What is it like to have a very cold girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My girlfriend is a very proud person. Cold people just don't like to talk, or they don't talk much, and they don't like to talk to others. But these are all ways my girlfriend treats others.

    When she treats me, she will be like a child, spoiled and cute every day.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What's the experience? When ordinary friends are very cold, at least it looks very cold, but now, it's just a second goods, or a foodie, cold? What is it? Can you eat it?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Chat and send a message, and it may take a day to reply to you. The number of words is always less than one line, and the tone is always light, and I often can't feel her enthusiasm.

    When you go out, (especially in front of outsiders) you are like a little brother who follows the eldest sister, or a child who is led by a parent.

    But when she gets home, she may suddenly be unconsciously cute and cute, and this contrast makes your heart melt.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's also a very good experience to have a very cold girlfriend, after all, I don't like my girlfriend to be too clingy to me, every day is delicate, everything has to be called to do everything and is very dependent on me, I think my girlfriend is very cold, then she is more independent, she has her own space, I think this is very good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's just that I don't like to talk much.,Cold face.,But although I'm very gentle with myself.,But it's still not very approachable.,But it's good to know for a long time.。 In fact, he didn't think about it, but sometimes he didn't know what to do and could only be cold.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    has a very cold girlfriend, sometimes I feel that I will have some fear in front of him, because he is very cold, no joke will make him laugh, and sometimes he even doubts whether he is the person he really likes. But sometimes he's really charming when he's cold.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's a very cold girlfriend who really can't feel the joy of that interaction, and I try my best to amuse her, but even if she's happy, it won't be obvious, but sometimes I think his kind of cold and interesting, and he looks very temperamental, which may be the reason why I like him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Having a very cold girlfriend can be said to be both good and bad, and my ex is a very cold person. Having a very cold girlfriend may not be too clingy and both parties have plenty of time to do their own thing. But a cold girlfriend won't make the relationship deeper.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Wife, today we have a class reunion, you can go with me! ”

    You remembered that you wanted me to go today, but I don't really want to go! ”

    Go, wife!! ”

    I said I don't really want to go, you have to go by yourself, you are a group of hillbilly classmates, "It's really worthy of me being my cold girlfriend, although sometimes I feel that I have no face, but after all, I still feel very happy."

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Personally, I think you should find a boyfriend who is enthusiastic and tolerant, and only then can the personalities of the two people complement each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should find a funny boyfriend, who should be lively and cheerful, and the type of sunny and active, because such a boy will make the goddess of good cold laugh.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should find a boyfriend who is lively and cheerful and has high emotional intelligence, so that the personalities of the two people can complement each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I think you should find a gentle and considerate guy, so that the personalities of the two people can complement each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For girls with cold personalities, it is actually more suitable to find a person with complementary personalities as a boyfriend, so that two people can get along harmoniously and happily together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should make your girlfriend happy more, date your girlfriend more, understand your girlfriend's interests and hobbies, and then do what she likes, so that you can have a particularly good relationship with your girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I'm sorry for your question, if a girl really likes a boy, whether it's a silly second-class girl or a female man who can lift her hands, or a cold goddess who freezes three feet, she will become a clingy little fan girl in seconds. Exceptions are made for specially trained female spies. If you keep being cold, one is that you don't give her enough love and security, and the other is that she doesn't like you very much.

    What can I do, of course, I choose to forgive her! Do better on your own to fully gain her heart. But if she wants apples, it's useless for you to give her a cart of oranges.

    Let it go!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your girlfriend is cold, you will be more enthusiastic, in this way, you and your girlfriend are complementary and a perfect match, although your girlfriend is very cold, but you can also use your sincerity to influence her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some people are born with this character, so some people are cheerful, some are introverted, some are genetically motivated, and some are acquired by the environment. So what a person goes through has a lot to do with his character.

    If you really love her very much, and she is willing to give you this opportunity to get close to her, then we will seize this opportunity and the two of us will walk together. Of course, they are all complementary. You use your enthusiasm to impress her, and you can also do more small shows and give her some small surprises.

    Let him become enthusiastic and cheerful under your drive, and slowly be moved by you.

    Only take out several times your warmth to cover this cold little stone with heat. Slowly, she will be driven by you. So the environment can change a person.

    With your gentleness, with your care, with your sincerity. If you are considerate of her, she will naturally care more about you. Change will start slowly.

    It requires a little more patience and a little more sincerity.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I used to be the kind of cold girl, but now I've improved, but others always think I'm unfathomable (flattered).

    I'm not necessarily right, just giving a personal opinion.

    After listening to your description, I'm not sure what kind of person your girlfriend is, everyone's definition of Gao Leng is different.

    The first three paragraphs are not about your girlfriend, they just describe your feelings, and from the fourth paragraph onwards, there are places to describe your girlfriend.

    What I firmly believe in to be able to go down with her now seems really so pale. She doesn't believe it, so what's the use of me believing it?

    Seriously, if I have a boyfriend now, I'm not sure I can grow old with him, there are too many unknowns in the future, maybe one of us has some accidents, maybe what he said to me for the rest of my life is just a manifestation of love, a person's enthusiasm can only last for 18 months, the rest is just a trivial life, I am not sure if I can maintain enthusiasm, boring sometimes, impatient sometimes, are you sure you can accept all aspects of me? Obviously not, you can't even accept my intellect (my intellect is, I don't think I can go down with you, I don't have that confidence in you or in myself for the time being). Not to mention the other aspect.

    Spiritually, we have never been of the same mind, and I have never been spiritually encouraged or comforted.

    Don't say it's your girlfriend, even if you are close to family, you may not be with us, we have a lot of our own opinions, maybe family will give you spiritual encouragement and comfort, your girlfriend before this, and you are just a stranger, there is no closeness at all, I don't know you, what she thinks, not necessarily what you agree with, what you think, not necessarily what she agrees with. In addition to relatives, only you will give you your own unconditional acceptance and support, and I think she has not yet reached that level, there must be a process and time.

    I am an extremely emotional person, and I need someone who cares for me, cherishes me, and loves me dearly.

    You say that you are a sensual person, and you need someone who cares about me, cherishes me, and loves me deeply to walk with me. You know what kind of person you are, and you know what kind of "girlfriend" you need, in fact, you can find a girl like this, and seriously, there are more such girls. But you don't like them, do you?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Typical inability to love someone. In fact, she is really not suitable for a relationship. At the same time, the subject may find it difficult to understand her, or that there is a wall in her psyche or something.

    Or feel that two people are just doing what "boyfriend and girlfriend" should do, but in essence there is no feeling of "boyfriend and girlfriend". It can only be said that you just have the name of boyfriend and girlfriend, but in fact, it is still wishful thinking, and you have never entered her heart. So I think it's better to think about whether or not to continue.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I remember when I was a sophomore, I had a girlfriend, and at first I thought she was very good, and she usually didn't like to talk to her friends very openly, unless she was a very good friend, and then I tried my best to chase it, and I finally got it after chasing for almost half a year. After getting along for a while, I found out that it was so cold, I thought it was natural to not catch up with the previous cold, but I didn't expect it to be the same, I usually posted a lot of content when chatting, and from time to time I replied to me with a word, oh, well, and something like that I think I'm in love with myself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your girlfriend may just not be very good at expressing or not knowing whether she should express or not, it can also be seen that she is an insecure person, afraid of losing if she is serious, girls are easy to suffer in the relationship, you can give her a sense of security, and then try to guide her to express her thoughts and love for you, cherish it, if you love her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If a girl really likes a boy, whether it is a silly second-class girl or a female man who can hold a top in her hands, or a cold goddess who is frozen three feet, she will become a clingy little fan girl in seconds. Exceptions are made for specially trained female spies. If you keep being cold, either you don't give her enough love and security, or she doesn't like you very much.

    What can I do, of course, I choose to forgive her! Do better on your own to fully gain her heart. But if she wants apples, it's useless for you to give her a cart of oranges.

    Let it go!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Make an effort to communicate and try out various methods to find out what works for both of you. Enrich and improve yourself and boost your self-confidence. Calm down and open your eyes, love is far from the whole of life, or even the center of gravity.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    See if you are the person she likes, if she likes you, she will not be cold in front of you. You'll have an endless list of things to say.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not good, a cold girl is principled and assertive, and it is difficult for ordinary people to change her mind, that is, sometimes she is indifferent to people, but it also depends on what kind of person she is with, if the two personalities can complement each other, it will be perfect.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In my eyes, there are three main types of cold girls. The appearance looks cold, giving people the feeling at first glance that it can be viewed from a distance and cannot be blasphemed. But those who are familiar with her know that she is a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside.

    It looks amiable on the outside, but it is arrogant on the inside, and it is difficult to find out if you are not a close friend, and you will always have a higher opinion than other people when you treat the same thing. A girl who is cold on the outside and on the inside may have experienced too much, and in the eyes of her friends, she is an ice beauty, with few smiles, and she is neither enthusiastic about people, nor cold. I am afraid there is only one thing that can melt her heart, and that is the person she loves.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Personal opinion: high cold.

    The girl has several characteristics: first, the cold girl is very connotative. Second, the cold girl is very assertive.

    Thirdly, the cold girl looks cold on the surface, giving people a sense of superiority, but in fact she also has a gentle side. Fourth, a cold girl is very good at housekeeping and responsible! So, which male god can meet a cold girl, then you are a blessed person!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Pretty good. Because you don't have to worry, she will get very close to other members of the opposite sex and don't have to be cuckolded. It's really, really good. The cold girl is more temperamental. Goddess Fan.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Personally, I think that the first feeling that cold girls give me is that they don't like to talk, and they don't care about people, in fact, at first I thought they were so cold, which made it difficult for people to get close, and I really made good friends with them before I found out that they were not so cold, but they were a little introverted in their personalities. To be friends with them, then be patient and persistent.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think that cold girls are more cold and warm-hearted people, it should be to protect themselves from being hurt by others, or it may be a kind of self-protection in their hearts!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It looks cold on the outside, giving people the feeling at first glance that it can be viewed from a distance and cannot be blasphemed. But those who are familiar with her know that she is a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside. Girls who are cold on the outside and on the inside may have experienced too much, and the emotional intelligence of this kind of girl is generally higher, so the girl who is trying to flirt with her sister please give up your idea, because she needs someone who really loves her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think a cold girl is good, cold on the outside and hot on the outside, ** temperament, such a beauty is a goddess in the hearts of men.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    A cold girl should be easy to chase. It seems that people who are cold and reject people thousands of miles away may sometimes just not be good at words, especially in front of strangers who can't relax themselves, which many people don't expect.

    This kind of character that everyone looks like they don't get along with, but in fact, as long as you make friends, you're ready to be good to you for the rest of your life. Therefore, people who are cold or have no friends, as long as they have friends, they will treat you as a friend for life.

    A cold girl looks high, but in fact, she is more eager for friendship and love, and as long as you are good to her, she will give you everything she has, so that you are unexpectedly loyal.

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