My mother in law came to serve the confinement and didn t do anything and buy nothing, right?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-29
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not right for my mother-in-law to do nothing and not be hazy, so maybe my mother doesn't do anything at home, as long as there is a companion, don't ask too much of my mother.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Aunt comes to serve the confinement, doesn't do anything, doesn't buy anything, I think uh, as long as others come, it's okay, don't care so much, as long as the child is healthy, the daughter-in-law's health is already very good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not right to do nothing, and if that's the case, why would your mom come here, so tell him to go back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Mother, my mother came to serve the confinement, it was wrong not to do anything, and not to buy it, if it was clear that she was here to serve the confinement, she should help do what she could.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My mother-in-law came to serve the confinement and didn't do anything and buy nothing, right? It's not right for my mother-in-law to come to serve the confinement and not buy anything or do anything. If you come to serve the confinement child, you should order me. Slow, you can buy a little less.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course it's not right, for this case, the other party should do more or less, this is the most correct, because for people who are about to give birth, they must pay attention at this time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When my mother-in-law came to serve the confinement class, she had to bring a few hens, or some eggs or something. And it's to help hold the child, cook some food for the people in confinement or something. If none of that is done, it's a bit wrong.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think it's okay, because my mother-in-law is here to see the girl and the baby is a guest, so you can forgive me. to understand. Don't be angry.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My mother-in-law came to serve the confinement child, and I didn't do anything and didn't buy anything, I think this must be wrong, and it should be more or less too good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your mother-in-law is a little too much. You are his biological daughter, and if he picks the door like this, you don't need him to serve you, and your confinement will get rid of your illness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My mother-in-law came to serve the confinement and didn't do anything and buy nothing, right? It's not easy for my mother-in-law to come to serve the confinement, if you don't buy something, you won't buy anything, as long as you serve the confinement well, it's not okay to do nothing, then don't do anything, then who will serve the confinement?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since my mother-in-law came to serve the confinement child, she came to help her daughter. If he does something, he doesn't do anything when he comes, so what's the use, it's better not to come.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do I think you're a sissy? It's a bit too much, after you come over, your own woman confinement should be dry river to buy things and vegetables, this is how it should be, if he gives money, you also need to find a nanny.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he has a reason to serve, forget it, if he doesn't, and it still bothers you, it's best not to stay together, let him go home.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What's wrong with this, I came to serve your confinement. It's nice to have someone to serve you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, this is not right, and the family should help each other out.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My mother-in-law came to serve the confinement child, but she didn't do anything, she didn't buy anything, is this called serving the confinement? Isn't this a blessing? You should talk to him. Let his daughter speak.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think you should expect him to take the initiative to help you do anything? When you are supposed to have something, you assign him to do it, and there are some things that you have to let him do.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A new type of elderly person taking care of you is not necessarily an obligation, or a responsibility that must be entered.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My mother-in-law is here to serve the confinement child, no matter what she does, don't argue with her, otherwise your wife will be very embarrassed.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you don't do anything, you can't do it, you can consider letting him go back.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then you should communicate with your mother-in-law, since you are here to help with confinement, you should do something within your ability, which is more appropriate.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Isn't your mother-in-law your own mother, your own, why can't you even take care of you? Is it your real mother?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    China is a big family, and its customs and habits are also different, and it also has different living habits. It is a major life event for a woman to give birth to a child, usually in the mother-in-law's house, and it is also a very common phenomenon not to be allowed to go back to her mother's house for confinement, so today I will talk about why I can't go to my mother's house for confinement?

    First of all, there are such customs and habits in many places, saying that the daughter who marries out cannot be confined to her mother's family, especially if there is a boy in her mother's family, if the confinement in her mother's family will bring bad luck to her mother's family, affect the luck of the boys in the family, and have a bad impact on the future of the mother's family, but there is no scientific basis, just customs and habits.

    Secondly, after getting married, the daughter should naturally go back to her mother-in-law's house for confinement, which also avoids moving back and forth to her mother-in-law's house. Even if you are confined at your mother-in-law's house, it is very convenient for your mother to take care of her daughter at any time if she is worried about her.

    In many places, it is a custom that has been passed down for many years to allow married daughters to return to their parents' homes for confinement, and although the reasons are different, it has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Regardless of the confinement period, it is necessary to take good care of the body, the recovery of the body during the confinement period is very crucial, and it is easy to fall into confinement disease if the maintenance is not good, which affects the health of the body.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Women are very weak after giving birth to a baby and need to take care of it, and the time for conditioning is confinement. It is important to know that confinement is very important for the mother, if the confinement is not good, the body may be left with confinement diseases, such as joint pain, headache, etc., which will also have an impact on future life. When a mother is confined, she generally needs to be taken care of by the elderly at home, some are taken care of by her mother-in-law, and some women want to go back to her parents' house for confinement, but some people say that you must not let your mother-in-law serve the confinement, otherwise it is not good, why is this?

    Here is a detailed answer to this question.

    The folk saying is that letting the mother-in-law serve the confinement will bring blood disasters to the mother's family, but this is just a feudal superstition and has no scientific basis, so it is okay to let the mother-in-law serve the confinement.

    Pregnant women should pay attention to these during confinement:

    1. Ensure sufficient rest time, sleep quality should be high, don't stay up late, don't work, and recuperate.

    2. Pay attention to personal hygiene, in the traditional thinking, the mother can not wash her hair and take a bath during the confinement period, in fact, this is a wrong concept, as long as the mother can wash her hair and take a bath under the condition of ensuring that she does not catch a cold.

    3. Focus on comprehensive diversification of diet, so as to ensure balanced nutrition, do not eat cold food, and do not eat spicy fried food, and eat more foods containing protein.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because confinement in the mother's house is unlucky, this is a feudal superstition, and it must be eliminated now.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The old people feel that confinement in their mother's house is a slap in the face for their in-laws, what kind of system does it become?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This should belong to feudal superstition, in fact, you can do it in **confinement.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I have never heard this kind of saying, and many of us still go back to their parents' homes after confinement.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Giving birth to children and confinement are generally in their own homes, and rarely in their parents' homes.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It should be individual, confinement is mainly to see whether the mother's family is easy to take care of or the husband's family is easy to take care of, if you work and settle in the mother's house, it must be more convenient to choose the mother's family.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In other words, I don't want to cause some trouble to my mother's family.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The old people are more feudal, in fact, it doesn't matter, just pay attention to your body.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then it's an unlucky time, and on our side, this will affect the mother's family's work, because they still have to take care of you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Women need confinement after giving birth, confinement can help women recover quickly, so confinement is a very important and necessary link, and many people believe that if you go back to your parents' home without confinement, it will have certain disadvantages. So what are the harms of not returning to my parents' house after confinement?

    In ancient times, women's influence was generally low, and the concept of patriarchy was very serious. Women's personal behavior is governed by many ideas and regulations. In the past, when a woman got married, if she had a brother or nephew in the family, the focus of her family would be on them.

    After she gets married, she will become worthless, and she will not be regarded as a member of her own family, let alone go back to her parents' house for confinement. In some areas, women feel that they are very vulnerable to offending unclean things during pregnancy. Therefore, the husband will refuse to let the married daughter go home, so as not to bring bad luck to the family.

    Therefore, there is a saying that when she is pregnant or has a child, she cannot go home. But the above are feudal superstitions, we don't need to be too superstitious, the harm of not going back to their parents' home without confinement is for pregnant women, their bodies have not recovered well, and they are easy to get cold when they go out, which will affect their health.

    In addition, after pregnancy, there are often insufficient minerals in the teeth, and the strength of the teeth is poor. These conditions are harmful to the teeth. If you don't pay attention to oral hygiene, the bacteria in your mouth will increase.

    Under the action of a large number of bacteria, sugars in food scraps ferment to produce acids, which can lead to tooth decalcification and tooth decay. Therefore, we should pay more attention to the hygiene and health of our teeth.

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