If you like someone, but you are not willing to make changes for her, is that what you like?

I think it's like, but he probably likes himself more than he likes the other person, because he likes himself more, so he doesn't want to make changes for the other person.

Love is actually very selfish sometimes, saying that it likes it, but the body has no action, just like girls ask boys every day if they like themselves? In fact, she knows whether she likes it or not, but it is because the boy does not show it in action, so the girl will have to make a verbal promise, which will also calm her heart. When a girl asks this sentence, she doesn't actually ask for anything substantial, as long as the boy sincerely says a word of love, he will be satisfied.

Some people's likes can make all the changes for each other and are willing to think about each other. Because I like it, I want to make myself work hard to fit the way girls like, and I know that I may not be the ideal type in the girl's mind, so I try to get closer to her ideal type, even a little bit.

I envy this kind of love, two people are together to change each other for each other, and become the best version of themselves in each other's minds.

But some people are born with the same appearance, he is used to his long-term lifestyle, even if he tries to change after being with a girl he likes very much, but it may only be superficial, and he will change another way as soon as he turns around. Maybe it's good in front of girls, but it's not really a change.

But maybe he can let himself suffer any grievances, but as long as the girl is sick, wronged, and has any problems, he will be by the girl's side as soon as possible and accompany her through the difficulties. He can carry everything by himself and don't let the girls get hurt.

Can you say he doesn't love girls? I don't think so, he actually loves girls very much, but the way he lives for a long time has turned him into what he is now, and it is deeply rooted, so although he likes girls and can work hard for girls, but what he is, he has always been like that, and he will not make any changes.

No, the relationship is a mutually accommodating thing, since you like him, you have to adapt your character and his personality to each other, which of course needs to change each other, if you don't even want to change, how can you like people?

As a simple example, a person goes from being single to having a partner, not only his mentality has changed, but even the angle from which he considers the problem is different, after all, the people and things around you have changed, how can you still be in the state when you were single? At that time, you were single, you could be free, there was really no one to restrain you, as long as you didn't break the law, you could jump to the sky if you wanted.

But the reality is that you are different now, you are a person who has a boyfriend or girlfriend, you can't do things according to your own personality, you have to consider whether you hurt the interests of the people around you. Unless your liking is still in the stage of favorability, and you are not willing to confess, so you are not together now, if you are not willing to change at this time, it is still forgivable that you are not really together after all.

Since you didn't choose to be together, it doesn't hurt if you don't change, after all, it doesn't involve each other's lives. But if you're together and you still think this way, it's a big mistake, when many boys confess to girls, they say maybe I'm not good enough, not hard enough but I'm willing to become what you like, can you be with me?

Isn't there any resistance to these successful cases? If you like to learn to change, why not scare yourself? As long as it doesn't make you bad, you accommodate him, what's wrong, can you lose something?

No, in that relationship, you don't need one party to take the initiative to change and think that you are born perfect, don't you need to change?

I don't think this can be generalized, many times it is like this, you can't say that you like a person you have to change for him, a lot of things you don't want to do If you force yourself to make changes for him, this has lost your true self, so more often it should be in the worthwhile things to make changes, if it's a small problem, you can naturally temporarily wronged yourself for him to change it, I don't think it's a big deal.

Of course, if you are not willing to make changes for each other, but you just like to insist on yourself, feel that you are the best, no matter what two people encounter in life, you always refuse to consider the girl's ideas, insist on your own decision, then to a large extent, you don't like each other, you must know that if you really love a person is definitely willing to think about each other, all say that the power of love is great, if you are unwilling to make any changes to accommodate each other from beginning to endJust think about whether you really love each other.

Personally, I think it's acceptable to make changes for him without violating his own principles. But it can't be said that not being willing to make changes for her is just not liking.

There are many types of change, both principled and non-principled. If you have to make some changes that go against your own morals and principles, it is completely unnecessary, and it has nothing to do with liking or not.

Maybe he just wants to keep a certain part of himself, and he can't say that he doesn't like you.

I think feelings can be cultivated, but it's not that you have to wronged yourself and the future, but if you don't hate it, you can try to contact and understand more, although some people are also married first and then fall in love, but that's extremely lucky, most of the time we still have to have a certain emotional foundation, as for physical contact is slowly and gradually, and when there is a feeling, it is slowly possible to accept, now is to open your heart, don't think about your ex anymore, give yourself a chance, and age is not a reason to imprison us.

Since your first impression of him is that you don't like it, there will be various problems after accepting it, which will affect the relationship between two people, and it will not be good for each other, so it is better to think about it carefully.

It's possible, and it's very likely. In the past, there were many couples who didn't have any feelings for each other at first, and some still felt that each other was very annoying, but after living together for a long time, they slowly established a relationship, and later their relationship was very good.

Change can be changed, but it's harder because you have formed an inherent impression of this dislike of him, and you want to change this inherent impression. It takes a lot of change and perseverance to do that.

Touching and love are two different things, you have to figure this out in advance, and then choose, it is not easy to love someone for a lifetime, and it is not easy to have a good impression of someone, so my advice is to follow your heart.

Find a good person and get married! But how innocent he is, without you, he can have a perfect love, instead of becoming someone else's second-best place. Two people can fall in love for a long time, provided that you don't dislike him, even if you don't have a good feeling, it doesn't matter, but now it's different, you start to dislike him.

It's possible, don't talk about what will not be done, you should be friends for a while, and make it clear to him that you understand for a while, if you feel that two people are suitable, they will be together, and if they are not suitable, they will not be together, just like you said that you and your ex are impossible, you always have to look forward.

If your heart is still with your ex, you won't like anyone, no matter how good that person is to you, his kindness to you will only become a burden or guilt for you, and you won't like him.

Hello, it won't turn into liking, because you don't like the other person, then trying to accept it is also forcing yourself, and you may also reject the other person.

Of course, you don't like them, the two of them get along for a long time, and after a long time, they will slowly like him and fall in love with him.

It's hard, it's really hard, don't settle, it's going to be the end of this life.

This should be adjusted according to your own situation, and others can't help you much.

Theoretically, it is possible to cultivate feelings slowly, as long as it is not annoying, it is always acceptable.

However, you said in the title that you can't accept physical intimacy, and this may really affect your relationship.

Feelings can be cultivated slowly, but the body will not lie, if you can't accept it, I advise you to cut through the mess quickly to avoid embarrassment for everyone!

Don't settle for now, because it will lead to a day when you won't go down, there are many reasons why you don't like a person, don't care how good his own conditions are, don't like it is not like, you can't let go of your ex is the main reason why you don't like him or even like others, the root cause is that you can't let go, you already know that the result is impossible to be together, you have to adjust yourself, 32 years old is indeed not small for women, but you have to go longer in the future, don't blindly marry for the sake of marriage. It's not easy to meet someone who likes you and likes him, you just met someone you like, and someone who likes you, and you didn't meet someone who likes each other, don't be blind, don't like it is not like, it's very man's conditions have nothing to do with it, because that doesn't belong to you, I wish you to find your favorite person as soon as possible.

It's okay, and he respects me too.

There are reasons why you don't want to be someone's favorite person, and it depends on the situation and the individual. Here are some common reasons:1

There is no interest in developing feelings: Some people may not be interested, unwilling or do not believe in the feeling of love at first sight, and the number is greater than that of a certain person, even if the other person likes them, but they do not have feelings for him or her, so they will not be tempted to do it. 2.

Existing partners: If you already have an emotional partner, you will usually not accept the likes of others easily, as this may affect your existing relationship3The other party has unacceptable shortcomings:

If some of the other person's habits or personality traits are incompatible with you, or contrary to your own position and values, then even if the other person will like you more, you will not accept it lightly. 4.Reluctant to get hurt easily:

Some people may have been emotionally hurt, they may be reluctant to engage in casual relationships, or they may be wary of strangers' likings. In conclusion, liking or disliking someone is a very personal feeling that needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis and on your own merits.