Choose the person you like or choose the right person to marry

Modern people are too open, too casual, and do not have a sense of responsibility for marriage before, don't keep talking about foreign countries, the divorce rate in foreign countries is not as high as in our country, people are just open before marriage. Foreigners are less likely to return after the divorce, and in China, you will be lowered a notch after the divorce, so it is still prudent.

Back to the question, of course, if both parties like it, it would be good, marriage is still ordinary firewood, rice, oil and salt most of the time after the sweetness, which is difficult for many newcomers, and if the mutual affection is deep, it will be more able to grow old together.

Find a way to find out if the person you like likes you, and if you do, then it's none of the business of the person behind you. If you don't like it, then you think about the person who is suitable for marriage, do you like it, it's okay if you don't like it, don't be far-fetched, look for it again.

The premise depends on whether the person you like is suitable for marriage, and whether you like the person who is suitable for marriage.

It's a bit of a twist to say this, but in fact, the most important thing is the person you think is suitable for marriage, do you like it a little? If you don't feel anything about him, then I suggest you have to reconsider. As for the person you like, of course it is best to get married, but if he can't bring you happiness after marriage, then I'd rather not get married.

It depends on whether the person you like likes you or not.

Worrying about whether to marry someone you like or the right person is the dregs of traditional culture, as if a person has been married once, held a wedding ceremony, and the whole life can be sublimated. Marriage is just one way for us to be happy, and if you can't be happy in this way for a while, can you choose not to get married?

You've been doing it for so many years, do you still care about that year or two?

Other people's mouths are just for their own pleasure, when they persuade you to marry the right person, you don't have a brain at all, but you stupidly listen to it, you don't suffer who suffers?

After all, life needs to be lived by yourself every minute and second, others will not pay for your misfortune, they have always watched the excitement and not think it is a big deal, and only you know the bitterness and warmth.

Therefore, as much as possible, we should put aside the worldly value judgments and the ardent expectations of our parents, and firmly control the right to happiness in our own hands.

Marriage is very boring, married life with love will still be dull, and marriage without love is a pool of stagnant water from beginning to end, lifeless. We have compromised on many things in order to survive, love is one of the few stubbornnesses, and if you can give up even the person you like, what fun is there in your life.

I like what the heroine's father said to the heroine in "The Leftover is King":

She shouldn't get married for her parents, she shouldn't listen to any gossip outside, and she thinks about getting married when she hears too much. She should think about getting married with the person she likes, holding her head high, being particularly tough, longing, as if she has won.

Although there is no absolute result in anything, it does not mean that if I marry the person I like, I will be 100% happy until I grow old, and there are many accidents and twists in life.

But always follow your own heart, rather than the evaluation of others and the rules of the world, and leave the least regrets.

Marrying someone you don't like but are suitable doesn't necessarily mean you're unhappy, but that's tantamount to losing your worth for a game that has no chance of winning and no basis, and it's actually worth the loss.

Of course, it's important to be suitable, but dislike is the biggest inappropriateness.

Moreover, in the eyes of many people, suitability is essentially the overwhelming superiority of economic conditions, rather than the matching of family, education, and three views. But the gift given by fate has long been secretly marked **, you think you earned it, but in fact it is not necessarily.

Therefore, men and women who really understand marriage and love will definitely choose to marry someone they like but are suitable, and if they are not willing to be single, they will not dig their own graves.

Twenty-something is really a particularly troublesome age, parents start to urge marriage, introduce you to blind dates, you start to worry, whether to find a suitable marriage or like.

Myth 1: You need to find the right one to get married.

Marriage is not like falling in love as a matter of two people, but involves two families. Falling in love can be romantic or uninhibited, but marriage is different. Marriage is the beginning of real firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the beginning of real reality, and many people's love can't survive the reality of marriage.

Since love can't match bread, it's better to find the right one directly from the beginning. In the cognition of parents, it is good for children to be suitable, two people live together, firewood, rice, oil and salt are very important, marriage is not a family, finding a suitable one is the most important thing.

Claim 2: To get married, you need to find someone you like.

Marriage is a question of whether it is suitable or marriage, in fact, many people choose to like. In fact, there is no good conclusion about suitability, you may think that he is very suitable for me and suitable for marriage, but after a long time, you will also find that two people are actually incompatible, and in fact, it is more difficult to be suitable than to fall in love.

Marriage is a partnership to live, but also a cooperative relationship, two people who love each other can always understand each other better, but also willing to understand each other, marriage has such a long time, respect each other is difficult to experience the fun and beauty of marriage.

Marriage is a very beautiful thing, when you start to prepare for the wedding, you will look forward to your wedding dress, look forward to your wedding, just think that your future is about to live with the person you love the most, and thinking about it feels as sweet as eating honey.

Everyone will have different choices about finding the right one for marriage or finding someone they like. However, if you make a choice, you still want to find someone you love to accompany you for a lifetime, and you will grow old with your son. Well, no matter whether the person you choose is suitable or like, listening to your heart is the most important thing!

If possible, try not to choose one or the other, preferably love each other and be suitable. Just like eating to be nutritious and delicious, it depends on personal preferences to choose one, some feelings are thin and long-lasting, and some feelings are flashing, no matter what, just choose the way you feel comfortable.

The first choice is, of course, choose to like yourself, and as for what you like, you have to check whether the other party is enough to repay yourself and your family.

If I had to choose, I would most likely choose to marry the right person rather than the person I like. I think marriage is more like living together as a couple, if that person likes him and he doesn't like me, I guess it's hard to be happy after marriage. But choosing the right marriage partner is different, at least two people can work together for a better married life, such a family atmosphere should be better, more conducive to the healthy growth of children, and more conducive to the stability of the relationship between husband and wife.

It's about to be the end of the year, and the annual marriage blind date war is about to begin, and unmarried men and women are under the offensive of seven aunts and eight aunts, and they have to worry about whether to marry the person they like or marry the right person.

In fact, the answer to this question is very clear from beginning to end, and every decision made by everyone must have a corresponding consequence.

Choosing to marry someone who is suitable but does not like it requires the endurance to endure the pale married life; If you choose to marry someone you like but are not suitable, you must solve the problems caused by those incompatibility after marriage.

Therefore, the best marriage is suitable based on like, both parties can not only produce the beauty of love, can be physiologically happy in the casual touch of each other, can feel unprecedented warmth when holding each other's hands, and can match in terms of economy, family, work, education, etc.

But such high-quality marriages are very rare, first, the probability is relatively small, and many people have no luck in their lives to meet the person who makes their hearts flutter; Second, in fact, many people are not willing to wait and work hard in order to get a high-quality marriage, and they expect nothing to be obtained in their hearts.

Then find the right one, right?

But in fact, it's harder to meet someone who is suitable in every way than it is to meet someone you like!

Attention, it's all sides!

The real suitability is not only the right conditions, but also the like-mindedness, the same three views, mutual tolerance and understanding, and sincere dedication.

However, feelings need to be run-in. It's almost impossible for us to meet a perfect lover without any changes at all.

We must be accommodating and changing, and cultivating tacit understanding in order to bring each other closer to perfection.

However, change and accommodation require enough love. Most adults are reluctant to accept change, but marriage and love need two people to run in, two people who like each other, no matter how inappropriate, we can give, accommodate, understand and change because of love.

Because I like and love, work together, grow together, and become suitable for each other, such a marriage will definitely be beautiful.

Even if you choose to marry the right person according to reality, the premise is that you still have a little affection, even a little bit.

If you just choose to get married because the other party is suitable, but you don't have a little affection, then it's better to be cautious.

Should choose a suitable or favorite marriage, now people are choosing a suitable marriage, choose a favorite person to fall in love, and finally have to marry the right person, in order to get along harmoniously, get along for a lifetime, just like, but not necessarily be able to get along, can not grow old together, only with a suitable person to go on.

Marriage is a lifelong affair, and one should choose someone who likes each other to marry.

Marriage to the person you like will make the relationship between the two people more stable, and you will not often quarrel because of some small things in life.

In my personal opinion, I think that you still have to find a more suitable one for yourself when you get married, because this is more conducive to the maintenance of the marriage, and you can complete this path of life. There will also be a lot less unnecessary friction and quarrels in life, which will help the happiness of married life and the cultivation of the relationship between husband and wife in the future. If you just blindly find someone you like, but don't like yourself, you will encounter more unknown things in your later life, and it is possible that your love for her will gradually decrease because of future quarrels, and eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

It would be best if you found someone you liked and the right one. Choose one of the two, first of all, it is suitable, and if you are suitable together, you will have feelings, and your family will be stable. If you just like it, it's not suitable, and you can't live in the future.

Hello answer, if you choose to marry someone who is suitable but does not like you, you must have the stamina to endure the pale married life; If you choose to marry someone you like but are not suitable, you must solve the problems caused by those incompatibility after marriage.

Therefore, the best marriage is suitable based on like, both parties can not only produce the beauty of love, can be physiologically happy in the casual touch of each other, can feel unprecedented warmth when holding each other's hands, and can match in terms of economy, family, work, education, etc.

And the right people! This marriage is relatively stable. If you like it, it's not, don't say whether the other half likes you or not, because you like it, as far as marriage is concerned, it actually contains impulses and uncertainties! laid the groundwork for future divorce. But it's not absolute!

To be in love, the person you like is in love. To get married, find someone who likes you to get married.

Find someone who is suitable and likes, and of course, someone who is good to your parents first!

Find someone who is right for you, because there is a possibility that the person who likes you will not like you later. Where are you going to cry then?

The person who likes you, the person who loves you is the right person, the person who tolerates you.

Is it about choosing the right person for marriage, or the person you like? The answer of the person who came over gave an explanation.

It's not hard to find a suitable one that you like.

Should you choose what you like when you get married, or should you choose what you like?

Marriage choice, like frank or messy, is it to let the right person to accompany the pure?

It's more important to live a suitable life than to like it.

1. Firewood, rice, oil and salt will dilute the vigorous love and annihilation. Suitable means that the other party has a lot of merits that are suitable for marriage.

When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.

Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.

It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience, people who have experienced marriage will choose yes, the reason is that what you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old, and you will not love now, and you will live with someone who is suitable for you, and in the end, you are not used to life if you are not love.

2. Over time, two people will become a habit after being together for a long time, feeling like relatives, unable to leave each other, love is not common in marriage, if it is me, I think I will find a suitable person, because I myself do not believe in love, since I think the role of love in marriage is not as important as the Mo tacit understanding between two people together, I have seen many people in life think that they have found true love, desperate to marry with joy, and jump into it alone but end up very unhappy,. Life is different from TV series, there are too many things to consider, find someone who doesn't hate being nice to you to marry, and there will be surprises when you get along slowly.

And if you meet someone who can make you feel at ease to get married, then it means that you are very sensible, because there are very few people who can share the ups and downs with you, and you can clearly distinguish the difference between marriage and a sleepy lover, the person you love may not be able to give you happiness, and the person who loves you may not be liked. Happiness is unattainable, fate is fleeting, the key lies in your rational choice, if you can choose soberly, then congratulations on you are happy in this life, if you want to choose the person you like, then in this life you have to have the determination to pay for each other. Happiness is bland.