My boyfriend came back before, why did my ex boyfriend come back to me when he found out that I had

Do you think he's pitiful? Then if your other classmates have such a thing, you will also feel pity, you may go to comfort him, but do you go back to accompany him? Now that you're already your former boyfriend, what qualifications do you have to accompany him?

Maybe as a friend, you should comfort and help him within the best you can, that's all. Don't forget your current boyfriend, for him, you are also responsible, the relationship between two people needs to be maintained by two people, and communication and exchange are needed.

Remember, if you can't forget the relationship, it doesn't matter, keep it in your heart as a memory. But you can't still have illusions about this relationship, you know, people are different, maybe you feel that this relationship has passed, just to comfort others, but others don't necessarily think this way, maybe it will cause a lot of unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings - not only yourself, maybe it will annoy three people.

Do you understand what you should do? I suggest that you don't overindulge your sympathy, since you broke up, you should stand in the perspective of ordinary friends, and help if you can, but think about it carefully.

You said it was your former boyfriend, do you care about him? Besides, did he take the initiative to ask you to accompany him"? His grandfather is sick, and it's not that he's sick, you just need to offer condolences, and you don't have to accompany him.

Seeing it as a friend will make you feel better. If you haven't let go of your feelings for your ex-boyfriend, do you think the current situation is fair to your current one? It's not a good quality to miss the old too much... So this question should be decided by yourself.

Because your ex-boyfriend thought you were going to go back to him, only to find out that you didn't and found a boyfriend, so he panicked.

Is it that he has always felt that although he broke up, you still love him and have been waiting for him. It turns out that you are actually in love with someone else, and it doesn't belong to him anymore, and he realizes that he really lost you.

Your ex-boyfriend knew that you had a boyfriend, so he came back to you, in fact, he came to stir up the situation, what did he do earlier, and now it's too late to change his mind.

There's no possibility, you have to learn to let go of this person.

Having lost a relationship, no matter what the pain is, learn to turn around, learn to let go, and learn to start over.

1. Don't contact again.

Now that he has decided to leave and explained that the two of them are not happy together, you also have to believe that it is true. There is no such assumption as you would have imagined that "he said so, but not in his heart." Don't try to send WeChat over and over again, asking questions like "Why?"

It's ** I didn't do well enough", "I can't live without you" and other wishful thinking to get back together. If you think about it, he will definitely see it, and he will be moved by your message and change his mind because of it.

But in fact, he really doesn't like you that much. If he really misses the old love, he can't bear to watch you lose sleep and cry bitterly; If he still cares about you, he will definitely come back to you, and he doesn't need you to beg him at all.

Therefore, women should keep their sanity, if they are separated, they will be separated, it is useless to cry, even if they are afraid to move forward, the days will continue every day. To learn to forget, learn to adapt to the days without him, start from the simplest, don't think about calling him as soon as there is something, don't think about sending him WeChat every day. And tell yourself that if you break up, you are the most familiar stranger, he is him, you are you, don't live in the memories of the past.

2. Don't bother anymore.

When a man chooses to break up, his heart has already given up on you. He is desperate to start a new life, and everything about you is, in his opinion, an obstacle on the way to a new life. If you leave automatically, he'll probably thank goodness; If you still chase after you and hold on tightly, he will not only not have the slightest nostalgia for you, but will be more disgusted and disgusted.

On the one hand, it will make him feel that "you can't live without me" and sneer at you; On the other hand, he is even more convinced that your personality is not suitable for him, and he is glad that his choice is correct.

What he wants most is that the bridge returns to the bridge and the road returns to the road. You should do the same. From now on, his world has nothing to do with you, don't bother, even if others talk about it, they will laugh it off, and never be a stranger.

3. Don't look back.

Experiencing a failed relationship, although it hurts and hurts, also forces you to reflect on what kind of person you want to find? What should I pay attention to when managing a relationship well? More importantly, you have to believe that in the vast sea of people, you will eventually meet the person who loves you, spoils you, and cares for you all your life.

You deserve better. So, quickly break free from the sadness and move forward bravely. Make good use of this time, do a challenging job, recharge yourself, adjust yourself through exercise, reading, and listening, so that every day is very fulfilling, and let yourself grow and progress.

Accumulate little by little, don't slacken, don't give up, persevere, and give yourself a new birth.

I've learned these lessons from failed relationships:

1. As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass! With the same person, don't break up or get back together more than twice. Shoes that don't fit, thrown a few times and finally picked up, can only prove that you are in a difficult situation.

2. In the life of two people, no matter how strong the quarrel is, don't put words like "breakup and divorce" on your lips, and no matter how deep your feelings are, they can't withstand repeated tearing. A broken mirror can be put back together, but the cracks will be there.

3. Don't use uncivilized words in life, to blame each other's parents for how to be, what not to show the children, what parents-in-law cook badly, what to take care of the children in the wrong way, such similar examples are common in life, remember, no matter what, parents are each other's parents, and parents who respect each other also respect themselves. It is not natural for the elderly to help you take care of the children, after all, people are getting older, and your body will not be like you in your thirty or forty years of vitality.

4. What you think is not what you think, but most people don't understand, especially women, men tend to be rational and usually like to speak directly, while women often like to be suspicious. A lot of the arguments are because I thought you'd understand. As the days go by, there is a lot less patience and communication with each other.

Self-righteousness and non-communication have become emotional killers.

5. When you are getting more and more stingy and feel that you are paying too much, it may be the embryonic period of breaking up. Feelings cannot be completely equal, I once said that home is not a place of reason, but of love. It's starting to hate it.

It's great that your ex-girlfriend comes back to you, and it's possible that the two of you will be together and that the two of you will be reunited sooner.

It depends on what reason you broke up, if it is not a matter of principle, you can consider getting back together.

Introduction: I used to always think, if you really let yourself go back to the past, you will definitely not be with your current boyfriend, but when you can really return to the previous state, you may still make the same choice, although there will be some contradictions between us, there will be some problems, but at that time those sweet lives existed, we were all happy and loved, so there is no need to be overly entangled, let it be, he is actually the best choice.

I don't know what everyone thinks, but I've been thinking about it before, what would I do if I returned to the age of 18, and now I will regret it very much, why didn't I study hard at that time, if I can really return to that era, I will definitely choose to study hard, but when I can really go back, I guess it will be the same state as Kiki before, this should be a regret in my heart, but I always want to have some surprises, if I can go back to the past, I should choose my current boyfriend, because our relationship is still relatively stable, although there will be some friction and some contradictions in the middle, but this does not affect the relationship between us.

We don't know what kind of state it will be in the future, but now we are very happy, very sweet, we should stick to it without encountering some unexpected circumstances, the other party will do unlimited things in a limited time, and I have considered going to Harbin to play at that time, because I particularly like the ice sculptures there, if I can really go to that place, I feel very happy, and this thing was mentioned by chance a long time ago, but the object has always remembered, I feel very happy, So no matter how many contradictions there are, happiness still exists, and there is no way to erase this. Even if you go through it again, the same pain will still choose the same person.

I will also choose my current boyfriend, because I think the other party is a very self-motivated person, and the two of them are very happy and comfortable together, so I will still choose each other.

I would still choose my current boyfriend because he was really happy with me, and the age at that time would have made me choose the same.

Yes. Because my current boyfriend is very good to me and is a good husband, I will choose my current boyfriend.

If he has a girlfriend now, he doesn't talk about anything. Does he want to step on two boats?

If he's only interested in being good to you right now, you can consider it. But there are a few things to look out for:

1. He once betrayed you, your love is no longer perfect, and there will be some shadows in your heart.

2. I have betrayed you once, and it is very likely to betray you again. For example, when you meet a better girl3, he said that you have lied to him, what kind of thing is it, will it leave a shadow in his heart?

Regarding a few conditions, it is best to add a few more in combination with the actual situation now, mainly to let him guarantee his loyalty to your feelings.

Addendum: What is his relationship with that girl? Who is chasing whom? Or do you like each other?

If he is tired of that girl, and comes to you again, it is better to ignore him, such a person is unreliable. If you also want to be with him, when you reply to him, you have to ask him to break off his relationship with someone else's woman as a condition. Otherwise you will be miserable.

Can you let go of this feeling from the bottom of your heart? If you love Him, you can run away from Him, but can you run away from yourself? If you love him, look at his attitude towards you, try to give him a chance, after all, it is not easy to really love someone in your life!

Otherwise, find a reason to let yourself die completely!

If such a man wants to, he knew today, why bother in the first place? A man who hurts and then comes back, does he dare to promise that he will not leave again when he returns?

A woman can't stand an injury, don't fall in the same place. Do not give him any chance, you will find better than him, such a man does not deserve forgiveness.

Believe in yourself, you can do it.

I'm afraid I can't find a good man, what else do I have to do with this kind of man.

For this kind of man, I don't think you have to worry about this kind of person, you don't know how to cherish it when you have it, and you only understand her preciousness when you lose it, he will give up his current girlfriend to reconcile with you, it doesn't mean that he won't break up with you for other women in the future. The past is the past, and it's not interesting to mention it anymore. People walk away with light tea.

Everyone is equal in the face of opportunities, and sincerity is the key.

This time and that time. It is useless to say more. **No reply.

Ask yourself how you feel about him, let him go, and if you still care about him, try to communicate.

What he's saying now is! Ignore him, a man who pedals two boats on one foot is unreliable.

A good horse doesn't eat back grass, he couldn't do it before, and he can't do it now.

The question is not whether you can find him, but whether you can give up the whole forest for the sake of his big tree. If you can't like him with all your heart, then what's the point of getting back together? Being young is not an excuse, and young people also know that you can't be half-hearted, you have to know that since you are hanging from this tree, at least don't look around before the rope breaks.

I think he's conflicted right now.

Maybe it's waiting for you to transform, at least learn to grow up. A woman in love occasionally loses her temper and can boost your relationship, but long-term is vexatious. Not everyone can grasp the sense of proportion, and those who can use it to keep each other and make many parties think that you rely on him and love him; But those who can't often only be self-defeating, so that the other party can't see through, and even get bored and disgusted.

Maybe he's just in time to forget about you. Friends greet each other, especially when the other person is sick, (not to mention that your relationship is still a little deeper than that of friends), this is normal, and it doesn't mean that he can't let you go. Maybe it's just that he is more mature and cares about you, and doesn't want you to affect your studies or life because of falling out of love.

So, everyone doesn't know him in his heart, and you don't know it, because you probably don't know him better than we do, even if you were his girlfriend. But think about it, are you sure you used to be his girlfriend and not a female friend? Did you really know and care about him?

If you suddenly find that you have wasted all your time on boring things in the past, then congratulations, you have managed to be his female friend for so many years.

Don't look for forgiveness in others, but let others forgive you, and if you want to get others' understanding, you must first change your temper appropriately.