Are friends who don t stand on your side every time still friends?

It depends. Case-by-case analysis.

If the other party intends to do this, then his character and friendship between you have to be re-evaluated, if not, it is to help you and let you think about the problem from one more angle, as long as it is done in moderation, I think it can be regarded as a friend!

Friends are an indispensable part of our lives, and life with friends is very beautiful. And you say that your friend doesn't think about things from your point of view every time, which makes you question the friendship between the two of you. The most important thing between friends is to trust each other and understand each other, and your problems can be seen from two sides.

If you think about yourself every time, selfishly think that you are right, and that your friends must stand in your position and support you unconditionally, then you are very wrong. When I was hanging out with my friends during the summer vacation, she complained to me about her roommates. She is studying accounting and is about to take the accounting certificate.

Her roommate signed up for the training course, and the training class would send some review materials. My friend didn't sign up for the training course and wanted to read their review materials, but her roommate didn't show it to her, and told other roommates not to show it to my friends, and said that if she wanted to read it, she would go to the training course by herself.

My friend told me this question in distress, and that's what I said to her. Others are not obligated to show you those information books, it is her will not to give them, you can't impose your own ideas on others, and there is nothing wrong with her roommate doing this. But she can't tell other roommates not to show you, that's her fault, she can't tell others not to give it if she doesn't want to give it.

I didn't stand on the same side as her, I analyzed the problem with her from my own standpoint, and she also felt that I was right, and thought that I shouldn't think like that.

If your friend disagrees with you every time you do the right thing, it's her problem. For example, if you have a quarrel with your roommate, it is your roommate who did something wrong, but she blames you in turn, saying that you should not do it, you should be friendly to your roommate, and how embarrassing the quarrel will be. I don't think you need to make such a friend, she has completely become your roommate's friend, and she doesn't mean to be a good friend.

The most important thing is to find friends with the same three views, you can get along very happily with the same three views, and it is useless to say anything if the three views are different.

A friend who does not stand on your position every time is really not your good friend, maybe your position is sometimes incorrect, then it is forgivable not to stand on your position, if your position is correct, a friend who does not stand on your position means that he is not a real friend.

There will always be disputes between boyfriends and girlfriends in the process of getting along. It is normal to have different views and different perspectives on problems, but if you quarrel frequently over trivial matters, there may be problems, and if you can't talk about everything together, it will be difficult. But as a boy, you should let the girl know that he may not be like these words, so you let her have a little bit, and then it may be easy to get along like this, and it is not a big deal.

If you really feel that it is very problematic and aggrieved, then it may be that the two of you are really not suitable.

Then why don't you try to tolerate each other and empathize with each other It's too difficult to meet each other When you meet, let's meet each other I wish you can go on forever.

The difference in the three views is really a headache, and it will only be more obvious when living together.

Don't expect others to have no hesitation in you, this society only relies on yourself for everything, all people have to consider their own survival and interpersonal relationships, and it is impossible to sacrifice their own interests for you.

That is, man is a selfish animal

This is to say that he has encountered something himself, and no one has helped.

Talk, see what's going on, what you think, maybe just get used to it, tell him or her so that you don't like it and he or she should change

can only tear the skin of the face, and treat others in the way of others.

I have to talk about her in private, otherwise I will lose face.

Communicate with him and make him respect you.

It's good to communicate well in private, and the most important thing is to run in.

Sensei took care of him, and never went out with him.

If you're both young, that's understandable, but if you're a couple in your thirties, you have to find a way, and it's not always okay to go on like this.

It depends on the situation, if you are already ugly, you can choose to be angry if you can't stop it in moderation.

Discuss it carefully, and if it doesn't make sense, say goodbye, after all, face is given to each other.

Tell him in private, and if it doesn't work, he'll kick it.

The premise is that you are right, 1, enlighten him first, 2 let him roll the calf.

A tooth for a tooth may be effective.

If you don't know anything, it's all up to you.

It's normal, two people hold hands for a lifetime, if he is so nervous every day, he will be tired to death, and he will be distracted from work to earn money to support his family.

My husband is also such a person, so I learned to endure, learned to wipe my tears, learned to digest all grievances, grievances, whenever I can't stand it. I thought to myself, didn't I just think that others were loyal and reliable? In addition to not coaxing women, he is strong in everything, and it is time to be content!

So I became who I am now. A happy little woman.

On the other hand, have you ever thought about it from his point of view? Think about you in your boyfriend's shoes, I'm going to have such a girlfriend and see how it works.

Thinking from the perspective of others will be very comprehensive, and only by empathizing will you know what results others need.

Well, agree with your statement, right and wrong are gentlemen.

Everyone's thoughts are different, and the results are different.

Look at the problem to divide it into two, and sort out the reasons.

Moral charts generally like to say, "Think from someone else's point of view; It's not easy for others, you have to understand each other more. "I hope these moral tables will think the same way when lush forests grow.

No girl will not care about her charm, no matter what kind of character, find a time to talk to her, even if you don't like me, but as long as I like you enough, after all, liking you is my own hungry thing, we are still good friends, what is the matter, think of me. Don't worry, I won't embarrass you, just please give me the opportunity to be by your side, as long as I am by your side and be friends with you. Come on.

It depends on her personality, ask her friends how she treats suitors she doesn't like, and see if she is easily moved by the type she really wants, or if she only likes the type she actively pursues.

Everyone has a different personality, you can ask him directly.

Yes, then don't puncture this layer of paper, just let it be.

Yes, play more with her good friends, and it will naturally contact you.

I'm glad to answer this question for you, and I see your description of this question, and my personal answer and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe that someone else has not experienced what happened to you, and they don't want to see your description of this question, then first of all, this is for sure, because even if someone else has experienced such a thing, he may not necessarily think from your point of view, because that person is okay with you, and if it is the person you love the most, your parents, or your partner, your lover Even if they haven't experienced it, they're going to put themselves in your shoes and think about you, and it's mostly about dividing people, not for everyone.

What others have experienced, will you stand in his position and think that no one is perfect, as long as it is not too excessive, then forget it, if it is too much, you can turn around and leave, never again, I hope it will help you, I hope to adopt.

Maybe, after all, you can't empathize, if you put your heart into your heart, maybe you can feel the part of your heart, if it's average, they won't understand, so some words are very reasonable to say, but it's difficult to do.

Don't always be self-centered, otherwise it will be too one-sided and narrow-minded.

We should learn to empathize with each other in everything we do.

Sometimes you have to think about the feelings of others, take care of the feelings of others, but do what you think is right, listen to the suggestions of others appropriately, and then synthesize your opinions in doing things, so that the probability of success is higher.

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