Becoming more and more dependent, afraid of being alone, afraid of being alone

I am used to group life, but I also have to slowly exercise my ability to live independently.

People always feel lonely and scared when they are alone, so they will especially need companionship. But sometimes you have friends by your side and you want to be alone.

It seems to me that it is normal for people to feel lonely when they are alone, but this loneliness is selective.

We don't want our friends to be there for us all the time, we just want our friends to be there for us when we need them, and to leave them when we don't.

Loneliness is the norm, but when we feel lonely, there are things we can do to alleviate it. For example, think about life, for example, read more books, understand some life principles, or travel alone to feel the beautiful scenery. As long as you have something to do, you won't feel lonely, and sometimes loneliness is not that there is no one to accompany you, but that your heart is relatively empty.

The reason why people need companionship is because people are social animals.

When people get along with each other, they can talk about their troubles, they can have companionship, and they can comfort their souls.

Sometimes I experience too little, but listening to the experiences of others is also a kind of growth for myself, so many people prefer to be with friends rather than alone.

When I was in high school, I liked to be alone and eat alone because I didn't have to waste time waiting for everyone else to finish eating. Likes to read books alone because you can think well without being disturbed by other people.

When I was in college, I especially liked companionship, because I was used to the sound of friends chattering around me, and I was also used to the warmth of caring for each other. <>

Everyone has a different personality, some people like to be alone, some people like company.

The most important thing for everyone is to do what they love, and if they like to be with friends, they should get together with friends more often. But if you don't like the people around you, it's good to be alone.

Being alone is an ability.

Sometimes it seems that people who are alone are better, because solitude is an ability, but not everyone has it.

The best sign of growth is not dependent on others, so being alone is the best way, and sometimes being alone can clarify your thoughts and know which direction you want to work towards. It can also make your heart more peaceful and live the way you want. <>

The reason why people feel scared when they are alone is because their hearts are not firm and they are easily influenced by other people's thoughts.

People who really know how to be alone will not feel afraid, because when they are alone, they will find a lot of things that are suitable for themselves, and sometimes it is in solitude that they grow the fastest.

So for everyone to enjoy solitude, it is to enjoy growth, and don't be afraid of solitude, because you will quietly become strong in solitude, and then amaze everyone.

Because humans are social animals. People can't stay away from the group for too long, which will lead to some problems in people's psychological condition, and people must come into contact with others.

If you have someone by your side, you won't be very lonely and you won't be afraid. So everybody is alone.

Because man is a social animal, this is the habit of life that was preserved when we were still primitive people, so everyone needs a true friend to talk to when they are in trouble.

Because humans are social animals, they feel very scared when they are alone, so they especially need companionship.

Because people are social animals, companionship is the best gift, you can talk about your heart, chat, and properly release your pressure.

It's because having someone to accompany you will solve your loneliness, and you will feel that you have something to do, and you won't have such emotions.

This is because when people are lost, they need the help and companionship of others very much, so that they can get out of this application in time.

For people, if there is no companionship, then it will be very sad, and if someone accompanies them, then they can release loneliness and life will be more interesting.

Because no one is an individual, when people feel lonely and lonely, it is a good feeling to have someone with them.

Because companionship can make people grow and people will not feel lonely, it is very good.

The room was empty, and only one was left to breathe alone.

At that moment, it seems as if all the air is cold, so real reminder that everything is too quiet.

Maybe everyone is born with a fear of loneliness.

Those things that no one can understand are always hidden in the deepest part of the heart, and sometimes try to find out their feelings from a certain song, but they can't find the lyrics that satisfy them.

After all, other people's injuries are not your pain.

So no matter how you listen to a song, you still can't empathize with it. Because, that's not your side-skinning story.

And your story isn't someone else's life.

We are all living our own lives, happy and painful.

Many people are the same, at one point or another they are saddened by an inexplicable emotion.

You don't know, loneliness is just a mood.

No one can understand, no song can express, not even a word can express.

In the face of loneliness, words also began to become pale and weak.

Perhaps, your loneliness is your most beautiful pain.

I am afraid of loneliness because I am suffering from loneliness.

People often say that they want to enjoy solitude, and I once believed this sentence and tried to do it. In the end, I found that I was still afraid of loneliness and hated loneliness.

Since childhood, my parents have to live in someone else's house or at home by themselves because of their parents' work. The child's world is abundant. But slowly, it seems that the world of exploration of this world has been lost. I've done everything I can do on my own, and I want to find someone to accompany me at that time.

It's very shocking to find it, and I want to find a playmate. The more you search, the more lonely you become. In the end, I slowly gave up looking for it and learned to be at peace with what happened.

Going with the flow is just another explanation for loneliness, because you know that the worst outcome is just yourself, and there is nothing that you can't accept and understand.

But over the years, I have also had a lot of friends around me. Girlfriends, friends of all levels. But it seems that what is left in my heart is still my own reflection. Sometimes it is impossible to understand children who are very close to their parents. Maybe there's an element of envy.

Recently, I often heard that life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance. Sometimes fantasize about the future life. Always unconsciously substitute the other half you want. There are various different types, but what is the same is, warmth.

Loneliness is not without its benefits, it has made me very clear about what I want. Didn't lose too much time on other roads. But sometimes they envy those who are wanton with their youth. Because loneliness has long worn out the willfulness and wantonness in his body.

But as I get older, I seem to have another level of understanding of loneliness – waiting. Years of loneliness are waiting for the arrival of the warmth that belongs only to me. It's to contrast with the loneliness before.

I don't know if this understanding is correct, but at least it will allow me to stick with it and enjoy ......

I hope that one day I will no longer be afraid of loneliness, and that will mean that I already have warmth.

Loneliness and loneliness are a person's normal psychological emotions, frankly speaking, everyone will be afraid of loneliness, because people have a vulnerable side, in the subconscious hope that there will be a dependence, even if it is a child, even a pet, people's subconscious will talk about relying on it, to get rid of their psychological emotions.

The heart is not strong enough, and he lacks his own fun.

You may feel lonely by yourself, but at the same time you are afraid that you will be hurt when you are two people...

Me too, it's good to live alone, do what you like, I hope you find your hobby soon! Then you feel much better, and I wish you a happy life!

Take the initiative to talk to others, after a long time, you will have a lot of friends.

It's up to you to find the reason for this, either you are too introverted and don't like to be with too many people, because introverts don't like to talk, or you are not popular, and others don't like to be with you. If you want to contact more people, the first thing is to lower your dignity, don't be too arrogant, and learn to be considerate of people, learn to be tolerant of people who offend you, learn to smile often, someone needs help, try to help as much as possible, and keep promises to friends, so that you can make true friends, and someone will take the initiative to find you!

Because there is dependence, the heart will be weak, so there will be a fear of loneliness. The solution is: enrich yourself, whether it is through study, work, travel, etc., as long as you slowly fill your heart, you will become stronger, then you are your best dependence, and you will no longer be afraid.

That means you don't want to live together just yet.

If you want to, you'll definitely consciously go in this direction.

So ask your heart.

You're not really opening up to someone.

You haven't met that person yet.

There is no one who makes you desperate to love.

Hopefully she will surprise you in the future.

Don't do that....Even if the whole world ignores you and ignores you. But as long as your parents still care about you, where is the loneliness? Loneliness in life, not being able to find friends. You can find friends online....Would love to be friends with you.

Summary. Hello dear. There is a particular fear that a single person can slowly diminish with time and circumstances.

Everyone will experience some bad things to some extent, but life will make us experience setbacks and make us grow at the same time, so that our psychological endurance will be greatly enhanced. Your own recent mental state may be poor or even anxious. That's why you feel scared and upset when you see someone.

This state of mind can be traced back to childhood, and may be due to a low sense of security due to not receiving enough love in infancy and early childhood. This can be changed through self-acceptance and self-growth. Of course, this is a very long process.

Well, don't be in a hurry.

Hello dear. There is a particular fear that a single person can slowly diminish with time and circumstances. Everyone will experience some bad things to some extent, but life will make us experience setbacks and make us grow at the same time, so that our psychological endurance will be greatly enhanced.

Your own recent mental state may be poor or even anxious. That's why you feel scared and upset when you see someone. This state of mind can be traced back to childhood, and may be due to a low sense of security due to not receiving enough love in infancy and early childhood.

This can be changed through self-acceptance and self-growth. Of course, this is a very long process. Well, don't be in a hurry.

In life, we do have some people who we are particularly afraid of not wanting to meet. Especially when our relatives are still powerful and powerful, we are very afraid of them, afraid to stay with them, afraid to face their questioning alone. But we had to face them.

So what are the psychological reasons for being particularly afraid of a person? I think I am especially afraid of a person because my inner need for security is not met when facing that person.

It's not that you're particularly afraid of someone, it's that you're afraid of being alone.

Turning on the lights is also scared?

You can get out and walk more.

At school, I am afraid to walk alone, eat alone, go to the toilet alone.

How old are you to help enlighten your mind.