Whether to choose a career or a marriage, whether to choose a marriage or a career

Landlord. Speak from the heart. Can't you have a marriage if you help your family with their careers?

These are two different things, is someone forcing you to choose only one of the two? I don't believe it.,If you really want to choose.,Then it depends on which one you think you use more heart in it.,It means that that that side is more important.,But after the landlord you choose.,Don't choose this side and think about that.,That's not good.,Then again,Can't the landlord use wisdom to choose? Find a way to satisfy both, or simply give up both sides, so that the pain is easy for a while.

Landlord,I wish you a good harvest in love and career.。。

Listen to my brother's first marriage.

Don't believe in what men want to do first and then have a career.

. Family is the most solid backing for a man's career.

At the beginning, I also believed that with a career, there would be a better family.

It's not like that at all.

First of all, if you get married, you don't have to think about getting married anymore, and you know how much worry it will save you for your future business.

My girlfriend who has such a good career has left me (two places all the year round, no way) makes my career unstable now, and I don't have time to find a girlfriend, I'm 30 years old, and I'm under a lot of pressure.

If I had gotten married, I don't think I would have had to stress so much, at least I wouldn't have to think about finding a girlfriend.

You also know how realistic girls are nowadays.

You don't have to think so much about your young age, once you reach my age, you will know how much more difficult it is to get married than when you were young, and it is completely disproportionate to the development of your career.

And when you get married, you just need to think about supporting your family and earning money, which doesn't conflict with developing your career at all, does it?

Because you can raise a family even during the development period of your career.

However, the development period of the career is not a family.

Look at my former classmates, the children are almost playing soy sauce, and I don't even have a girlfriend yet.

It's not that our conditions are not good, and we don't believe in some bullshit first career and then family.

Believe brother: That's right.

The best of both worlds is the best policy, men must first have their own career "This is the premise of a happy marriage", and life will be better after marriage after having a career....

At the age of twenty-three, you should do things first, and then get married, and you can fall in love first when you do things, and getting married at the age of twenty-three is too early.

If I was young, my career would be more important, because with my own career, I would become more valuable, and it seems that there are countless chances of winning in marriage.

It may be the same.

Men believe that career is the most important thing! A life without a career is blank, and a life without a family is just a pity! The Gu family is of course, but the career should be the priority!

Career is the foundation of a warm family and the guarantee of a family. Without a career, there is no truly happy family.

Without a good career foundation, there will be no necessary material foundation for the family. Without a good sense of dedication, there is no noble sense of responsibility.

A man without ambition will not become a good husband, a good father, and there will be no woman to love. If you have a successful career, you will inevitably have abundant materials, so that you can improve the quality of life, improve the quality of life, and promote family harmony.

With a career, there is a certain economic foundation.

At the same time, I also believe that family and career are almost equally important, and the status should be equal and complementary. Career is the foundation, family is the harbor. Career is the foundation for people to pursue materials, and family is a harbor for people to rest when they are tired.

Only a career is not considered real success, because there is no one to share with you, only a family without a career is not real happiness, because of the lack of personal value! Without a career, the family will not have a stable economic foundation, the family will lose its due material foundation, and the family will of course have no happiness and security.

The above is what I thought when I was young, I would think that career is important, but after experiencing many twists and turns in life, I found that a stable marriage is what women want most, that is to say, marriage is the most important.

What do we study so hard and work so hard for, in the final analysis, it is for the joy and happiness of our own lives, and on the way to happiness and happiness, we must meet marriage. If you manage your marriage well, even if your career is unsuccessful, you can still have joy and happiness.

On the contrary, even if you have a hot career, happiness and happiness are not easy to get, especially those very simple happiness and happiness, people will have at their fingertips, but for those who have a successful career, it is a luxury.

It is possible that on the way to their careers, they have neglected what they once longed for most in their hearts, such as heart-to-heart love, such as warm family affection. They have been fighting bravely, running on the road of their careers, and while their careers have been consolidated, they have actually lost a lot.

Some people may never be married, and some people have never tried to love someone deeply until they are old, and they have never experienced the affection and attachment of those two loves.

When they re-realize the importance of these things, they find that the best years have passed, and they have more than enough energy to do so, or they have been as calm as water and do not want to make any ripples.

So I think marriage is more important, of course, career is also important, if I had to choose one of the two, I would choose marriage.

In fact, I think both are very important, career is a job that you run by yourself, and marriage is a life that needs to be managed by both husband and wife. If I had to talk about the importance of both, I would only say that the emphasis on them was different at each stage, and that the two might even be mutually reinforcing. So there is no need to talk about the two separately, they are actually related to a certain extent, for example, Qi Wei can be said to be a model of a double harvest in career and marriage.

There is no doubt that a successful career is our confidence and can bring us great self-confidence. We will see some people who have made their careers prosperous on some social platforms or in daily life, and if we observe carefully, we will find that these people generally have such qualities: self-confidence, calmness, generosity and connotation.

It's hard not to be attracted to the people around you, and you don't have to worry about being judged about your work. I think the age of 20 is a good time to work hard, it can be said that the decade between the age of 20 and 30 may determine what kind of life you will live in the future, so in this period, especially before the age of 25, you don't have to compromise with the blind date arranged by the elders in the family, spend time and energy to find a suitable spouse, you must know that even at work, you may meet the person who has the same interests and will be with you for a lifetime, so don't treat marriage deliberately, Don't feel anxious when you see your classmates and friends already married and have children, the right time will always come.

A happy marital status is another motivation for us to move forward. After work, you will find that colleagues and friends around you may rarely meet classmates like when you were a student and easy to get along with, it is inevitable that there will be friction in the quarrel, life will inevitably go well, there will be times when things do not go well, and I don't want to talk to my parents anymore when I encounter things, because I am afraid that they will worry, and at this time the other half has become the object of our confiding. We no longer feel lonely and helpless when we encounter things, because there is always someone behind us to support us.

But the premise is that we have to find a partner who understands and loves us.

So in general, no matter how prosperous your business is, when you are old enough to start a family, you will feel very lonely, and you will feel like you have nothing but your career. And it is even more undesirable to abandon the career because of marriage, no matter when the career is always the direction we strive for, it is the confidence and security we give ourselves. It is said that you can't have both fish and bear's paws, so I want to say that career and marriage can coexist, but the order of the two has changed at different stages of life.

Careers matter. It is because career is the premise of human survival, and without career, there can be no economy, no value of life, and no meaning of human life.

Marriage is important. Because marriage is the foundation of human existence, without marriage, a person's life will be uncertain; Without marriage, human society cannot survive.

In terms of time, the career can be intermittent, short-term, instantaneous, can be hard work, can cross the annual ring, and success is no longer sooner or later, but in the grasp of opportunities. As long as the horizon is open, the eyes are open; As long as you are confident and prepared; As long as you let go of your courage and move forward bravely, the door to success will not be stingy with the entry of any hard-working person.

Marriage is not like this, marriage is like a net, it nets others and also nets itself, it needs to be continuous, long-lasting, and constant, so that marriage is destined to have characteristics that should not be destroyed and broken.

Marriage and career are like two ends of the scale, if you only focus on one end of the marriage or career, then there will definitely be problems at the other end, only when there is a problem, it will reflect that important end ——— the end where the problem occurs is more important.

At a young age, career can reflect its own value, and the contribution in marriage is often ignored. But after entering middle age, no matter how successful a person's career is, how independent he is, his career achievements cannot replace his family's happiness, and after entering old age, what career do you talk about.

So in the long run, I think marriage is very important, and when there are problems in my career and marriage, I will give priority to solving the problems in my marriage. But under normal circumstances, when I was younger, I would have focused on my career.

Marriage is more important because career can develop slowly, marriage is the main thing in the family, so marriage is more important,

If you don't get married, your career is important, if you are married and have a stable job, it's important to manage your marriage, and people with high IQ and EQ will get a double harvest.

Career and marriage are directly related, not unrelated, the better your marriage, the better your career, the better your marriage.

I can't give up my marriage for my career, it's not that I don't love my work, but in my opinion, it's far better to have a warm little family than to be a lonely strong woman.

When I was in college, I always wanted to be a career-oriented woman, but then I met someone I liked, and I still worked hard and still tried to be a strong woman. But in front of him, I really wanted to be a little girl who was protected, and at that time I thought, if I can have a good job, and then form a warm little family with him, how good it would be. Later, I really became his wife, we had a warm little home, had a lovely child, at this time I still like to work, but work is not my everything, but it has become a part of my life, my life has lovers, children, and home.

Although life is very busy, and now there is a world of difference between my life and what I once fantasized, I still feel very happy, I used to want to be a strong woman, that is because I did not meet the person I loved, and when I met the person I loved, I don't want to be a career woman again, I want to be a gentle wife and lovely mother.

Career is important, but it should not be more important than family, if life only has a career, and no home, then no matter how much money you make, how successful your career is, no one shares your happiness with you, such a lonely day, is what you want, I gave up my career back then, I don't regret it at all, because I found that there is something more worthy of me than my career. In fact, I don't want to give up, but if I have to make a choice, the choice is as follows: wealth is the first to give up, because there is a career, a healthy body, and more support from family and love, wealth will come back sooner or later!

The second one is that I will give up my career, because I personally think that with a healthy body and the care of family and love, I will still fight for another world! After all, humans are emotional animals!

The third I will give up my health at this time I am actually not far from having nothing Even if I am about to die, if my relatives and lovers have not abandoned me because of this, I think I will still die happily! The most headache is family affection and love delay, it is indeed difficult to make a decision But the fourth thing I give up is family affection After all, my parents are old, and what can really accompany me for a lifetime is my lover. Parents have nurtured us, no matter what, parents will not abandon us, but lovers sometimes abandon us When I have nothing, or do not leave my lover, she is the most important thing!

She is the only one who has shared joys and sorrows all her life!

Care about your own point of view If you are bent on being a young bridge and a junior, you don't have to worry about your future life, you will choose marriage. If you are unwilling, then choose a career first, and then find love later. You can't have both, you have to learn to give up what you want to get.