Why are parents not their spiritual supporters, and children are?

There are many reasons for this, and not all parents have their children as their spiritual support. Generally speaking, the more socially recognized a person is, the less he feels this aspect.

Those who regard children as their spiritual pillars are usually those whose lives are relatively boring and monotonous. There are no ups and downs in their lives. At this time, if you can attract their attention and encourage them to continue to endure the torments of life (boring work and aging body), it must be a child with infinite possibilities.

That's why I've always encouraged moms to do more square dancing.

If you have the opportunity to travel more, don't worry about your family all day long, you can't always revolve around others for a lifetime, right?

I think the same way about my son, of course I love him, but I don't force him to grow up at my pace, and grow up to be a sunrise. What interests he has, my attitude, is all support and encouragement, as long as it is not illegal. If you want to learn to draw, you will be sent to draw Lala.

If you want to play the piano, you have to go to the piano store and it doesn't matter if you can't learn it, just take it as an experience.

Because China's national conditions have been passed down from generation to generation, they all like their own children, and they are not as good to their parents as they are to their own children.

That's because the child brings spiritual pleasure to the parents.

A family is perfect because of having children.

Therefore, children are the spiritual pillars of parents.

We yearn for a happy family, but also for romantic and warm love, but what about reality? We are all going through the tribulations that life throws at us, and we are honing our minds.

Recently, one of my sisters (Xiaofeng) was filed for divorce by her husband the next day because of the improper handling of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and in less than 2 days, he sent the divorce agreement to the woman, and he proposed to my sister under the pressure of his parents: the daughter belongs to him, if the daughter does not belong to him, the woman will give 200,000 yuan, and settle the account with her.

Xiaofeng is very strong, these days watching her from sad and depressed, regretful, sober to cheer up, she spent 3 days, she said that her daughter is the direction of her struggle in imitation socks, and she must talk about cheering up and living better.

In the face of difficulties, children are an important pillar for any difficult parent. Every tribulation in life is an opportunity for God to experience it. I hope that Xiaofeng's life will get better and better after she regains her strength.

The three spiritual pillars of the child: 1) unconditional love, 2) a high sense of self-esteem, and 3) lifelong growth (virtue behind virtue). It's not rotten.

A child has unconditional love in his heart, his parents love him very much, and he loves the society of Min Chachang; The level of self-esteem is high, he has a strong sense of worth, and he knows that he can solve problems; At the same time, he encountered setbacks and difficulties, and he was able to continue to iterate and make progress with a lifelong growth mentality.