Don t like someone, is it a momentary thing, or a long term thing?

I think it's both momentary and long-term.

No matter how I say this, some people will think that there is something wrong with what I said, both for a moment and for a long time. A moment is an instant, a long time is a long time, and the two are not in the same time space. Don't worry, just listen to me.

Not liking a person is a momentary thing. Because when you are with the person you like, two people are often tired of being together, and if you are with them for a long time, there will often be some conflicts between the two people. You will be with him one day, when you do something with him, you want to do it this way, and you think that the other person will do it according to your thoughts and actions, but unexpectedly, the other person chooses an unexpected approach, and this approach is something you don't agree with.

Look at the other person's side face, and you will find in a moment that the person you love has deviated from the appearance of the most beautiful lover you imagined, and in this moment, you will find that you no longer like the other person.

But a momentary dislike is just a temporary feeling, you will not immediately break up with the person you like because of this momentary dislike, you will only pass it as an uncomfortable feeling in your heart. But this feeling is already deep in your heart, and you will find that you are slowly paying more attention to his bad than before, and slowly discovering how he has more and more shortcomings, and more and more is not the person you liked at the beginning. And when many things happen, you will find out in a split second that you don't like each other.

A lot of momentary dislikes slowly converge to long-term dislikes. Then the problem comes, and you find that you don't like the other person at all.

That's why I say that disliking a person is a momentary and long-term problem.

Of course, it's a matter of a moment, some people hate each other when they meet for the first time, they just don't like him, and then they hate him all the time. In fact, when you meet for the first time, the other party must have done something that makes you very annoying, so you will hate him as a person. It's really simple to hate someone, if you don't like a word or a look from the other party, you will hate it.

As long as I don't hate this person at the beginning, then I won't hate him later. If you've known each other for a long time, but you're starting to hate him, then he must have done something that you can't accept. <>

I've encountered it, when I was in high school, the most important thing was that when I was a freshman in high school, he called me out directly, and then there was a person next to him, and then he said that my little brother likes you, do you want to promise him, I really think it's funny, and then ignore him and go directly into the classroom, it's just a waste of time, and he thought I would definitely agree, now I think about it, I admire his courage, I didn't just slap his face, so I hated him very much for three years of high school, So much so that when he chased my best friend behind, I directly told my best friend not to agree, of course, my best friend didn't like him, and then I added fuel and vinegar to it, and my best friend hated him too, and I was happy to think about it.

If you have known each other for a long time and you didn't hate him at the beginning, you definitely won't hate him later, because you are already familiar with him and know his character. But if at the beginning, the other person does something you hate, then you don't have a good impression of him, and it is difficult to change it, because your subconscious is to reject him.

I think it's a long-term thing.,Feelings are really unexplainable.,Like is like.,There's no way to dislike it.,There's probably no time limit when you hate someone.。

I think if you used to like someone very much, you probably felt that this was all you had in life, and you wouldn't think that one day you would dislike him because of something, so after the accumulation of time, you will become a stranger.

I want to talk about my own experience, because I have liked a person for many years, and just recently, I found out that I don't like him as much as I used to, and I feel that the person who makes my heart is no longer the person I want.

But after really separating, I found that the person I liked had become an ordinary person who was dispensable in his life. I didn't know what I wanted, and the power that had always supported my life was instantly wiped out.

Time has really changed a lot of things, and the enthusiasm I had for him has been consumed little by little in time, this is the reality, and I can't refuse, since I just let me forget it, I will gladly accept it.

In fact, it's nothing, as long as you don't like a person, you won't care if you forget him in what time period, since you choose to forget, choose strange, you don't have to care about the length of time.

People who can forget in a short period of time really don't have any feelings, because they don't like the people around them because of a little thing, and it doesn't matter if you don't miss that feeling, the image in your heart is still not important.

Really important feelings don't change their minds no matter how long it takes, I hope you can live happily like this, and you will be happy when you meet someone you don't hate.

Not liking a person is a loss from many moments, and it slowly becomes a long-term thing.

There is no moment when you don't like a person, if that's the case, it can only mean that you didn't like this person very much before, and then when you see one of his actions, you suddenly dislike him even more.

But if you liked this person very much before, then it can only be an overnight thing if you don't like him more and more, and no friendship can withstand constant hurt and incomprehension.

But there are exceptions, I didn't know much about it before, and then I suddenly saw his character from one of his things, and I would suddenly dislike him, and even have a feeling of rejection. There is a very good classmate, she liked a boy in the class very much before, that is, she was very treated, and she was very chatty, and she was going to be with him, but then she suddenly found that he was very ambiguous with many girls, and she couldn't explain the relationship, and she felt that his relationship network was so messy, and all of a sudden the good image of him disappeared, and then the female classmate no longer cared about the boy, just because she saw the essence of the boy.

In fact, it may be really simple to make people like, but if people really like you, then you don't want to do things that make others sad, after all, you have to make a lot of determination to not like someone.

I think it's a momentary thing, but it may take a little longer to confirm.

Like and dislike in my opinion are a moment, like is a momentary heartbeat, that is the starting point of your choice to agree to be together, don't like is not like, you may think that a little little thing will cause you to have this feeling, but this is also a beginning, I believe you have heard of love at first sight, that is, the first time you see him, there is a feeling of heartbeat, and this feeling is a moment, in the same way, I don't like a person, I also think it is a moment.

When my boyfriend and I broke up before, I was actually brewing for a long time, but the feeling of not liking him in my head was generated in that moment. Then we will have a holiday, each go back to each house to find their own mother, so we have become an online dating, every day through QQ, WeChat to chat, occasionally open a ** or something, but in the process of chatting one day, I suddenly had a disgust, suddenly I felt that I didn't like him, he involved something I didn't like in the process of chatting, but I didn't listen to him, I suddenly had no feelings for this person, maybe some people thought I was strange, but at that moment I became dislike him, but I didn't want to express anything at that time, but from later life, I slowly found out that we were not so suitable, and we didn't want to compromise with each other, so we finally broke up.

Some people slowly discover each other's strengths and weaknesses from the interaction between two people, and then feel that they are not suitable, whether they like it or not, but I personally feel that whether they like a person or not is in an instant.

Although it is true that you can see people's hearts over time, if you want to decide whether you want to be friends or talk to someone, it depends on the first time you see each other, so I think disliking a person is an instantaneous thing. <>

For example, in college, there is not much direct relationship between people, and there are very few interests involved, as long as it does not involve my interests, I will not hate you or anything else. But as long as I look at you and make people uncomfortable, I will naturally take the initiative to distance myself from you. In fact, this has nothing to do with your appearance, it has to do with the feeling you give people, maybe you look fierce and vicious, but you give people a better feeling, and naturally someone will take the initiative to get along with you.

I can't guarantee how right I am, but if you don't like him at first sight, will you spend your own time getting to know him? I believe the answer is no.

Of course, only when you see a person's feeling is very right, you will take the initiative to want to get close to him, when you have the desire to be close to him, there will be follow-up things, so the first sight of a person is very important, so whether you hate a person or like a person, you only need a glance, or a moment to decide.

My second boyfriend and I were on a beautiful day, he wore my favorite plaid shirt, and when the sun shone on him, I felt that he was handsome, so I made up my mind to contact him.

So the moment at first glance is very important, I hope everyone can polish their eyes, of course, it also needs to be honed, only by learning to see people, can we contact better people.

Of course, everyone is mutual, so you must treat people with kindness, be the kind of person who will take the initiative to ask you for directions on the road, believe that you treat the world with gentleness, and others will also treat you with kindness and be a good person.

Whether you like someone or hate someone for a long time, it depends on yourself, how much you like him, or if you hate him, you have to look at the scale in your heart. <>

Personally, I don't think I like a person from the first time you see her, whether you like it or hate it, for me, if I hate a person, I'm more than just a moment, I remember that the sophomore year of high school just divided into arts and sciences, I chose to study science, and then at that time, there were more boys and fewer girls, so I felt that girls should be able to get along well, but when I entered that class, there was a person who didn't want to go with me everywhere, and before that, I didn't know her at all, and there was no intersection at all, I was very distressed at that time, why would she not go with me, in front of the boys said how good I am, how beautiful, in front of the girls said that I only play with boys, not with girls, anyway, all kinds of bad words, at that time I didn't find out that she was with me not to go, once in math class, I was very happy to be at the same table with me and said, I will write this question, when she heard me say this, immediately said a sentence How would you not go up to write, and said that I was at the same table to help me bring breakfast, saying that he was so good to me, not to help her bring, At that time, I was a high school classmate at the same table as me, before and after the table, the relationship was naturally good, I didn't like it after many things, I felt that she was so pretentious, and she spoke fakely, after all, I wouldn't like such a person when I slept, I told my friends that she was jealous and jealous or something, but anyway, after high school, she apologized to me, but the hurdle in my heart was not passable.

Because some injuries have been caused, even if you make up for it, it won't help, just like you hate someone, although over time, but the person you once hated will not like to **.

Of course, it is a matter of moments, and sometimes it is easy to hate someone because of one thing, especially when you first know each other!

I've saved enough because of disappointment. Typical PUA behavior: all kinds of negation of people, suppression of people, destruction of people.

I hope you will be an honest tool man for the rest of your life, and don't have other ideas.

How do you get along with such people?

Such a person has a big problem with his character.

First of all, if you can block it, you can block it as much as possible, and you can stay away from it as far away as possible.

There is no need to waste your time and energy on such people.

If you can't block and stay away, then try to avoid and avoid head-on conflicts within a certain range.

If it's beyond what you can tolerate, assess the difference in strength between you and them.

If the opponent's strength crushes you.

First, we must learn to protect ourselves and not let ourselves be hurt too much.

For example, keep some key evidence in case you need it.

Second, we must learn to ask for help, and don't suffer silently by ourselves.

For example, if there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband can deal with these problems, after all, the communication between mother and son is smoother.

If the other party is on par with you.

As soon as you work hard to improve yourself, it's good to ignore them after opening up the gap.

There are some people who just like to bully the soft and fear the hard, when you crush the ta, the ta's attitude towards you is completely different.

Second, fight back at the right time to let the other party know that you will not blindly put up with it.

If you blindly tolerate him, it will only get worse, and once in a while you will still have to be hard.

If the strength of the other party is far inferior to you.

TA is just a clown jumping off the beam in front of you, there is no need to deal with him.

After a long time, they know that they can't get any benefits from you, so they won't make waves anymore.

You tear up with him, it's disgraceful to win, and it's humiliating to lose.

It also seems that your pattern is too low, and you are not cost-effective no matter how you calculate. I read a sentence and forgot the original words, which means so. When I met my future mother-in-law for the first time, my mother-in-law repeatedly said that her son was good here and there, and he would be bullied by her in the future.

The first time I met my future mother-in-law, she saw all kinds of likes for you, and praised you all kinds (except for the hypocrisy), and you can get along well in the future. Stay away from the ungrateful white-eyed wolf.

Only ruthless women are more likely to be happy! Be kind to yourself, so that men don't dare to snub you and don't dare not take you seriously.

Stay away from the four kinds of people;

1. People of bad character;

2. People who don't know how to be grateful;

3. People who are hypocritical;

4. Those who do not believe in their words. 1.To love someone, you have to look at his appearance.

2.Don't forgive or forget the one who betrayed you, and don't give him a second chance to betray.

3.Stay away from men who borrow money from you, decent men don't borrow money from lovers.

4.Stay away from men who are reluctant to spend money for you, and don't expect him to be nice to you in the future.

5.Use self-harm to please your man, have violent tendencies, don't be moved.

6.People are divided into groups, things are gathered by like, and if you want to know what kind of person he is, look at his friends.

7.If a man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, don't take the initiative to find him, which means that he doesn't love you.

8.Be strong after a breakup, don't cry, there are still good men!