If you break up, can you still be friends, how to face it,

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People think differently, it depends on what you both mean, but there will definitely be such and such embarrassment when you break up and then become friends.

    Since the flame of love is extinguished, why should there be any more warmth?"

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better not to be friends and let it be!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, after all, they used to be classmates, and other classmates can be friends. You can't even be a friend just because you've given love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay to be friends, but it takes time.

    Come to the end between you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is the best medicine to fill the wound, do you hate him (her) for breaking up?

    You hate him/her, but how can you love him or her in 1/10,000?

    If you really love him (her), then you just want him (her) to live well, right, maybe you said today that you will never see him (her) for the rest of your life, but maybe tomorrow you will be good friends and hungry. Don't pay too much attention to some things that are already predestined, calm down first, and you will know what to do after a while.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should be friends, because friendship and family affection are more important than love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's mutual, and it depends on the attitude of the other person

    And what kind of personality is it? If it's the kind of open friend, it's probably more natural to do.,If it's the kind of shy inside, I probably won't choose to be a friend!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

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    Lyrics. Whether it is in the face of storms or snowflakes, or the sun smiling at us;

    Hot days, cold nights, dusty faces, but we have this fun, we have this fun.

    Our tanks roared forward, accompanied by puffs of dust.

    When enemy tanks are visible.

    Let's go full throttle at full throttle!

    The value of our lives.

    It's about fighting for our glorious army!

    It is the highest honor to die for Germany!

    With a thunderous engine, we rushed like lightning behind solid armor plates.

    Moving forward with our comrades, fighting side by side, that's why we were able to plunge deep into the enemy's (tank) ranks to face the enemy's so-called barrier.

    We give contemptuous ridicule.

    Then simply bypass;

    If the threat of artillery fire is hidden in the yellow sand ahead, we will find our own way and leap into the path to victory!

    If we are abandoned by the goddess of fate.

    If we can't go back to our homeland from now on.

    If a bullet ends our lives.

    If we are in danger, then at least our faithful tanks will give us a metal grave.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's fine, it's like nothing happened.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since it's the same class, what should I do?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, in my personal opinion, if you break up, then you must not be able to be friends again, because if you have been a couple, it is basically impossible to choose to be friends, and those who choose to be friends must be respectful to each other when they are in love. Therefore, when they break up, they can choose to be friends, and it can be said more bluntly that there is no love between them at all, so they can be friends, and it is impossible for two people who have really loved to be friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some people say that it is okay, even if they can't be lovers, at least they care about each other in the name of friends. Some people say no, lovers after a breakup have pain in their hearts, and there is no way to become friends at all. In fact, some people do become friends after a breakup, and some people really don't have the means to become friends.

    Most of those who became friends chose to break up peacefully because they didn't love that much, and those who couldn't be friends mostly loved deeply and had no way to continue to be friends after the breakup. People who have loved deeply have a deep wound in their hearts. In love, quarrels, tears, breakups, in a relationship, the more attentive you are, the more poignant each picture is.

    Even if they broke up later, whenever they recall the good things they used to be, their hearts still ache faintly. That pain made each other dare not and did not want to have anything to do with it.

    Because every contact is like pouring salt on a wound, which will make the old wound unhealed and the new wound recur. They are afraid to connect, they are afraid to know each other's news. After a breakup, they often don't want to know how the other person is doing.

    Because they are afraid that the other person is doing well, and they are afraid that the other person is not doing well. If you live well, you will be unbearable, and if you have a bad life, you will feel sour. So don't know at all, just want to be separated from each other, and everyone will be happy, and the end of the world will be from now on.

    Everyone is well. You have to let go of someone before you can start over. No matter what happened in the past, everyone can't just live in the past.

    If you have been thinking about the past and have been coiling around the people of the past, then you will not be able to go back to the past and will not be able to reach the future. You must always learn to say goodbye to the past, and you must always learn to say goodbye to the people of the past, so as to start a new life. Forgetting about the predecessor is the least respect for the incumbent.

    The best life is never a memory, but a reality. You can only live well with your current one if you forget about your ex. Otherwise, there is an incumbent around him, and he is worried about others, and this kind of behavior is not a kind of disloyalty.

    The world of love is too crowded to accommodate three people. What gives you happiness is never the past, it is the people around you at this moment. After a breakup, don't be friends.

    After a breakup, there is no way to be friends at all. Be grateful for those who were, but also let go of those pasts, and then, cherish the people around you. The best, never the predecessor, is the current one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it is a peaceful breakup, then it is definitely possible to continue to be friends, but as ordinary friends, it is also necessary to maintain a reasonable distance and distance.

    It's very stiff when you break up, so don't be friends, just don't get along with each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, of course boyfriends and girlfriends after a breakup can become friends, because there are more friends, and the road is easy to walk! And the two of them have been together, and they know each other much better than others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, you can be friends after breaking up, the most important thing is that two people must meet in life after breaking up, so if you become friends, it looks more natural and comfortable for two people to meet.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This situation is mainly about dividing people. Some people break up when there are not too many problems and contradictions. After breaking up, you can still be friends, and you can be an ordinary friend. We will be able to keep in touch with you in the future.

    But some couples will have a lot of problems that cannot be solved. So it's hard for them to be friends after they break up. And it will be very embarrassing. So according to your own situation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you've broken up, it's best not to be friends. If you break up, you should completely forget about each other, so that you can let go of this relationship as soon as possible and start a new life. If you break up and continue to be friends, you can only make yourself think of this relationship and the past days when you were together, which will only make you torture each other and not start a new life.

    Finally, I wish you all the best and a happy life every day.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If two people break up peacefully and have not caused much impact on each other, and they will still help each other in life, then they can certainly be friends.

    A breakup like that of a noisy and noisy breakup that ends up hurting the other person is not going to be friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I can't be friends anymore, because two people who love each other, even if they break up, will have a good impression of each other, so if you are friends, it is also a harm to yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can be a friend, but there is no need.

    Who is so lacking in friends that they have to be friends with their ex?

    I think that if two people can calmly let go of the past, they can be friends. However, even if you think it doesn't matter, it's likely that your respective current will care about your friend's relationship, and your family may feel embarrassed and awkward, so in order to avoid embarrassment, it's better not to be friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello. You can still be friends after breaking up, after all, you were very happy when you were together, since you can't be a husband and wife, then be a good friend for life, bless each other, grow each other, I hope mine will help you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This depends on the personality of both parties and the situation they got along with at the time, some people do a good job as friends, but many people can't, especially after both parties have new friends, maybe the other party will mind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Under normal circumstances, I think that you can't be friends after breaking up, mainly two people have already been in love, and they compare and understand each other. If you keep in touch all the time, then it will also mean that it is not easy to start a new life, and even if you find a boyfriend and girlfriend in the future, but the boyfriend and girlfriend know that you have been in a relationship and have kept in touch, it will be very insecure.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think I can do it, since I broke up, I should go to a new life, and if I am still friends, there is no way to share many things from the perspective of friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Dear, this depends on what you think, if you want to think about whether there is a chance to get back together in the future, then you can treat him as a friend. I don't have a good feeling for him anymore, so there's no need to be friends.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think two people can be friends after a breakup. Because if people who love each other very much, after breaking up for some force majeure reasons, they may still have thoughts about each other, they may hate each other because of love, and they may also leave some scars on their hearts, so in these cases, it is obvious that they cannot become real pure friends.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After separation, some people can still be friends, because they broke up peacefully with each other, and there is no hatred at all, and they can still be connected after becoming ordinary friends, just need to keep a proper distance.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think it's necessary to divide the situation, if you have a very ugly quarrel when you break up, and both of you are unhappy, then you will definitely not be able to be friends, if the two of you broke up peacefully, and both of you felt that it was not appropriate to be a couple, then you can be friends, because you must know each other very well, so being friends is the best choice.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course, you can be friends when you break up, and you can be very good friends, after all, it's better than once, you already know each other very well, and compared to those ordinary friends, you will have a more emotional foundation.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's impossible to be friends. If you break up, you will break up, and it will be a thing of the past, saying goodbye to the bittersweet and sour of the past. Then this experience doesn't want to try again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you break up, you can still be friends, if the two are happy to communicate together, there are no obstacles, and you can become friends. It's always better to be friends than enemies.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can still be friends after a breakup, but you still can't keep in touch often, even if you are a friend, you can help him when you need it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course, you can be friends, because you have experienced each other in love and know each other, if you break up peacefully, you will not delay each other, and you can help each other after being friends, and support each other in life.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think if you break up, you still can't be friends, after all, two people have had intimate contact, and when they meet, there must be a gap in their hearts, so since they have broken up, they should give up decisively, and they shouldn't drag their feet anymore. Be friends.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can still be friends after a breakup, and if two people maintain a good attitude and see through everything, they can get along as friends. After all. Much better than the enemy.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you break up, you can still be friends, because you have already known each other as lovers before, since you can't be lovers, you can still be friends.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you break up, you can't be friends, because the relationship between two people has broken down and you can't be friends. So it's better not to be friends.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I can't be friends after breaking up, because I hurt each other, I fell in love with a boy who was three years younger than me for half a year, and when I broke up, he went to the station to see me off, I didn't say goodbye to him, he stuffed my headphones and let me listen to the song it was listening to was "You are the love of my life" I threw away the headphones and got into the car without looking back, and he didn't contact me at all after that, I think he really hated me. How can you be friends.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    After a breakup, you can be friends, after all, although you have broken up, you still have a certain emotional foundation, and you can be some ordinary friends to help in ordinary things.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Whether or not they are able to become friends after a breakup depends on the situation and feelings of the two people. Some couples are able to become friends after a breakup, and they may still be in a close relationship with each other, but it is no longer a love mask to make an empty love relationship. And for everyone else, maintaining a friendship after a breakup can be difficult, especially if one partner feels hurt or still has emotional entanglements during the relationship.

    In any case, it's important to maintain healthy boundaries and mutual respect, and both people need to communicate openly and blindly and find ways that are acceptable to both parties.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    After breaking up, we can't get in touch again. There are these reasons:

    First, the number of heads of the road is different.

    Everyone's life is actually a aimless journey, maybe you and someone sit in two adjacent seats in the same car, you are very speculative, you think that each other will be your soul mate and the best partner, but as the journey extends and the passengers in the car are constantly changing.

    Maybe he or she got off at a certain stop, maybe you found that a new one he or she is more compatible with you, so you say goodbye, and each other has become a memory and a scenery in the journey, since the road is different and the travel companions who will accompany you in the future are different, then why bother with it!

    2. Respect for oneself is also respect for each other.

    Now that you have broken up, don't keep an ambiguous relationship anymore, which will only make you seem to have no bottom line. No matter what the reason is, if you break up, you break up, and since you can't love each other anymore, it's best to be strangers and forget about each other. As for the idea that you can still be friends after a breakup, I have always scoffed at it.

    If you imagine the person who loved so deeply at the beginning, how can you change the role so that you can see him as a friend casually? If it is said that after a breakup, it is still a friend, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, and he is still greedy for the good of the other party, or he is looking forward to one day being able to rebuild himself, which is undoubtedly lowering himself or looking down on the other party.

    3. It is not conducive to coming out of the shadow of emotional failure, imagine if the other party makes a new love after the breakup, but you break the connection with the other party in the name of a friend, then the new love will inevitably be dissatisfied, and finally make the other party jump and jump.

    Although there are some people with big hearts or who know how to keep their distance and end up safe, these stories are always a little embarrassing to hear. When you see your old lover, how can you forget the days you have walked with him through thick and thin? Unless it has not been unforgettable.

    You can't be friends after a breakup.

    In fact, in my opinion, breaking up and no longer contacting is to stop giving each other hope, not giving any chance, and forgetting is the best way for everyone to get free. I've ever heard that the most beautiful crush doesn't wake up what I love, waiting for him to be willing, but I think the most beautiful breakup is not disturbing my love, waiting for him to move forward on his own. It's not a deliberate disconnection, it's just that it will take some time when the tide recedes.

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