How the child himself should get rid of his selfishness

To change your child's selfishness, you must do the following:

Clause. 1. Improve the family education environment, eliminate children's self-centered ideology, do not give children special status at home, and let them live on the same basis as others;

Clause. Second, to let children learn to care for others, first of all, respect for elders, care for parents to start, in family life to educate children before themselves, help parents to do something, parents to the child's positive performance and progress to give affirmation and praise, so that children feel that because of their own understanding and bring happiness to parents, from which to experience the joy of dedication;

Clause. 3. Create conditions to change the lonely environment of small families, create a condition for children to change their selfish psychology, invite friends to play at home, and guide children to share themselves and food and toys with everyone to eat and play together, so that children will experience the happiness of sharing happiness with others;

Fourth, educate children to have others in their hearts, to help others as much as they can, to think about others in advance, and let children experience the joy of helping others in the process of caring for others;

Clause. 5. Educate children to clarify the relationship between the collective and the individual, cultivate children's sense of responsibility for the collective, encourage children to participate in collective activities, encourage and support children to care about the collective, and do good things for the collective;

Clause. 6. Set an example, always motivate, and set an example of selflessness and helping others in the minds of children.

In fact, the adults around the child are his role models, and he will learn how to do what you do! You won't see the effect for a while, but it will work slowly.

It is reasonable to let the child participate in some group activities, let him know the people around him, socialize more with other children, and he may know and understand the methods of others.

I'm also selfish.

Usually tell him that it's not good to be selfish.

If he doesn't listen, he should set a good example.

Encourage him, let him become assertive himself, support him.

1. Don't meet your child's needs at will. When buying things for children, you must be restrained, do not meet the unreasonable needs of children at will, or when children see something, parents will not hesitate to give, which will make children lack awareness of material things.

2. Restrain children's possessiveness. If the child likes something very much, our idea is often to buy one for the child as soon as possible and let the child play, such an idea is not right, the more he likes something, he can not be in a hurry to satisfy the child, let him know that things are not easy to come by.

3. Things can be borrowed. There are some things that we can borrow from other children or parents instead of buying them for our children, and then tell them that these things will still be returned after use, so that children have the concept of sharing in their minds.

4. Eat food should be reasonably distributed. Many parents are accustomed to leaving delicious things for their children to eat, in fact, this is often harmful to children, and children do not necessarily want to share with everyone, but parents do not deliberately cultivate.

5. Have more contact with children. It is necessary to create an environment for children, go out more to contact with other children, and through playing with children, children can understand what cooperation and sharing are, so that children can no longer be selfish.

6. Take on a role in the class. If the child is usually selfish, parents can communicate with the teacher and let the child take on some small roles to serve the classmates, so that the child can develop good habits.

7. Strengthen positive guidance and education. Parents can consciously carry out some positive counseling and education for their children, through storytelling, reading and other ways, so that children can fully understand the disadvantages of selfishness, so as to get rid of the bad habits of selfishness.

1. In infancy, there is a period of time when you ask for something from your child, and they will not give it to you, which is a period of development, so we don't need to worry too much.

2. Children's selfishness is a kind of nature, everyone has a selfish side, including us is no exception, but it depends on how to guide children, maybe exchanging toys is a good idea.

3. Some children take other people's toys and don't give them, which is the reason why many children are selfish, afraid that others won't give them toys, so we have to tell the children that they will give it to you after playing for a while.

4. It is very important to find a good playmate, to give the child a sound personality, to let the child be with other children, make more friends, maybe it will become generous.

6. Parents should be generous enough to be a good example for their children, so that they can have a role model for learning and a positive example for their children.