child badly, and my life is even more difficult.

The two began to quarrel over money, and the aunt felt that the uncle was not able to raise this child, and he couldn't even get the milk powder money, and other trivial things in life, in fact, as long as he got money, it was not a trivial matter. Then the uncle began to suspect the aunt, which led to the aunt's resolute decision to divorce. The uncle went directly to the place where the aunt worked and beat the aunt, making the aunt lose face.

Even if the aunt did something wrong, the uncle should not do it in public, or in other words, he should not do it anyway, let alone without any evidence. As a woman, I think the most intolerable thing is to hit a woman. Because she was beaten, my aunt said that I was going to divorce no matter what, and it was useless to persuade anyone this time, I think my aunt was right.

I know that they have been married for 15 years, and they should remember their old love and should not leave, but the matter of beating people is unbearable. This is a serious issue, and there are only two kinds of beatings. Even if the man's confession says that I won't fight again in the future, I can't believe it, if I fight, I will fight, and there is no room to turn back.

In short, I think through this incident can show that women are actually easy to be soft-hearted, but once the bottom line problem is touched, such as beating someone, it is unforgivable, which will prompt women to divorce without hesitation!

When I was sick, my husband didn't even have a **, and he wouldn't care about me, but said that I had so many problems all day long, and ignored me, and that moment made me make up my mind that I must leave this ruthless and unrighteous man.

Divorce decisions are either right or wrong. Whether a marriage is lacking in good or bad, you will know it. From understanding a person to knowing a person, the process of getting to know a person will awaken many people.

The decision to divorce is right or not, it depends on your own feelings, there will still be small conflicts between husband and wife, not because of a little bit of a young age to tell the story of the divorce, some decisions should not be too lenient and sloppy, too hasty will regret it, divorce is a lifelong thing, if you feel that you can't get along with this person and don't have a common language to live unhappy, you can also divorce.

Personally, after reading your description, I think the decision to divorce is quite right. After all, he doesn't understand you at all. But he may also be too one-sided, and I can see from this that he doesn't understand you.

This is how contradictions accumulate bit by bit in life. What to say, it may not be possible to say that he doesn't love you, maybe he is too straight, he only thinks about himself, not you. But the two of you must be together in the hope that he will be considerate of you, not to find someone who dislikes you.

All in all. After all, you are the one who lives your life. If you feel uncomfortable, then you will get a divorce.

After all, we're looking at it, but it's you who makes the decision.

If you're divorced, look ahead. Think about what you're going to do in the future.

If you haven't been divorced, think about whether he has done anything that moved you or betrayed you. Think about it, if you left him, you wouldn't meet a better one. Think clearly, and then make a decision.

In some places, men are educated to be very machismo, they only do what they think they should do, and other things are not what Wu Yin should do. Sometimes the vinegar bottle is poured, and he won't move in front of him, it's not that he doesn't know, it's that he doesn't have consciousness, and he doesn't think this should be what he did.

** I can't see what it is, legally speaking, whether the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, and there is evidence to prove it, this is the condition for divorce.

The decision to divorce depends on whether you have a deliberate or impulsive decision to be really disgusted, most people go through the formalities when they file for divorce when they are impulsive, and some people are indeed worried year after year, so only you know if the shoes fit or not.

If you are not happy, the husband and wife can choose to divorce if the relationship is broken, if there is no principled question, you can understand each other, and marital troubles are not sweet words before marriage.

Is it silver how to get married, why should men and women be equal when they just got married, the house Yesui should have a name, and the bride price is more This is the grace of the woman's parents, what do you want, if you don't want to leave, why bother.

If the disturbance marriage has caused you trouble, and you feel that the other party is dispensable to you, then the divorce is a relief for each other. In love life, there is no right or wrong, only suitable and inappropriate, suitable or not slow, and only you know, and the advice of others to you. It's always just a suggestion, and the idea is still to take it yourself.

If there really is such a man who is inconsiderate of his wife, then it is better to leave. Other people's women's letters or children are treasures at home, and when you cover your house, it is a grass, and it is used to hurt when your wife marries home.

If you don't have children of your own, then there is nothing to tie up, decisively leave this selfish man, and divorce right.

We often say that the emotional problems of men and women are complex and fickle, and as a legal adult, they should be responsible for the society, the family, and themselves.

If the number of marriage branches seems to be unfinished, but it increases the burden, you can consider divorce.

Divorce is a legal process that requires you to convince your partner to divorce you.

If he can recognize his mistakes, you can also continue this marriage, after all, it seems that many partners are like this (this is not a reason for not getting divorced, but it just shows that real marriage is not as ideal as TV dramas).

Was the decision to divorce the right one? I feel that the reason why you want to divorce is all trivial things. Or maybe he still doesn't understand you very well.

These trivial things accumulate and you feel that you are disappointed in the Kiritora marriage. Hence the idea of divorce. In fact, if you have already divorced, then the child should not file for divorce hastily.

Nailundong reflects on whether the three views of the two of you are the same. If the three views are different, then there is no need to maintain the prosperity of the lower prosperity. If it is true that the three views are not unified, then it is not too late to mention divorce at this time.

Girl, these questions should have been examined before marriage!

If your object is not bad in nature, just machismo or doesn't care about people, then it is recommended that you tease him to communicate more, communicate repeatedly, marriage is two people, and you must learn to change with the town.

If your partner treats you like this because he doesn't like it or because it's just a character problem, then the long pain is better than the short pain.

Now that you have chosen to marry him in the first place, you know what kind of person he is. Now you're to the rotten sparrow of his family. And the hungry hand early living environment, you should be a little uncomfortable.

Since you have chosen the potato, you have to suffer a little hard. You can't get a divorce for this little thing.

I don't think so.

If a man is the breadwinner of the family and has too many things to do, he will not be so sweet to women, so he has patience and emotions at work may affect his life. The higher a man's position, the greater the responsibility.

It is impossible to close the heavens and crack the heavens.

I think if you don't have children, then divorce early, don't delay yourself, if you have children, then be cautious, divorce is not good for children.

The decision to divorce is not right! Divorce is not good for children and parents. Look before you leap.

I think if you don't have children, then it's better to leave! A person who doesn't know that he feels sorry for his daughter-in-law is not worth it. I don't respect you, you gave up so much for him, but he is like an uncle, waiting for you to serve!

You're better off without him. If you have children, it depends on how old your own children are. If he is still young, then he needs to double his love, although the divorce file Jane hurts him, but it is also bigger than the shadow left in the family where they quarrel every day.

Children need to grow up in a loving home. A home without love will leave a shadow in the child's heart, and it will also make the child resist the relationship between the sexes in the future. So you still have to look at your own situation and decide your future.

Between husband and wife, they should respect and love each other, and tolerate each other.

We will definitely support you, if the agreement fails, we will sue, and if it succeeds, we must celebrate.

It's not a big deal, communicate more, there is still hope to make corrections, there is no need for divorce.

Have children? No children can be divorced. Let your husband accompany you for a walk, should you consider his opinion, it is good that he wants to be wanton, and if he is unwilling, there is no problem.

But if you are not feeling well, and your husband is blind to the hail luck, there is a problem with the man, after all, husband and wife should understand each other and help each other.

First of all you made the right decision, the question is do you have a job? Do you have a place to live? If you have your own job and a place to live after your divorce, you've made the right decision.

Many people want to figure out whether a marriage is good or bad, especially those who want to end their existing marriage. But divorce is often not a person's fault, if you can hope to cherish each other to the end.

Some people go to marriage for the sake of interests at the beginning, some people harvest love and happiness in getting along day and night, some people go through the rest of their lives in the exhaustion of their limbs, and some people look for new opportunities in the left and right, the results are always similar and different, in fact, happiness is often cherished by two people, not only caring about their own pay, but also seeing each other's needs and pay when they pay.

A marriage to the separation, in the end who is right and who is wrong, who is not clear, maybe you are particularly painful, feel that the other party is wrong, but a slap does not sound, if you really want to go to the end, you should work as hard as possible, live well, and catch each other. Since it has ended, the reason is from yourself, not to forgive the other person, but to not repeat the mistakes of the past in the next relationship.

Instead of choosing a good marriage, it is better to choose a good love, put aside some things, and long-term love is the engine that makes marriage go further. Teacher Chen Guo said that "long-term love is to fall in love with the same person again and again". Many people think it's impossible, after all, marriage is family affection later, and many times in the middle is to tolerate each other, and feel that many times it is because of tolerance that the misunderstanding between each other deepens, you feel that you have endured, the other party feels that you know that you are wrong, and over time what you think about each other is not at the same level of values, you have not thought that every time you forgive may become a later resentment, it is better to communicate well, understand each other's true thoughts, two people who fit, can always find a meeting point, The frequency of thoughts can always make each other feel like soul mates.

Not every point in marriage is necessarily perfect, many things may be absolutely unacceptable to you before marriage, but after marriage, because of the person who joins hands with you, you are willing to try to tolerate and change to accept, maybe those things will still exist, but you use all kinds of methods to balance, and the person who joins hands with you can always see your forbearance and dedication, set aside time for two people to talk about life and the future every day, abandon judgment and resentment, talk about things on the matter, and talk about it calmly, It's always easy to be overwhelmed when emotions come, but those warm details in life can always make emotions less aggrieved and tragic.

The decision was right, if he didn't crack the lead and change, he would have to divorce. It is better to live by himself than to live a lifetime with such a person. Because of the use of him, he is good at remembering that he doesn't hurt you, and he doesn't understand you. Feel sorry for yourself, life is too short to let yourself be wronged.

In the married life of a man and a woman, each person's living situation is different, and the reasons for divorce are also different. As the saying goes, a happy family is the same. But the unfortunate families are different.

First: Domestic violence

In real life, it is not uncommon for couples to divorce because they cannot tolerate domestic violence. This is mostly for women. After all, women are relatively vulnerable, and it is women who suffer from domestic violence in the family.

In fact, for a married woman, she can endure grievances, pay and sacrifice. However, it is unforgivable, intolerable, and unforgivable for such violent acts as men beating people. Once a man behaves like this, most women will choose to divorce.

Second: the Cold War

In the married life of a man and a woman, the cold war sometimes brings more than enough damage to domestic violence such as beating. The Cold War can be divided into two types, some of which do not speak to each other, and no one cares about anyone.

There are two people who are separated, and who is separated from each other. This way of getting along with strangers under the same roof, but already strangers, has led many men and women to finally choose to divorce because they can't stand it. Moreover, there is basically no irreparability for such a divorce.

Third: the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

In life, there are many families that divorce because of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems. Some people say that this is a man's problem, and it does not play a mediating role in the middle, so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a quarrel to the point of inextricability.

There is also the situation of men's mothers and men, who listen to their mothers for everything, so that women are full of hatred towards men's mothers. In short, everyone feels that who is justified, and everyone feels that who is wronged. This kind of relationship between parents and each other is very easy for men and women in the husband and wife to end up in divorce because they cannot break the deadlock.