I went after the girl, she didn t want to, but after a while, she took the initiative to talk to me,

Hello, I personally think that you go after a girl, and then, at first, you don't want to, but after a while, you take the initiative to talk to you, which is a good thing. I don't quite know what you want to ask, but I personally think you need to maintain a good friendship with the girl first, and then slowly develop into love, bless you.

I don't know, maybe it's been a long time, and she slowly accepts you in her heart! And at first you kept chasing her, and she enjoyed the process too, and once you stopped chasing, she started to suffer from gains and losses! I always feel like I'm missing something!

But you have to test her to see if she's sincere!

She doesn't know you well and knows you well, so when you chase her, she doesn't want to. After a while, after she has a certain understanding of you, she feels good and has a good impression of you, so she takes the initiative to talk to you and get close to you.

Not being willing doesn't mean that she doesn't want to be friends with you, she doesn't want to hurt you in her heart, take the initiative to chat with you, so you can be happier.

You pursue a girl, but he doesn't want to, and after a while he takes the initiative to find you again, he may think that you have given up and want to be ordinary friends with you, it may be that he has changed his mind and liked you, and you still have to look at the girl's attitude towards you.

You go chasing a girl, he doesn't want to, he doesn't accept you, but after a while, he takes the initiative to talk to you, it's possible that he just wants to be an ordinary friend with you, and he doesn't want to lose you as a friend.

I don't think she wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend with you, but she doesn't want to affect your friendship because of this, so she takes the initiative to talk to you!

Summary. Girls don't take the initiative to chat and don't need to continue chasing. Withdraw one after another, don't chase it for the time being, and directly and decisively temporarily cut off contact. Some girls you just don't look for her for a while, she may send you a message asking what you're doing, why haven't you been looking for me lately, etc.

The girl doesn't take the initiative to chat, and she doesn't need to continue to answer Kai. Withdraw one after another, don't chase the macro finger for the time being, and directly and decisively temporarily disconnect. Some girls you just don't look for her for a while, she may send you a message, asking you what you're doing, why haven't you been looking for me lately, etc.

What is the situation, can you tell me about it?

At that time, I liked a girl, and the day before yesterday I asked her out to go to the library, and then we had a meal together, and then I said I was going to train, and she said I was sleepy, can I go to see you train? Then I went back to the dormitory at night.,And then send a message to ask her if we'd have breakfast together the next day.,She agreed at the time.,And then when Seemine Sakura said a few minutes later, she suddenly had a personal matter to do.,And then I haven't replied to my message until now.。

This situation proves that she will not reject you and has a good impression of you. Because she can go to see you train, it proves that she wants to know you better.

And then yesterday I didn't reply to my message.,It's a few hours at night I can't help it.,I called a** over.,Don't reply to my message but hit the god ** in the past but it's a second hanging**,And then a few minutes I played a video game quietly to the past.,And then I just couldn't get through**.。

If she is really busy, wait for her to reply to your message, and you ask her: What are you busy with today?

She may not be able to answer and have important things. Don't contact her first, wait for her to take the initiative to message you back. Ask her again what she was doing.

Hello, wait a minute.

A man who really likes you is not only limited to chatting with you, but will also find ways to get close to you and establish a relationship with you in reality, but if he doesn't do this and only stays at chatting with you, it is likely that there are other meanings.

It's the same with girls.

1.Maybe it's just a simple chat 2I can't figure out your attitude3I want to get away with it.

Do you like active girls?

If so, don't chase it, because you've met a girl with a more introverted personality.

If you don't care, you only care if two people can talk, then you go ahead. Because she's willing to talk to you, there's hope!

You can chase it, only when the speculation of the chat is upgraded to the heat of the chat, can she be more attached to you.

Everything else is, brother tells you as a person who has come over, give up! First of all, it depends on what state you are, if you have determined the relationship between the two of you, you have always been actively chasing her, and she never took the initiative to contact you, which can only explain the following points, 1. She doesn't like you very much or doesn't like you at all, 2. You are not good enough to give her what she wants, such as no money, no car, no house, 3. You are not handsome, you look ordinary and have no money, and you have no good job, 4. Congratulations on making a spare tire! Maybe you're chasing it here, and you're looking for something better over there!

So, what do you say you're still chasing? I think a boy can have no money and no looks, but he must have dignity, backbone, goals, tenacity to improve himself and a self-discipline perseverance. If you are just pursuing unilaterally, and you haven't even asked her out, and you haven't confessed, then you'd better find an opportunity to ask her out, confess boldly, and say what you think, just feel about it, don't be romantic, it's all hypocritical, girls nowadays are very realistic, I guess most of you will be rejected.

In this materialistic social background, love is a game of money, if you are not good enough, and you have no money, and your family background is average, then you have to work hard, girls are vain, and they all hope that their other half is rich and handsome! If you're not handsome enough, work hard to create wealth; If you don't have money but look good, most girls will like you, especially if your family conditions are good; If you look ugly and are poor, hehe, congratulations, you are miserable, love is a luxury for you, even if there are girls who like you, it is basically equivalent to being ugly, empathy, will a handsome boy like an ugly girl? Even if she has money in her family, she won't, the boys are all guys from the Appearance Association!

In this game, as long as you are rich, hugely rich, you will not lack women, women are materialistic, love vanity (of course, boys are also the same), as long as you have money, it doesn't matter what you look like, even if you are short black and ugly, you will not lack women! Okay, let's sum it up, in the final analysis, you have to improve yourself, whether you are a man or a woman, in this society, no money will be very painful, you can't control everything about yourself, you can't control your own destiny, this is the reality! Human nature is dark, and I'm just telling the truth!