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Maybe life will be harder, and it will be better than psychological torture, you can go to a romantic place and have a good talk with her, from the past to the present, and then to her son. What is it that makes each other estranged, and when you slowly figure it out, you will know how to choose.
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In that case, I think you could talk to him in more depth. Take a look at your current ones. Thoughts on both sides.
Also in the future. Because you have a child. What can be changed.
If everyone still can't talk about that attitude, Hua, I think it's better to let go as soon as possible.
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Maybe you are a more honest, responsible, and enterprising man, but you don't coax women sweetly, since you have come together, you must understand each other and tolerate each other, and women's gentleness and sensibility are ......... painI don't know if you understand .........
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I feel like the problem is with you.
There are two reasons: one is that you also know that you are working, and you don't have time to communicate with your lover and children, and every time your lover tells you about other people's travel, it is not a comparison, but envy of those who can go out for a walk together as a family of three. This is a kind of signal, she releases a kind of expectation for you, and you not only do not accept it, but think that she is comparing again.
It hurts her deeply. A woman's greatest expectation in love is that the person she loves will respond. You didn't do that.
The second is that you are not doing a good job of bridging the gap between your lover and your parents. You can't just ask your lover to be kind to your parents unconditionally. Because after all, for her, your parents were strangers before you got married, and if your parents don't show kindness to her, but because she is your lover, they demand that she must be unconditionally good to them, which is not fair.
She only married you because of love, not your family.
If the husband and wife quarrel, it means that there is a problem, and if there is a problem, sit down and communicate with each other until the problem is solved, instead of thinking that the other party is at fault and then divorce.
What two people need to go to the end is not only love, but also patience, tolerance and forbearance, and mutual understanding.
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It's really hard, and it's pitiful to think about that kid. But your wife has to find a way to cure it. It is not right to divorce without a word.
If you don't want to leave for the sake of the child, you are afraid that she will have to make inches. Thought you couldn't live without her. Otherwise, you call her parents together to discuss the divorce, after all, divorce is a matter of two families, not your own.
Both parents will keep it. You can also just take the steps and give her a chance. Then manage it well and communicate well in the future.
After all, she will give you a child, and you have to treat her as your own person, not as the opposite of your parents. Tell you, between parents and wife. If you choose to stand on your wife's side, then their relationship will be better. It's true.
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Marriage has come to an end, do you feel that everything around you has nothing to do with you? There is nothing worthy of your nostalgia or can't let go, the relationship is gone, the family affection is still there, and the child is innocent, so there is no responsibility? Life is realistic, but ask for a clear conscience.
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I think you should have a good chat, plan and plan, divide responsibilities, draw a map of future life, and sometimes use actual cases to analyze and analyze the pros and cons, don't blindly quarrel, no matter how good the relationship is, it can't withstand the polishing of quarrels, it will only become more and more troublesome, disgusted to bye-bye!
You have to ask her what she wants, what you want, weigh the pros and cons and then consider each other. Maybe there will be a new turnaround, after all, you have a lovely child.
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Listen to your words to know that you are reluctant, since this is the case, you should first work hard to retain, if it is really the end, then it should really be free and easy and not look back, a person's life is also very exciting.
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Divorce, because she often talks about divorce to indicate that she no longer plans to live with you, and divorce is a matter of time.
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First of all, you should calm down, you can first properly separate for a period of time, think about whether there are still feelings, if there are still feelings, first consider the contradictions, two people have a good talk, explain the problem clearly, and you can live well if you change it in the future, if you really have no feelings, you can divorce, but don't hurt the elderly and children.
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Through your description, I feel that you are two husband and wife, one is serious and eight-booked, and the other is incapable of living in the upper class, so the three views of the two of you are different, for parents, no matter how parents are old people, the minimum respect is still there, this is also the most basic principle of being a man, if you lose then your parents here will lose something about marriage, people say that women will marry for children, and it is not easy for you to keep a man for children, for your case, You can have a good talk with your wife to see if there are any similarities in your outlook on life and values, if you can't talk about it, take advantage of your youth to end it, your wife has never looked down on you and your family, so she can't go to the end with you after all.
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Divorce, only once divorced, she will understand your goodness and cherish you!
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In my opinion, the person who gets it will never know how to cherish it, and your wife may be such a person. Treat marriage as child's play, and besides, you have such a lovely son, why can't he change his own problems. I wonder how much damage it will cause to my son to keep mentioning divorce?
The child is still young, and he has no sin. I don't think you should leave when your marriage comes to an end, and people like her who don't even know how to respect the old and love the young don't need to go down with her. But you must be good to your child in the future, give your child a perfect childhood, and don't let him leave a shadow.
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There is a saying that a day husband and wife for a hundred days, bedside quarrel and bedside, I don't think anyone will let their marriage come to an end, if your marriage really comes to an end, then you should also try to make the marriage change, because a person's marriage is very critical, no one wants to see their wives separated, I think marriage is a thing that you need to work together and discuss together to complete, not to say that it is just a hasty matter, don't think like this, because if you are divorced now, I'm afraid it will be more difficult to get married in the future.
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Through your description, I feel that you are very tired, and now the only thing that can support you is your son, the matter is not as serious as you imagined, your wife has no real business, and what she does is still very naïve, which requires you to take out the time and sincerity to move her, give her room to grow, and spend more time with your lover for your children to have a complete home.
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Hello friend. I have a special impression of one sentence in it: You say that the old man has no obligation to be good to her, so what obligation does she have to be good to your parents Is it what you said about respecting the old and loving the young? Please don't kidnap morally The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mutual, and a woman is only to the person who gave birth to her and the person who gave birth to her.
At this point in your marriage, you might as well try to let it go once.
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It's not worth it. In that case, let's take off the wine once.
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It depends on whether the two parties really have no feelings, it is normal to quarrel, but if there is no true love and affection for each other, then the marriage really doesn't have to continue, if there is still feelings, then it really has to be saved.
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It seems that you still have to care about your wife in the language, you are working hard to earn money to support your family, but you have fooled the care of your wife and children, your wife needs your comfort in her heart, in your wife's heart, you only have money, no matter about the family, you are a young husband and a young wife, lonely in your heart, you need your company, your wife said to travel, as long as the cost is not very large, then meet your wife's wishes, but also to increase the feelings of the couple, go out for a trip to the scenery, to bring you a sweet life, money is importantAs the saying goes, family and Wan Hexing, if divorced, you have no family, only money, single life is also cruel, the child has a stepmother, which is not conducive to the growth of the child, first change your shortcomings, care more about her and greetings. I hope you can get back together, my wife ignores your parents, I found that the woman is good to her own parents, and there are certain obstacles to the man's parents, if you really divorce, life will become perfect, or leave troubles.
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I think most of the people who laugh at the end of their marriages will try their best to save this marriage. Because we all understand that it is really not easy to get married, and the things that two people experienced together before marriage, they all overcame many difficulties together and finally came together. Now that my married life is unsatisfactory, I have the idea of wanting to divorce, but I can't take practical action immediately after having this idea.
And sometimes everyone thinks that the marriage has come to an end, but in fact, it has not really reached the step of divorce, and sometimes it is because there has been no such experience before, and when there is a dispute with the other half for the first time, it will be angry, so it will be said that divorce. But there must be a way to redeem it afterwards. Next, I will talk about how you should save your marriage at this time.
When the marriage of two people reaches such a situation, to be honest, it is inseparable from anyone, because marriage has always been a matter of two people, everyone should not just blindly blame each other, both parties must still have problems. At this time, since you don't want the marriage to continue to be bad and want to save this marriage, then you need two people to talk about it together, at least to know what the other party really thinks, and also to know the other party's views on this marriage. <>
Personally, I think this is also important, don't think that two people must be competitive after being together, and after disagreements with each other, they must be stronger than each other, sometimes there is really no reason to talk about it, so it is okay to tolerate it when appropriate, after all, take a step back and open the sky, sometimes you can make this relationship better by tolerating a little, and it is not interesting to be strong.
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I won't try to redeem it, because there is no need to redeem the marriage that has come to an end, and everyone's hearts are not in this marriage.
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No, it won't. Because the marriage of two people has come to an end, there is no need to redeem it, and don't compromise.
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Yes, I want my marriage to be perfect, I don't want to experience a failed marriage.
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Divorce should think about your own divorce problems, the reason why the other party wants to divorce you, calmly reflect on the reasons for the divorce, save your marriage, and analyze the problems between you. What should I do if I want to get my divorce awved? When the divorce is recovered, the most important thing we should do is to let the other party know what your attitude is now, and let the other party re-establish confidence in your married life.
If you go to him again to redeem it, you still have that commanding tone, and you can't let him get your repentance at all, I believe this will be the biggest obstacle to your recovery.
How to save feelings and marriages, in order to save feelings, many people go on trips together. You know, the mood between the two of them was very relaxed during the trip. There are also many opportunities to interact with each other.
Take advantage of such an opportunity and know how to be nice to someone, and that person will be able to feel your presence. It is necessary. Because you are the one he can't afford to lose.
Family gatherings are also a great way to do this. Your spouse sees that all the relatives in the family are so lovely. What else could you have in mind?
A complete family is not only good for yourself, but also for your loved ones, and it is also important to find the happiness of many family members.
The relationship between husband and wife is coming to an end, how to save the lost marriage as soon as possible, how to recover the lost marriage, communication problems, try not to quarrel with each other, and see the marriage that is about to pass away, there should still be a relaxed attitude between the two. When you are not in a hurry to have a serious conversation with the other person, you will find that in fact, he can also discuss marriage with you calmly. Only by finding problems together can we reverse the lost marriage.
People are imperfect. No matter how good a person is in him, you can always see some shortcomings. The union between husband and wife is a clash of two contradictions.
When you learn to accept each other. When you don't look for each other's shortcomings, you will find that the relationship between two people is not so strained.
I want to redeem how to communicate after the divorce, and only after the divorce do I know that the other party is very good. What you want most now is for him to be able to communicate with you well. Now you want to save this marriage, so you become the first to turn back.
That was in the process of chatting with him. What we have to do is be humble. Then whatever he does, you'd better listen quietly.
What he thinks about you, what you think about marriage, can only make an accurate and quick recovery plan after we know what is really going on in his heart.
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