A girl who has lost her future asks for help from a famous friend

Life is a long road, and there is no fixed plan for planning between them, and it has to be adjusted accordingly according to different people at different times and ages. Here, I can only give my personal opinion, if there is anything inappropriate, you have to make a judgment and choose the life path that suits you.

First of all, you have to evaluate yourself comprehensively and correctly. Evaluate comprehensively, see what kind of life trajectory you have traveled, where you have come from, and where will you go? Evaluate correctly, truly see your strengths and weaknesses, build on your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and revise your future description.

Then you have to look around your life circle, what kind of circle do you live in, relatives, friends and other social relationships? What is the structure of your circle, what role do you play in it, and how can they help you? Revise your own future description from these helps.

Then look at the situation in front of you, for life, in fact, everyone is very difficult, see how your life is? What are the basic needs, what are the practical difficulties, what obstacles do you have to overcome to reach your future description, what can you overcome, what needs external help, and what is irresistible?

Talk to your friends, in fact, the people around you know you best and can give you the most practical help. Tell your friends what you think, brainstorm ideas, "three stinkers top Zhuge Liang", life is planned in countless adjustments.

In the end, you will definitely be able to find the coordinates of your life, and success belongs to those who have aspirations!!

Mr. survived and developed.

mm began to think that this would be a wise move.

Sister I think so:

This is the MBTI Career Personality Test I found for you.

Give yourself a direction first.

Second, do an analysis of your goals and see what you need to add.

For example, academic qualifications or skills certificates and so on.

Third, start looking for a job and make a resume You can find my sister and me.

Take it one step at a time and don't rush it.

Bless you.

I would like to know what your level of education is? What else are you interested in and good at?

Become a beauty salonist! You can open your own shop! Nice, you have a love for makeup! ~

Looking at what you said, I think makeup is more reliable.

I think what kind of work do you like, because if you develop into a job that you don't like, you're going to get lost, so think about what you like to do! Learn from that again!

I will give you only one word, be yourself and don't be fooled by the so-called social reality! Many people will only say that they will adapt to society, but they have achieved nothing, and even if they do, what can they do? Have you been yourself, if you become yourself, then you will succeed!

Your interface is too narrow, and it's a book anyway, so why is it a part-time job or a part-time job? Training is needed, but I think the purpose of your work is to get a promotion and salary, how can you just stay at this level? You think I want you to do business?

No, I'm letting you do it yourself, not doing business! It's not that you know the unspoken rules to succeed, people who understand are just doing a little better in business and rising a little higher, is your vision only these three feet away? When I was in college, I asked you, what is the purpose, and some people say that it is a small society, let you go in contact, I say fart!

I might as well have direct contact with the society after graduating from high school and don't have to pay high tuition fees (5,000 a year, isn't it), will I be weak in four years? In my opinion, the university is to cultivate talents, what you say is what kind of talents, you need a computer, you want IT elite! It is necessary to rely on excellent technology rather than the so-called interpersonal unspoken rules, most of the Chinese are mainly interpersonal unspoken rules, but when they really encounter masters, they do not all go to grab (mainly too many low hands).

Of course, this is not realistic for you, you are 27 years old, in my opinion, you are already very old, although you live to learn all the time, but what you learn is just the way of life, it hurts. I can only tell you now, broaden your horizons, you have to see everything clearly, don't think that you can learn anything, work or do business or do anything else, but you don't have to forget, you must be yourself, don't be damaged by this dye vat, otherwise it is meaningless, like you have no wife and no children, in fact, the most leisurely, now women are the most cold, eat all the food, the so-called true love, talk about it, how many women can share weal and woe? In other words, a daughter who can share weal and woe, such as Zhu Yuanzhang's wife and Marx's wife, is worth cherishing for the rest of her life and can't give up for the rest of her life!

It's okay to compare, but don't take it too seriously.

People are more popular than dead people, and there is no personal experience in this life.

It's all different, you can't be what you look like, that's life.

There is a lyric that is not very good, there are too many unsatisfactory in this world, but our life still has to go on] As long as we struggle, as long as we have a goal, we will not be sorry for this life, and we will not regret it, and so on are really useless, look back and think about it, work hard, fail, leave no regrets, if you are young and do not work hard, looking back is completely different, you say, you have to know correctly Comparison can make you motivated, not will it make you fall, right?

Face it calmly, go with the flow, since life can't resist, why not go with the flow, face it calmly, compared to the above, there will always be more than the bottom, just comfort yourself.

Happily waiting for the turning point in your life, bless you.

Brother, be content and happy! You are who you are, and no one else can replace you! Compare with others, find the worse one!

With Shenma's parents, we always let our living conditions be compared with the poor, and we have to compare our studies with the good ones! Finding the difference can make you improve and feel that life is good! Before you know it, you'll improve!

No, everyone has the value of existence, society will not eliminate anyone, the so-called elimination, but you eliminated yourself! Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Filling in the gaps is what you should do now, don't give up on yourself, find your own strengths, choose a path for yourself that you won't regret, hope is ahead!

Friend, it's not society that weeds you out. It's that you don't see your strengths in yourself. In today's society, we should not compare others with others, but believe in ourselves and stick to our beliefs.

If even you are discouraged and do not seek improvement, you will really be eliminated by society, you may feel that you are not good at anything, but in the eyes of others you are not useless. See more of your strengths and make use of them.

What I want to say to you is that society has not eliminated anyone, only yourself can eliminate yourself, and you must believe that your fate is still in your own hands. No matter what it was like before, put it all aside, from now on be a person with a good attitude, practical and serious, thoughtful, hard-working, you will definitely be able to mix well. There's not that boss who doesn't love someone like that.

Find out your own shortcomings and correct them.

If you think about it, don't you have anything better than him? Absolutely. It's impossible for everyone to be better than you.

Eh, but people say that to see whether a man has a future, it depends on what kind of people are around him. The so-called like gathering, you will not be bad But I feel that your state is still the state of just graduated

The best way to defeat your enemies is to make yourself strong and not to envy them, but to learn from their merits and believe that through your own efforts, you can become like them.

The people around you are very good, and you may not be able to go badly, maybe you haven't figured out your own path.

Try to have a good relationship with them, but you don't think it's worth making a friend, you can stay away from them a little bit.

Why bother with this, just be yourself!

It's a lot of pressure, but you can't give it up. Since you are so down-to-earth, you should cheer up and compare yourself to your friends. Society does not abandon anyone. It's up to you to work hard.

Slowly cultivate quality and enrich your knowledge. Work diligently and steadfastly.

The inch is long, the ruler is short.

As long as you do the best self with your heart, why bother to see how rich others are, this is a kind of depravity, a kind of decadence, I hope you can get rid of the world's troubles for you, and be a self-respecting and open-minded person.

Think about your strengths and play it to the fullest.

The longer the investment cycle, the greater the return This is the law that cannot be broken How do you want to grow step by step Step beauty in the arms ,, hehe.

People will encounter a lot of ups and downs in their lives, the problem is to see how she walks through it, it doesn't make sense for others Everyone has a time when they are confused, if you can't even solve this little problem yourself, then the road ahead is still long, and your own path is your own.

I don't know why you're confused If you don't feel good in school, you can find a training class after graduation to continue to learn a technology Now there are many training courses with part-time and part-time classes You can also find a job and earn money while studying If you are interested in computers, you can go and see this I think this major is not bad, and the development prospects are relatively good.

I personally feel that people are learning all their lives, when we do something, it is impossible to let ourselves lie down with a little setback, you should always learn something from the setback, feel something.

Confused thinking you don't have a goal!

We all go to school to learn and grow little by little. For the job after graduation, it also takes a little effort to get results.

Like me, I'm a senior now, I'm graduating soon, and I'm also confused, especially in the face of the global financial crisis, it's hard to find a job.

Adjust your mentality, learn what you are doing well, live every day, and learn what you should master to the best of your ability. Build confidence, have faith in life, live well, and live every day to the fullest!

Find a rich boyfriend, I don't believe she's still confused.

If you want to make sales, you have to make certain changes, including personality, negotiating, contacting, visiting strangers, etc.

The key is that you have to find the value that you have in yourself and others don't have, this is your own core competency, in layman's terms, where others can use you, and the ability to create greater value for others.

It's never too late for a person to change himself, the key is to see how determined you are? Just looking for change, trying to change, interested in change? Or does it have to change, resolve to change, have to change?

There are five steps to a sure-success formula for you:

Step 1: Have a clear goal.

Step 2: Have a detailed plan.

Step 3: Take immediate action.

Step 4: Correct your actions. Through sensitivity, it is known whether the current action is getting closer or farther away from the goal.

Step 5: Stay the course – keep changing the way you do it until you reach your goal.

Success will always depend on whether you want it, not whether you can or not, and if you do, you must find a way. If you don't, no amount of work will work for you.

Question 1: What should I do if I know I can't fail?

Question 2: If I were paid the same salary for every job I do, which line would I choose?

Question 3: What are some of the things I am most interested in?

Make a list of things that interest you and find out from them: Is it possible to turn those interests into a lifelong career?

There is no accident to success, only necessity, the road to success is paved by goals and actions, start taking action now.

Remember, there are no excuses to be successful, no excuses to be successful, and success and excuses never live under the same roof. Break a leg.

Don't look at the mountain as high as this mountain. Society is not easy to break through. How many people are still squatting on the side of the road? If you have a good job, you have to cherish it.

.1. Take care of work, sitting at home will never have a chance.

2. Be optimistic about a certain business in the society, learn by yourself, and then open your own store to do business, or partner with others.

3. Maybe it's not bad to meet a rich man who falls in love with you.

In short, having to go out and staying at home means that there is no opportunity, and the mood will be decadent.

Imagine what you want to do in the future, such a thing will be done by anyone, you just need to calmly think about your interests, abilities and the path you want to take in the future, and go on without hesitation after settling down, there will always be a successful day, and this process is not a waste for you, it is a kind of wealth, don't suffer from gains and losses, because there is only one time in life, and you will lose the choice itself when you are faced with many choices that you can't choose. So, don't think too much about it, study and do things well every day, and that's it.

I think you can come out for a half-study, or take a self-exam, so that you don't waste time and you can experience life again!