What do you think about the big gap between your boyfriend or girlfriend s family conditions?

Updated on society 2024-04-29
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The family conditions are huge, and it is really difficult to get along, because if the family conditions between boyfriends and girlfriends are huge, they will always look down on each other, and the parents have great opinions, so it is difficult to be together, and you must stick to it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The right door, this truth has always been correct, although many people think that this is a more feudal idea, but I think that in today's society, the right family is still very important, if the family gap between boyfriend and girlfriend is particularly large, then let them live together will not be particularly happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you truly love each other, there is a big gap between the families, in fact, it doesn't matter, two people can work together to create a better world for their future, as long as the two people are connected by heart, it is enough.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In most cases, this kind of couple can't go far, and what the ancients said is really reasonable. If the family conditions are too different, it will inevitably lead to the difference in the three views of the two people, plus the families of both sides, it will be a disaster.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That can only show that the economic strength of her parents' generation is not very good and cannot be replaced, and this one boy or girl has no strength, so if the two of you want to choose to walk together, don't care about these external environments.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This should be a very normal phenomenon, because today's young people fall in love completely according to their own hearts, and they will not consider whether the family conditions are very matched, so this is normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Even though the current society has been very progressive, the concept of the family is still deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and if the family conditions of the boyfriend and girlfriend are far apart, this will cause a lot of conflicts with each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, I think it's not a problem that the boyfriend or girlfriend's family conditions are huge, real love can't be blocked for any reason, if it's true love, then there's nothing to care about.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Many people think that only a pair of families with similar economic conditions is more perfect, but I don't think that's the case, if it's really true love, then even if the economic conditions are different, it can have a good result.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's a problem that prevents us from being together, if the two of us really love each other, even if the gap between our two families is too big, we can also break through the obstacles and finally come together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many conditions that need to be met for marriage.

    The first is that it is the right person, but it is not absolute. This can also be ignored if other conditions are particularly good.

    Normally, your marriage partner should not be in his condition, because the way of thinking and the way of doing things for children who grow up under different conditions will be different, which is usually difficult to find, and it will be slowly discovered after marriage.

    Therefore, in general, the marriage partner who is too far apart is not considered.

    However, although your family conditions are very good, your personal conditions are far inferior to his. Your boyfriend is the opposite, he has a poor family condition, but his personal condition is very good.

    Speaking of which, purely from this point of view, the marriage of the two of you can also be considered, which is another kind of strong alliance, which just complements each other.

    However, this marriage must be more beneficial to him than you, because he has everything, just one is behind him, and if he marries you, his shortcomings can also be made up, and you, if you marry him, your shortcomings cannot be made up because of marrying him.

    Removing these utilitarian hearts, if he himself is so single-minded to you all the time, respects you, and loves you, then this man can be said to be very rare, because foreign wealth can be lost at any time, but affection is difficult to get.

    What's more, he himself is very capable, even if one day your family is in the middle of the road, as long as the person is still there, then the two of you will definitely not be bad, so his wealth is stored in his head, inexhaustible.

    In a way, you can't say who is stronger than whom, so overall, it's a good match.

    Of course, what you say is just what you feel, this kind of thing should be discussed with your parents, if your parents think it is good, then you don't have to think too much, because it is really not easy to meet the right person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you find a boyfriend, family conditions are not important at all, the important thing is that you can get along well with your boyfriend, and when the two of you are together, you will feel happy.

    If your question is to find a husband, is family conditions important, then the answer is yes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    On this topic, the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law was reasonable, and the public said that the public was reasonable.

    I have heard the most of the complaints of the woman in the couples who are not rich, and the sweetness in the early stage did not avoid the oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and the poor couple mourned everything, so there will be some troubles about the expenditure of all aspects of life, and by the way, I will warn some juniors that marriage should still pay attention to family background. On the contrary, among the more smooth people, they will be the adherents of love, and there is romance in the plain, and they will not attach too much importance to the so-called family background. In the end, it's a matter of personal choice.

    According to the family's back, you can also look at the screening of a boyfriend by fate, fate is here, the emotion is strong, it is really a borderless sky, heaven and earth are together, and you dare to be with you.

    Relying on screening, it will be more ideal, and it is normal for people to like the best, and the excellent ones are attractive. Just like a blind date, it is necessary to find a partner according to a certain door. If you take the initiative to filter the type of like, you need to use social applications such as a companion marriage and love, only marriage and love, with a guess your favorite match, and you can also quietly view personal background information, with academic qualifications, RV and other certifications, it is simply the gospel of single dogs.

    Some questions that are difficult to ask directly have been listed, and if you want to find a high-quality object that meets your aesthetics, then online will be a faster and more appropriate method.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Important, without good family conditions, how much security can you have in your married life? It doesn't matter, even if there are no good family conditions, it is okay for couples to work together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personal ability and character are important. The family background is not so good, and you have the ability to make money, but if the character is not good, no matter how good the family background is, it may also make you insecure.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I am looking for a boyfriend because of love, not because of the other person's family conditions. So everyone has different ideas and choices, I think love is more important than material conditions, because as long as two people really love each other, no matter what they do together, they are happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on whether you have a rich life, poor without seeds, rich without roots, and rich and rich even if you marry someone with poor conditions, you will be rich in the future. If you don't have a rich life, even if you marry into a rich family, you will be defeated and become poor, so let it be.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It can be said that as long as two people truly love each other, they will have a chance to go to the end, even if the family conditions are very different, after all, the key to two people can go to the end is whether they really love each other, and the gap in family conditions is only an objective obstacle that two people need to face.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The man was not discouraged because of his poor family conditions, and the two people tolerate, understood and trusted each other, and they might be able to come together. Have the ability to handle the relationship between your family of origin and you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Whether the two of them can go to the end depends on whether the relationship between the two of you is deep? It also depends on whether the parents of both parties support the two of you to be together. The most important thing is whether the other party's parents recognize your sincerity to the other party and whether they will dislike you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Is the boyfriend's family condition really important? I think it's true, if a boy's family conditions are not particularly good, then we may be very prone to quarrels after we get married. But if a boy's family situation is not good, but they know how to be sad, then the living conditions will be corrected in the future.

    If we don't want to live a hard life, then we feel that family conditions are very important, but if we value the other person, then family conditions are not an important thing. Because the family conditions are good, and only the parents beat them down, we, as young people, need to work hard to change our current life, and we should go in time to make money, so that our current life can also be improved.

    If your boyfriend's family conditions are not particularly good, but she is very motivated, and she likes you very much and cares about you very much, then I don't think there is any need to break up. But if everyone's boyfriend's family situation is not particularly good, and he is always idle, then there is no need to be together, and breaking up immediately at this time is the most correct choice. From beginning to end, I feel that family conditions are only a secondary reason, and the main reason is because of whether this person is motivated or not, if a person is very motivated, then he will also change his current poor life through his own efforts.

    All in all, we must not choose a person who is not self-motivated, who is not self-motivated, they will definitely not let us live a good life, and it will also drag down our feelings. There is no need to be together, in fact, everyone will also find that marriage is not the same as falling in love, when falling in love, we can choose to settle, but marriage is absolutely not feasible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's really important, because if the other person has a very good family condition, it is a very plus, and at the same time, it can also make the two people have a better future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's really important, because only if the conditions are particularly good, can the mentality between two people become very good, which is what girls care about.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think my boyfriend's family conditions are very important. Because you're going to marry your boyfriend, not his family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Now, that's a lot of the case. The conditions of the women are ideal: the family environment is better, and the original family is sweet and harmonious.

    The ability to work is stronger than you, and the money is naturally more than yours. It can be said that this girlfriend can support this family. As a man, are you a little depressed?

    Isn't it a little ashamed?

    Actually, there is no need for this. You're a couple, and the foundation of a couple isn't about these jobs, money, or anything. It's the love between you, and if it's strong enough to make you ignore these factors that make you feel inferior—then there's no pressure on you to be together at all.

    And you won't feel like you're getting dirty, and you'll also think: your girlfriend is so good, it's awesome! You will look at your girlfriend with appreciation.

    Instead of thinking she's too strong, you have to stay away.

    If the emotion comes to that point, what will happen to you getting married? It's not because she's so good, so you don't dare to marry her, right? In short, you're also trying to get it.

    Fight for it, you can change your fate with both hands. Boys can change their status quo through hard work, such as working two jobs, earning more money, and then doing some small business and the like, people should improve themselves at any stage, you have an excellent girlfriend, then you can be your own role model, progress together, you have to believe in yourself, people's potential is great.

    Although boys rarely mind these things, there will still be many boys in some special families, such as many parents who are seriously ill or have a lot of debts, and most boys will be discouraged because of the pressure or the resistance of their parents.

    I think all of us should value each other's internal qualities when falling in love, don't worry too much about the appearance and conditions of the opposite side, only the relationship is good, and any difficulties can be overcome together. In the matter of marriage, weighing others and weighing oneself is the long-term plan of marriage.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't care too much about this, because I think the most important thing is that two people love each other, and there is no need to care too much about these external conditions, as long as they are passable.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't care about it, because the two of us love each other, and my girlfriend's family conditions are better and can help us both of our lives.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If my girlfriend's family conditions are better than mine, then he can still be with me, I will respect him very much, and I will take more care of her, take care of her, and work hard with all my strength to let him live a happy and prosperous life.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes. Because men value their dignity and status, they will definitely care about this.

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