Can I trust this man, don t believe him?

I must have met on the Internet, dizzy.

I just lied you to 60 yuan, a little touch!

Forget it, just take 60 yuan to buy a lesson.

Hehe, I guess you're not the only one!

60 for one person, 10, 100, that's a lot!

Anyway, it's already been beaten, so why not hit a few dozen yuan? Maybe it's really a solution, but if it's **, it's not a hundred or ten dollars! Buy a lesson! Call her 30.

It is estimated that it is not very real, doesn't he have friends, and he will borrow dozens of yuan from friends. Besides. It is possible that the money may have been taken away by a friend who was killed, but it is not enough for him to take the money in his card to Shenzhen.

Why do you think his boyfriend is a little too unkind? 90% chance of fake

You are Kaizi, you can believe this kind of deception.

Don't be stupid, if it's so miserable, why don't you hit 110 for free and don't do it There must be a problem Wake up, brother.

At the end of the year, be more careful as well!

Forehead... It's obvious that you've been deceived, and you still believe it??? Don't pay attention to her anymore, or she will hurt you more and more, what if she is engaged in pyramid schemes?? How did you and her meet?? Wake up ...

**, there is no way to ignore him.

Dozens of dollars will be borrowed from a friend! q!!!

Not necessarily. Now, I hate dozens of dollars.

Don't believe him, because he often lies, he often imposes his ideas and opinions on others, he doesn't really listen to other people's opinions, and he doesn't respect other people's rights and freedoms. He also doesn't think about other people's feelings, but does things according to his own ideas, he doesn't take other people's words seriously, he just keeps making up lies. So, don't believe him, his words may not be reliable.

It's easy to make this suggestion, and I've seen people do that. These people tend to be anxious and find faults. Overall, I don't think they're very reliable.

And in real life, people often get what they give. So, if you're a trustworthy person, a person of integrity and reliability, you're likely to get the same reward, i.e., you're not associated with drug tycoons, gangsters, and underground gangs, even though there may be trustworthy people among them. People have a good heart and are willing to please people.

So, no one will fail this trust for no reason. Of course, nothing is absolute, but that's pretty much what everyone thinks.

If you don't give people a chance to show that they are trustworthy, they will become wary and resentful of your distrust. That way, they're less likely to be nice to you. So why not start with them as reliable people and ask them not to live up to your expectations?

Being trusted is a compliment, and people will be grateful and return that compliment.

Listen, I'm not denying that this approach can lead to some bad experiences. However, if you spend your life thinking that others will disappoint you, you will have more bad experiences because they will disappoint you.

You may not realize it, but you are the same. If people think you're trustworthy, I guess you'll try to live up to expectations. However, if you perceive that someone is not trusting you, you will not feel guilty at all when you disappoint them.

You feel the same way, don't you?

A lifetime of distrusting others is a painful way to live, and you will never let go of it, always feeling disappointed and let down. The necessity of trust is not about whether the other person can live up to that trust, but about what you would do if you could not trust others. If trust is a great emotion that brings love and security, why would you refuse to do so?

That's irrational behavior.

If someone is willing to overcome all difficulties for the sake of your trust, then you will reap the joy of being disappointed a hundred times. I read in the newspaper about a man who befriended a homeless homeless man, who provided him with food and clothing, and in the end even gave him a job.

How many people can show such trust? And the homeless man was worthy of his trust and stood up again. What a reward for that generous giver.

Only by trying it can you verify whether a person is trustworthy or not.

Trust everyone.

Not trusting others can be due to a variety of reasons such as personal experience, personality traits, psychological factors, etc. Here are four possible detailed points::

1.Previous experience of betrayal: If you have experienced betrayal or deception from others in the past, this may lead to distrust of others. This experience can make you doubt people's sincerity and integrity, which in turn can affect your ability to build new trusting relationships.

2.Self-defense mechanism: Some people are naturally wary of others, which can be a self-defense mechanism. They may be wary of others for fear of being hurt or deceived, which can lead to doubts about the honesty of others.

3.Perfectionist tendencies: Some people have high expectations of themselves and others, and they expect others to live up to their expectations. When they find that others are not able to meet these expectations, they become disappointed and begin to doubt their abilities and honesty.

4.Intrinsic insecurity: Sometimes, our inner insecurities can affect our trust in others.

This insecurity can stem from self-esteem issues, fear of being hurt or fear of being deceived. This sense of insecurity can create suspicions and doubts about the motives and intentions of others.

It's a normal feeling to not trust others, but excessive distrust can have a negative impact on personal relationships and mental health. Building trust takes time and positive experience, and it also requires us to actively adjust our attitudes and perceptions. When dealing with others, keeping an open mind and gradually building trust may help restore trust in others.

At the same time, seeking psychological support and professional help may also help to deal with mistrust.

Believing in yourself and believing in others is the opposite of what you want to do, what you do must be based on the premise of believing in yourself first, because only you know your true feelings, others are not you, no matter how you know you, you can't know all of you, only you can fully know your feelings, so you must believe in yourself first, secondly, you stand far away from your own point of view, rarely can see comprehensively, see so completely, at this time you have to refer to other people's suggestions, the reason why you say stupid attack is a reference, because others also have a face that others can't see, This requires synthesis, combined with oneself and reference to others, so as to reduce the occurrence of wrong judgments.

It depends on why you don't trust others, whether you have deceived people a lot or are suspicious. You should try to believe in the people you bring your brother to you, think about it, your relatives will not harm you, why don't you trust them? If this is not enough, it is recommended that you see a psychiatrist, in fact, there is nothing shy about seeing a doctor.

From a psychological point of view, such a person should have a strong and good ability to control, or he has been hurt in his heart, so he will refuse to confide in the people around him from the heart, and dare not trust others, in fact, he is very sensitive and vulnerable. ‍‍