After a breakup, my ex girlfriend always says bad things about me everywhere, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, since it's a breakup, you don't have to care too much about what your ex-girlfriend says, and saying bad things about you everywhere can only be said to be a breakup that you mentioned. To deal with this situation, you can suggest that you ask her out for a talk and introduce her to a good boyfriend, which is to solve one relationship and replace it with another. Of course you're in trouble.

    Also, remember that now if you have a girlfriend again, don't bring it over, no ex will want the other party to have a good life, and it's best that you are both single after you two separate, so that her heart is balanced, maybe she won't say anything bad about you directly.

    As a man again, I endured it when a woman said a few words, and I didn't think it bothered you. But it's annoying to talk too much, I can only say that you had to deal with it in a wrong way at the time, you see that Chen Hedu divorced his wife, and his wife didn't say that he was bad. Listen to what bad things are and prescribe the right medicine for the bad words.

    If you can't stop the mouths of you, you can only go away. It's a joke. But it's important for you to understand why.

    Recently, in addition to Lu Han's announcement of his relationship on Weibo, there is also a hot topic that Mao Xiaotong and Chen Xiang broke up. Mao Xiaotong didn't scold Chen Xiang, and there was nothing bad about it, this is the entertainment industry, but they are also men and women who broke up, so they still understand the reason.

    After knowing the reason, you can introduce your boyfriend to this trend, and ask your friend what to do in this situation, and the answer is to glue your ex-girlfriend's mouth. There is also an even funnier thing that if the woman first proposed to break up and she said bad things about you, then tell her that if you say bad things again, I will chase you again, and go downstairs to your house every day to block you and see what else you say.

    These are the symptoms but not the root cause, the rumors stop at the wise, and now the gossip is updated quickly, and she will be annoyed by her friends if she often says the same bad things. So don't worry, it's good for a while.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't control what people meet, but the only thing you can control is yourself. For most of the things that other people are emotional, as far as I am concerned, I don't judge this person by hearing them behind their backs, and it is likely that I will not trust people who speak ill of people behind their backs.

    We know what a villain is when we are young, and it is wrong to speak ill of people behind our backs. But when we go into society, there will be a lot of such things, how to solve this kind of thing? You can't just go to whoever he tells you to explain, right?

    What you have to do is when you hear bad things about you, make a note of him to see if he has this situation, and if so, correct it, and if not, take it as a wake-up call. After all, it is impossible for us to explain, and the explanation is the weakest, and the more we explain, the more it looks like a demonstration. Show you that you are not what she describes, and reflect on why you are often being said badly.

    It's hard to be a man, and it's even harder to be a good person. We can let go of all irresponsible things to speak ill of others, but more action may be needed to change. Those who are clear are self-pure, and those who are turbid are self-turbid, and some things are difficult for outsiders to judge.

    Think of it as a test. It's not a bad thing for someone to say bad things, at least someone will always remind you that you don't do well. It's better than finding out on your own, and no one cares about the rights and wrongs between you and your ex-girlfriend.

    But I finally have to talk about it after dinner. Since you break up, both parties will have mistakes, as the saying goes, a good slap in the face will not make a sound. I think you're going to have mistakes on both sides.

    Men should be generous, don't take it to heart just because a woman says bad things about you, so you will just stop moving forward, go to better realize yourself, and let your girlfriend see what is true in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The clear self-purification, I think you just need to be yourself, since other people's mouths can't be controlled, then control their own behavior, real friends will not stay away from you because of other people's malicious slander, and unfamiliar people, through your dealings, will also recognize your personality charm, so as to be conquered by you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She probably doesn't want to break up with you, if she says it to your friend, don't worry too much, your friend will be on your side.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Have you done anything to be sorry for her? Think about it for yourself, when you encounter too many scumbags, you always say that it is the girl's fault.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you are garbage, begging for scolding, seeing Ren is hypocritical.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ordinary slanderous remarks are ignored, and warnings may be given to the parties for false rumors where there is evidence. If the impact is very extensive and the consequences are extremely serious, keep the evidence, take up the law, and file a lawsuit with the court.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Rumors stop at the wise. There is no way to gag him, and I don't want to continue to dwell on these things with him. Keep your eyes open in the future and don't fall in love with a scumbag.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't act too excited, and don't turn a deaf ear, understate, or be witty. Of course, when it comes to shortcomings (who haven't had some shortcomings), smile slightly. This kind of person is a bad character, if you don't say it, others will also have rods and scales in their hearts, so don't worry too much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay to ignore him, it can be seen that his character is not good!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shows that he still cares about you, and it is immoral for him to do this, so you can talk to him, and if it doesn't work, you can use legal means to deal with it, sue him for slandering others, and your chances are great!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He's deliberately giving you a bad reputation.

    So that no one likes you.

    I'm still angry with you in my heart.

    Let him say go.

    Just don't bother.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You shouldn't say bad things about your ex, after all, the two people don't have any relationship anymore, if you talk about your ex at this time, it means that there is a problem with your character. Things are in the past, don't go through old accounts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think you should say bad things about your ex after a breakup, you used to be very affectionate together and guess Sun, it's normal to break up peacefully Zhao Jian, he didn't say bad things about you if he didn't say anything bad about you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's best not to speak ill of your ex after a breakup; My opinion is not to talk about the ex's painting, after all, the two parties were very in love with each other before, and they should get together after the breakup.

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