How to Stop Losing Friends 5

Self-confidence: Self-confidence won't make you do everything, but you can't do everything without self-confidence!

Enthusiasm: Show your enthusiasm for people and things, otherwise how will others know, and if you want to make friends, you can't let people who are interested in befriending you always guess your attitude.

Active. Take the initiative to care about others, take the initiative to talk, and take the initiative to invite others, in order to get more opportunities.

Ordinary heart. It's impossible for everyone to be your friend, so have a normal heart and go with the flow! Don't get too close to others in order to gain friendship.

Don't rush to give yourself time ......

Alas, I can't get close to my friends, and I'm connected to the same disease, but I'm very ugly, and it's actually good to listen to others.

First of all, you have faith in yourself, and then don't "lose" yourself!

If you want to live a happy life, you must know how to communicate, otherwise, pain will accompany you. Sometimes low self-esteem is the biggest obstacle. Low self-esteem is a kind of self-degrading emotional experience caused by excessive self-denial, which is mainly manifested in low evaluation of one's own factors such as ability, knowledge, and quality.

Fortunately, you are aware of this, first of all, you have to change yourself now, but some things are not said to be changeable, you ask the last question here, I am here to say the last paragraph, it may not be able to change you, this is the accumulation of your own usual experience. It's not a few words that can be explained. But to give you some advice, I hope you can absorb it after reading it (if you think it's right)!!

1) Boost self-confidence.

2) Forget about yourself.

3) Strengthen practice.

To quote Dale Carnegie, 'If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others—things that require time, physical effort, thoughtfulness, and dedication.' If you really want to make good friends, then only if you can become a good friend in the eyes of the other party first, the other party will be willing to approach you and gradually treat you as a mentor and friend'!! Also, you say that you have very few words with them, and when you are together, you must find common topics and always pay attention to conversation skills, you must talk modestly, never interrupt others' conversations casually, and always listen to each other's speeches first, and then refute each other or add your own views and opinions.

Be kind, always look into the eyes of others when talking to them, and keep your attention; Instead of flipping through things, reading newspapers, absent-mindedly, and looking indifferent. In dealing with people, you must be calm and convincing people!! Never emphasize the special side of the individual, and do not deliberately show your superiority.

Be more concerned about your friends and let them know their place in your heart! The most important point is to be open-minded when getting along with others, and not to have opinions with friends and colleagues over small things, or even cut off contacts, which is a big taboo. You're only 20, so let's accumulate more by yourself, what I said is what I remember!!

You are a sign of low self-esteem. But the inferiority complex you show is not your looks. There are others.

For example, family. Ability. Knowledge.

Of course, if you are still a student, it is a grade)...There are many factors that cause you to be afraid of communication. Because you're going to feel like you're a level or two below everyone else.

I'm afraid that others will laugh at what you say and what you do. The more you do this, the more you close yourself off. In fact, the most important thing is to increase your knowledge, enrich your spare time life (it must be healthy), and when you see more and chat, you will naturally be able to talk freely.

Then there is self-confidence. And you don't keep your eyes on others. You have to be the center of attention yourself (even if you are not handsome, you can have a charismatic personality.。。

We must enrich ourselves in all aspects.

I think everyone takes a different path. To lose the intersection means to disperse. Some of my friends and I grew apart growing up, mainly for several reasons:

First of all, when I have a career, I don't have as much time to keep in touch with my friends as I did when I was a student. Hang out with friends a lot, and everyone has to go about their own business. If I spend more time with my friends, my career will inevitably suffer.

I am a Chengzhou seller, and I must be responsible for my future life. So from this point of view, it is understandable to gradually distance yourself from some friends.

On the other hand, I separated from my friends because when I had a stable career, I would soon get married, have children, and have a family of my own, which further reduced the chances of me getting along with my former friends. After all, for many adults, to juggle career and family, a person's time and energy are always relatively limited. It's hard for me to have enough time with my former friends.

But true friends, I personally don't think they will lie in these forms of daily communication, because real friends don't get separated, and they often miss each other in their hearts.

I'm sorry to hear that you've lost a friendship, I know it's a sad thing. The loss of friendship may require the following steps:- First, be thankful for the good times you once had, and don't negate the process because of the ending.

Every friendship is a kind of fate, and it is a kind of growth experience. You can keep your memories and those of your friends alive, but don't let them get in your way.

Second, accept the reality and don't force redemption. Some friendships are separated because of time, space, growth, and other factors, and it is not your fault or the other person's fault. You have to respect the other person's choice, and don't pestering or slandering the defeater.

If you have the opportunity, you can communicate well with the other person and express your thoughts and feelings, but don't expect the other person to change their minds.

Thirdly, adjust your mindset and don't blame yourself or hold grudges. Some friendships break down because of misunderstandings, conflicts, and hurts, and that's when you learn to forgive yourself and the other person. You have to recognize that everyone has shortcomings and mistakes, as well as strengths and contributions.

You have to let go of grievances and don't let the past affect your present and future.

Finally, move on with your life and don't stagnate or get depressed. Losing a friendship doesn't mean you don't have friends, you have other relatives, friends, colleagues, etc. to keep you company. You have to pay attention to your work, study, interests, etc., keep yourself busy and divert your attention.

You also need to keep an open and positive mindset to meet new people and experience new things.

I think that for those friends who don't like it, we must stay away from them, keep a certain distance from them, and don't keep in touch often, so that they will leave us.

When a friend you don't like leaves you, first of all, you have to learn to snub him, don't talk to him, don't talk to him, and after a long time, he feels that he won't come to you naturally.

The best way for a friend you don't like to leave you is to stay away from your friend, and don't contact him usually, because he won't come to you after a long time.

Don't pay too much attention to him, don't reply to him when he speaks, and believe that after a long time, he will realize what you really think in your heart.

Keep a certain distance from friends you don't like, try to avoid contact, and after a long time, they will feel bored looking for you and leave you.

You can slowly distance yourself from your friends, and in this way you can get them to leave you. And you can also leave each other better.

I don't think it's okay to always be optimistic about them, not to be too sincere with them, so that you can get them to leave you.

You can tell him his shortcomings directly and then ask him to leave you consciously or not reply to any of his messages.

If you are too busy with study or work, you will avoid the other person, and it will be inconvenient for the other person to bother you again after many times.

Others can't change it, you have to take the initiative.

Treat him sincerely, he texts, even if he is busy and tired, don't delay his reply. If it's bad weather, it's raining, or when it's getting cold, send him a message of greeting to let him know that you care about her.

Why would he be annoyed? You're his friend. He's too late to be happy, but you have to be compliant.

It's best to move around a lot, go out to exercise or go shopping, call him to let him know that you are his best friend and you need him.

He also has to have a good relationship with his parents and friends.

Friendship can't be forced, you have to be good to her, but you have to be principled, you must pay attention to building your own personality charm, let him appreciate you, master a skill so that he needs you.

You don't have to be too polite between friends, and the people who scold you are often the closest ones. Don't be shackled by contradictions, don't be blinded by interests.

May the tree of your friendship be evergreen.

You're afraid that you'll annoy others, and maybe others are afraid of this too. Also, you always wait for others to speak before you speak. If it were me, I wouldn't talk to me because you thought you didn't want to pay attention to me.

If you don't say hello, people will think you don't care about them, right? Take the initiative, if you are always cold, others will think that you have a high attitude, so over time, no one will pay attention to you.

Use your heart to make friends.

Once you become friends, in fact, both sides endure each other's shortcomings, there is a saying called three years do not come to the door, is not kissed, that is to say, friends need to communicate, it doesn't matter if you don't like to talk, but simple communication is okay, in fact, real friends often talk less, simple language can communicate, of course, we need all kinds of friends, can not be close, can not be far, just like steel is too hard to break, everything has a degree, you boldly say, to communicate, don't be afraid, don't communicate, you will never have a chance, the more afraid you are, the more you lose, Express your thoughts, even in a few simple words, to prove that you care about him.

You can... Just say you don't want to lose him as a friend.

If someone dares to show you a look, it means that you need to strengthen yourself!

Generally speaking, there is no fairness and no justice.

Between people, in fact, it is strong and weak.

It may be that you are not strong enough in the hearts of others, so he dares to show you a face.

In short, don't think about force, if you can look at the person who gives you a look (don't misunderstand the meaning of this little phrase) then he can call him how good he is, this is just to say that if that face doesn't do you any harm or he is not your boss!

If you say that you must solve this problem of complexion, it is to work hard in the future, students, you should study more diligently, to strengthen yourself, if you are a white-collar worker, you must work harder on your own performance, in short, rational treatment, is to use a way to strengthen yourself, make yourself a real strong, temporarily take the person who gives you a look at the face as the motivation for you to work hard!!

If you like it, you like it, as soon as you miss the rainy season, it's gone, your friend is so good to you, can't you study hard? Do you want to practice your youth like a gangster?

If it really gets to the point where it's irreparable, I'll forget that friend. After all, it wasn't my hand that let go first. Maybe you will always miss it and be sad at first. But life always has to be passed. You can't have just one friend.

If you give up your friends, you are not your friends, friends should never leave, no matter what others say, no matter how big the difficulties are, they will spend time with you, they are real friends. You should find your own true friends.

If this friend is kind-hearted, you must work hard to redeem it, otherwise you will regret it. If he doesn't deserve it, then you should also know how to take it and put it down.

Since it's a friend! You go back and strive for it! I believe that friends are always friends! Will come back to you!