How college students relate to others and how to relate to others during college

When we go to university, we have a lot to learn. Getting along with others is also a science. Many people did not live on campus in junior high school or high school, and it may be their first time living on campus at university.

1. People with compatible magnetic fields will take the initiative to be together.

Do you have such an experience? When you spend time with someone, you will know if you can continue to get along with that person. That's because your magnetic fields match.

Two people with compatible magnetic fields may not have the same personalities, but their goals and styles are very different. That's why they get along with each other.

Second, there is no need to fit into a circle that is not suitable for you.

In college. Not everyone's goals and personalities are the same, and there is no need to change oneself for anyone, and there is a desire to change others. Just make yourself do what you have to do.

3. Empathy.

A lot of the time. If we are not the parties, then we can't judge what others do, maybe when we meet him, we may not do it, he did it well. If we have not experienced what others have experienced, then we are not qualified to judge others.

Finally, what we need more is empathy.

Take care of the emotions of others. When you're talking about something. You have to think about whether this will cause other people's emotions to be depressed. Never get praise from others by belittling others and exalting yourself.

Do not touch the privacy of others. Everyone will have their own privacy to a greater or lesser extent. These are things that are not willing to be touched by others.

Therefore, even if you have a good relationship with this person, don't touch his privacy, let alone tell others about his privacy. On the contrary, if you want to get along better with him, then you have to protect his privacy.

Don't be one person and carry another. When people turn their backs on others, it will be hateful, and don't gossip about others behind their backs, so that you can win the respect of others and get along with others more friendly.

1. Understand each other and seek common ground while reserving differences. Be open to accepting what makes someone else unique.

2. Respect each other and solicit opinions. Respect has a wide range of aspects, including personality, thoughts, emotions, values, interests, and so on.

3. Learn to tolerate and deal with emotions. Accept the differences of others in the process of getting along with each other.

Fourth, abide by the rules and be broad-minded. Explore each other's strengths as much as possible, even if you don't have a lot of language exchanges, it's a must to say hello when you meet each other.

Fifth, broad-minded, regardless of gains and losses.

Sweep the floor more and fetch more water, and there won't be much loss.

Learn to be self-critical and self-deprecating. If you learn to use self-deprecation to alleviate the unhappiness between the two parties after making a mistake, it can be described as an escalation of admitting mistakes. Not only make the other person happy, but also leave a good impression on the other party.

Learning to be self-critical is also the beginning of progress. Have the courage to admit your mistakes.

It's inevitable to make mistakes, and having the courage to admit them not only proves that you are courageous, but also proves that you have the idea of making amends. Interpersonal relationships will inevitably produce unhappiness, and the courage to admit one's mistakes will alleviate the unhappiness between each other, which is a manifestation of responsibility and responsibility. If you make a mistake, you have to correct it, and don't admit it and it's over.

Knowing that you are wrong and correcting it is really responsible.

A college student has just entered society, so he should be sincere, brave, and enthusiastic, and get along with others to be measured. 33. Treat everyone sincerely, don't be hypocritical in order to gain a good reputation, the so-called time is this truth. Everyone wants a friend who is very honest and not always on the defensive.

30. Everyone who appears in front of you is looking back a thousand times in the past, thirty years in the east, thirty years in the west, not seeing the high and the low, don't bully the poor, everyone is a blue chip.

College students must be cautious and cautious in their dealings with others.

University is a small society, and the environment will not be as simple as that of junior high school and high school. You don't know what kind of people you meet and what kind of friends you make, so you must be cautious when making friends, distinguish the boundaries, and think clearly about what you can and can't say, and what you can do and can't do. Do not trust others, do not deceive others, treat people sincerely, look at people rationally, and make friends carefully.

A college student who is just starting out and has just entered the society should be sincere, brave, enthusiastic, and have to be measured in getting along with others.

First, distinguish the priority of the problem, solve the problem first, and reduce the complaint and dissatisfaction.

University is also the beginning of a collective life, students come from different provinces, everyone has different family backgrounds, and students are very different in terms of ideology, values, lifestyles and habits. The possibility of conflicts between classmates will increase, and there will be more complaints, but blindly complaining about others and staring at others' faults and shortcomings will not solve the problem, not only will not improve the interpersonal relationships of classmates, but will reduce your motivation to actively improve relationships, so we should spend time on how to actively solve problems and improve relationships, and less complain and dissatisfaction.

2. Adjust your mentality in time and do a good job of self-psychological adjustment.

Students come from all over the country, all over the world, each person's living habits and values are different, since they are destined to become classmates, become roommates, and live together, we must understand his (her) lifestyle and habits. When someone else's lifestyle has an impact on your life, you can offer your own opinions or suggestions, but it is more important to make appropriate self-adjustments. It is important to pay attention to the methods and skills when giving advice or suggestions to students.

You have to have a good mindset and maintain a positive outlook. The vast majority of students do not deliberately want to have conflicts with themselves, and they must not give advice to others in front of everyone, so as not to embarrass and lose face to the other party. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, learn to respect, tolerate, forbearance, and care, not to take personal likes and dislikes as evaluation standards, let alone impose their own standards on others, and to stand in the perspective of others.

3. Be good at listening, less accusation, more praise.

When talking to classmates, be good at listening to others, which is a sign of respect. Respect for others will invisibly satisfy the needs of the other person's self-esteem, win the favor of the other person, and deepen the relationship between each other. Everyone wants to be appreciated and praised and is afraid of being blamed by others.

Don't always criticize, blame and complain about others in your interactions, give them sincere appreciation and praise; If you must criticize someone, you should also praise them before criticizing them or subtly suggest that the other person is aware of your mistakes, which can win friendships. Being good at asking for help from your classmates and friends and building your own social support system will make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious.

Fourth, pay attention to the "degree" of exchanges, and grasp the direction, depth, and breadth of exchanges.

During the university period, I had more contact with my teachers, classmates and senior brothers and sisters, and asked them more about life and study problems, so that I could integrate into university life faster and better. To maintain a good interpersonal relationship, we must also grasp the direction, depth, and breadth. College students must have principles and standards for making friends, and they must be aware of them.

At the same time, the breadth should also be appropriate, and you must grasp it well.

1. Don't be hungry to show off your status as a chairman or minister in front of others, which will make others feel a kind of disgust for you first. First, the college years are the years of personality, and everyone is trying to find their own value, and no one is convinced. "Because this is the university" Second, when you walk out of school, no one knows you, you are nothing.

So it's best to keep your so-called pride in the first meditation and return to your heart.

2. If there is a class in the first class in the morning, sleep less, and don't swagger open the door and walk into the classroom when the teacher starts to lecture.

3. Earnestly study professional knowledge, and secondly, you should not abandon your studies, nor should you just stop in your comfort zone and try some positive things that you have never tried.