I would like to ask you something about the world

In interpersonal interactions, sometimes you are not careful, and you unknowingly fall into the premeditated trap of others. As a girl, be smart, don't be so confused...Some people live in a state of mind, a state of mind, you are you, you are yourself, you care about others, you are laughed at, then you are friends and cannot be anything else, who is not often laughed at, the so-called confidant is hard to find, it is difficult for others to talk to you. Do not understand the way to talk.

Don't care too much, let go of some things in your heart, and you will find that it is nothing, it is as simple as that. It's all about you thinking too much.

Your communication skills are really bad, and the money is definitely not suitable to take the initiative to bring it back, if you really do this, you will have a little flaw in your opinion of this person in the future, not that we say that you are calculating, but that your colleagues will definitely think so.

Change your mindset and think of the $150 as a sacrifice for the sake of friendship between colleagues.

In the future, if you have a party or something, you will participate more or less, and if you don't have anything special to deal with, don't leave early, after all, you have to live in this circle.

If you don't know, you can learn, if you don't know, you can ask, and if you are suitable, you can participate.

Of course, you should also pay attention to some inappropriate places, do not participate, such as gambling and so on.

What else could it be? You went to tie it yourself, and no one forced you. If the knot is over, you can only resign yourself to fate.

Do you want to get along with everyone in the future? If you don't think it matters, then you can ask them for an account.

Meaning: the method, the principle and the experience of dealing with the world.

Source: Ming Feng Menglong, "Xingshi Hengyan", Volume 21.

Translation: It's a pity that you are talented, but you don't know how to behave in the world.

Example: I said that you have no experience, so these people don't understand the world at all.

Antonyms: The world is hot and cold.

Interpretation: Some people flatter others in every way when they gain power, and they are very cold when others lose power.

Source: Song Wen Tianxiang "Guide to Du Jia Ge".

Original text: "In the past, the prince of Wei, and now General Huo, the world is very hot and cold, and the friendship is noble and low." ”

Translation: In the past, he followed the prince of Wei, and today he befriended General Huo.

It refers to the methods, principles, and experiences of dealing with the world.

The ways of the world. Pronunciation: rén qíng shì gù

Usage: combined; as a subject, object, and definite; Describe relationships with others.

Sentence formation: Xiao Ming really doesn't understand any human feelings.

Taken literally, the "human affection" spoken of in Chinese culture refers to the temperament between people. The word human affection, now explained, includes sociology, political science, psychology, behavioral science and other disciplines, that is, the feelings of harmony between people. "Sophistication" is to understand things thoroughly, to understand the past, present, and future.

"Sophistication" is commonly said to be these things in the world, to understand people, to understand things, it is called human feelings and sophistication. But now people use this word backwards, the so-called "sophisticated" guy is another name for "slippery head"; "Favor" has become synonymous with sycophancy.

If you don't express your joys, angers, sorrows, and sorrows so obviously, and if you can smile and chat with people you don't like, and you start to think about whether it's time to exchange courtesies, then you have already stepped out of the tooth tower into the world, and you have mastered the essentials of human feelings and sophistication.

To sum up, the so-called sophistication of human feelings means that you have to understand human nature and understand people's hearts. Understand how everyone thinks, and the deeper you understand human nature, the more you will know what human feelings are. To borrow a sentence from Mr. Cao Xueqin, the world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article.

Happy New Year. What is sophistication? Taken apart, it is human emotion, and sophistication is the common rules in the world, and the reason why it is done.

Connecting the world is your personal response to the world, which is called the world. Of course, people with high emotional intelligence handle it better, and people who are willful and love freedom handle it poorly.

To put it bluntly, you have to be sensible. For example, you can't afford to be in trouble at someone else's house, and you're still talking cool next to you.

The scope of human sophistication is large, not only large but also wide. This is the interaction between people, some rules and habits that have been continued for thousands of years, it is better to do things according to this rule, it is called human sophistication, if you deviate from this rule, it seems a little different, people often say that it violates human ethics, so ordinary people will say that you don't understand human feelings. For example, relatives and friends will bring gifts to each other in the New Year, and if you don't do this, it is called not understanding the world.

When someone left your house and you didn't go to someone's house, it's called coming and not being rude. Not only these aspects, but also a lot of things, when you meet the elders, you have to greet the elders politely, you have to respect the elders and the young, etc., there are many levels of situation, and this is also where young people should learn more.

The sophistication of human feelings is reflected in the interaction between people, the way things are handled, the attitude and the view of a thing. How to survive sleekly is to accomplish one thing, and there is a deep human affection for here.

Sophisticated human feelings are not a market custom, but also an attitude towards life. Treat others warmly, be polite, do not say things that make others unacceptable, and know how to thank others when they are helped.

Chinese explanation of human feelings.

The following results are provided by Handian for dictionary explanation.

Explanation]: The principle of living in the world.

From]: Song Wen Tianxiang "Sending the Monk to the Preface": "I am committed to the world with him. Ming Feng Menglong's "Xingshi Hengyan" Volume 21: "It's a pity that you are full of articles and can't see the sophistication of human feelings. ”

Example]: I said that you have not been trained at all, so you don't understand these things at all. Qing Wu Yanren's "The Strange Status Quo Witnessed in Twenty Years" Chapter 14.

synonyms]: human affection, human affection.

Antonyms: The world is hot and cold.

Syntax]: associative; as a subject, object, and definite; Describe relationships with others.

Getting along with people requires skills, and if you don't understand the world, you won't have good popularity.

1.Always find out what makes friends, partners and colleagues (even children) worthy of recognition, note that even your boss needs to be recognized by you, but praise should be done privately as much as possible, and praise should be done publicly for friends and colleagues in general.

2. When you are praised by others for your appearance, things, and character, don't take it for granted, and don't deny it, the appropriate way is to express gratitude, especially thanks to friends for their affirmation and support.

In the TV series "Young Marshal", Zhang Zuolin has a saying: Jianghu is the sophistication of human feelings, the sophistication of human feelings, and the exchange of human feelings is a science.

In life, the truth of human affection!

The state of communication and interaction between people is the sophistication of human feelings!

No matter how smart and capable a person is, and how good his background is, if he doesn't know how to behave and do things, then his final outcome will definitely be failure. The reason why many people do nothing all their lives is because they have lived their whole lives without figuring out how to behave and do things. We live in a realistic society.

When you can't change some people and things, you need to change yourself and try to adapt yourself to this society. If you don't want to run into walls everywhere, you must know some sophistication, master some communication etiquette and communication skills, "come to things" at the right time, and be flexible in the world.

To put it simply, it's relationships.

Favors: It is necessary to borrow and repay, and do not owe each other.

Sophistication: It is the attitude towards life.