About the distress of going to college. Enlightenment!

First of all, congratulations! You've seen what you're supposed to do, and that's good. You're still young, remember someone who said that:

Do whatever comes to mind! Although we have young capital, it does not mean that it can withstand our profligacy. Personally, I think that people who know what they are supposed to do are luckier than those who know what they are doing.

But it's also important to note that once you've made up your mind to do something, you have to stick to it. It's a cliché, but sometimes it's useful.

Studying is not for you, if you don't go to the top universities, you won't improve much in terms of knowledge, and if you study interpersonal schools, it's even more impossible to compare with society. Just to give you advice, I advise you not to think about studying anymore, there are things you want to do anyway, but it is wrong, do you still do it.

I don't think I have to choose to go to university, I also had a good desire to go to college, but after I arrived, I found that college is no longer the ivory tower in my mind, and now it is too common to go to college, and the most important thing in college is social interaction, participate in social activities, and may not be able to find a job when I graduate. I think your current position is very good, and if you continue, you will have no regrets, it is much better than the many decadent college students who spend their years in vain.

You know, your current job is only temporary, and there is no possibility of any development, because you don't have any technology or knowledge, but you are just a labor force, what do you use to make money when you are old? Go to college, you are still young, make up your mind, get admitted to a university, let your parents and the people around you see, you can also look up and be a person, right!

I'm still in favor of going to college, and it's easier for you to have a bachelor's degree and your uncle will promote you, but don't expect to learn a lot of useful things in college, the main thing is to have this experience, to have a broad mind, to meet different people and different things.

Life is not smooth sailing, we can't blindly put the ifs in words, it's important to live in the moment, to be honest, going to college is an opportunity, but it's not the only opportunity, if you miss it, you miss it, what we have to do is not miss it again, don't let yourself regret it again, grasp the opportunity in front of you, as long as you have perseverance, everything is possible.

You're just like my former classmates. My classmate also worked outside for 2 years and suddenly wanted to come back to study and go to university. Let me tell you this!

He didn't like to read before, liked the outside world, and thought that the outside world was very exciting, so he ran out behind his parents' back, and his parents thought that he was studying, but in fact he was looking for a job outside. After 2 years, he felt that it was not a matter at all to work like this, and people could not work for a lifetime, so he wanted to come back to study with great perseverance. Later, I was admitted to 1 book.

I don't need to talk about it after that! I'm not telling the story about the facts. If you want to study, go back and apologize to your parents, and communicate with your parents well, it's not a shameful thing, it's your own parents, don't be confused for a while.

In fact, parents want their sons to have a good life, and it is impossible for them not to give you hope, as long as you love them, they can solve anything. You can still study at your age, and you are still taking the college entrance examination for 15 years, as long as you work hard, I don't believe that you can not be admitted. Read what I want to say, don't lose your dreams.

If you want to read, you have to get good grades.

You should understand what you need, you have more experience than the average person, you need to know that the school is completely different from the bad environment outside, it is very difficult to integrate, can you calm down, whether you are tired of a kind of exhaustion. Think about what you want, what you want to get when you go to school, so that you can go there and find it, whether there is one.

In fact, many students will have this feeling at this time, students who can be admitted to the same university, the foundation is not much different, but the opportunities in the school will not satisfy everyone, and then some people are getting better and better, some people are still working hard, and some people are beginning to decadent. But college has the advantage of picking up at any given time, it's never too late. At this moment, it's up to you to see if you really understand what you're looking for and what you want.

Believe in yourself!

Intimate friends, wait for fate to change (premise, you should do a good job of yourself). It's not that you went to work in college, is it possible, are you a rich child? If you practice, then do more of what you want to do (such as making a friend, taking it home when the time comes, reading books, learning taekwondo, learning musical instruments, learning painting, learning to be a person, learning to make money).

Also, please, college students, it's not difficult to make a plan.

Afraid of loneliness (me too, although I don't have many good friends, but all of them are good, help me get rid of loneliness, maybe I'm not lonely), you just shift your emotions and turn to your hobbies and something.

The plan is not given by others, you must find out what you need to get in order to execute it according to your own purpose, the plan will follow, you are now seeking others to give the plan I think you are confused because you are wasting your time and the surrounding environment makes you unable to feel at ease. Hehe, students should think about how they can change the status quo, instead of thinking about how to spend college and don't want to study.

Simply give you some advice, work part-time, talk about love, participate in clubs, study hard, even if people only play games, you can be friends with him, of course it is not okay to give up, it is necessary to get a certificate after college, and then it is simple to find something to do, do anything, as long as you are happy, you like it.

Control yourself, act immediately on what is in your heart, have the impulse of a young person, and don't care about other people playing games or watching movies. But game men have the advantages of game men, don't look down on them. Pay attention to two investments, one is to invest in yourself, and the other is to invest in contacts.

You should be rich and united.

Find a girlfriend who studies well to fall in love, go to self-study with your girlfriend, and stay away from the influence of your roommates. If you really want to study hard, you can get out of the mud without staining.

Every day, you work out for an hour, read a book for 2 hours, memorize English words for level 4 for half an hour, and if you want to do something, you don't have time.

I recommend a book to you "What to Read in College" and read it several times.

Yes, I also think that the plan is not given by others, and what suits others may not necessarily suit you! I take the liberty of asking, are you a man?

Being isolated, I personally think it's all a personal problem, the first thing you should see is what you are not doing well, whether there is something that causes everyone to be disgusted with you, and then consider the problem of your roommate, if you really have a clear conscience, then you can only act on the spot, and there is no problem with a better mentality. But I still think you should be the bigger of your own problem.

You have to be generous, not arrogant, enthusiastic, and not flattering, but you can take the initiative to speak. They don't pay much attention to you, you can take the initiative to talk to them and get involved in their conversations. Among classmates, there are not so many things to say!

Personally, I think we should first find the reason and change the problem from ourselves, after all, it is easier than changing the people around you.

Also, do something to serve everyone when it's convenient for you to let everyone know that you are also a member of the dormitory. Whoever is inconvenient takes the initiative to take a hand and do a favor. To strengthen communication with roommates, you can start with class announcements, activity lectures, etc.

If they don't call you, you can call them. Gather sand into a tower, and the barrier will eventually be broken.

If you really can't, participate in more club activities and gain friendship from other sources.

Personal advice ha.

I don't meet any of the above conditions, but if you want to get along with your friends, first of all, don't put up a fight.

Why would they isolate you, and why? Have you observed it for yourself?

You're both in college, not kids, if something goes wrong, talk about it and see if you need to improve or if your roommate is quiet and doesn't like to be disturbed.

In college, everyone is interested in hobbies, pay more attention to your own observations, and then see if you can have a common language with them.

If you blindly accommodate, forget it, it's better to be alone.

1 It must be your problem, not your roommate's. Are you the kind of person who would be isolated? Do you feel like you can relate to people from the bottom of your heart? Work on yourself.

2 What about being isolated in a dormitory? You can't live alone? What should I do?

I'm not a teacher, and I want to share my opinion. In fact, everyone has their own personality, and perhaps the image we choose to show in front of others will change at any time. Sometimes you are troubled by this, and sometimes you may ignore the feelings of others.

In fact, I also felt very isolated in high school, and now it's a little better, but there will still be a potential sense of isolation, maybe this is because I can't let go of my heart, we should be more open, make ourselves happier, and don't let ourselves be under pressure all the time. Going with the flow may be the fundamental way.

Encourage yourself, I am the same as you, in fact, as long as you are lively, take the initiative to interact with others, you will definitely have a close friend, in fact, I have also had your feelings, and I can understand your words. It doesn't matter, it's not easy to let go of college life a little, your teachers, your classmates, your parents, all look forward to your performance.

1.There is a lot of free time in college, and joining students will not affect your studies. I often only have 2-4 classes a day. Joining the student union can indeed get to know more people and increase knowledge.

2. It is indeed beneficial to run for class cadres, and it is also said on the resume to find a job in the future.

3. It is a bit troublesome to study for probationary party members to join the party, if you have the intention of taking the civil service examination in the future, then enter.

4. Joining the party is mainly to enter civil servants and state-owned enterprises, and no one will check whether you are a party member if you go abroad.

5 can be tested. Any teacher loves students who love to learn.