Is it necessary to continue when both parties feel that the other is going to give up on themselves?

Updated on society 2024-04-25
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can go on, but it depends on how the two of you coordinate this.

    You have to communicate well, talk about what is the reason for the uneasiness of both parties, whether it is because of the long-distance relationship and the lack of support, or the opposition of the family and the support of friends, or the reasons of the personality and work environment of the two people, and find the point where you both feel uneasy. When I was in love before, it was like this, because of a long-distance relationship, and both of us have a lot of friends, and we both like to play games, so we are worried that there will be the opposite sex in the same city or the game to hook up with each other, as long as there is a little wind and grass, we have to ask for an understanding, and always suffer from gains and losses, when encountering this kind of problem, both people have to express their thoughts to each other, and only by making it clear can the problem be solved.

    If it is a long-distance relationship, end this state of separation as soon as possible, because if you can't meet a lot of things that could have been solved face-to-face with a few words, it is easy to have unnecessary misunderstandings, if it is a family reason, you need both parties to talk to your parents well, and if you have personality reasons, you have to make compromises for each other. Because you simply feel that the other party will give up on yourself, it means that your sense of security is very low, but you are very affectionate to each other, so you are afraid that you will be abandoned, which just shows that you love each other very much, so if you are well coordinated, the relationship will be better than before, if a person does not love each other anymore, then there is no fear that you will be given up. Don't want to continue because you don't feel safe, don't talk about breaking up easily, one person's insecurity may be that the other party doesn't care about her or ** is not doing well, but both people have this feeling and may need more run-in to get better.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When both parties feel uneasy and feel that the other person will give up on themselves, it is actually because you are starting to feel insecure about each other. It's likely that you're in a long-distance relationship, or because of some differences in values caused by changes in your life circles, or because you're busy with work and have lost time to talk. These are all reasons that can make couples feel uneasy and feel that the other person may give up on them at any time.

    So should we give up on this situation? First of all, we must not give up directly, so it is too hasty to end this relationship. First of all, we must find the cause of these problems, if it is because of a long-distance relationship, it depends on how much you attach importance to this relationship or how deeply you love your other half?

    However, it is indeed easy to lose sense of security in a long-distance relationship, and it is really painful for two people who love each other not to be under the same sky, nor can they meet anytime and anywhere. So at this time, if you feel that you can't wait, then you must give up. But if you think you still love him very much, then you have to endure this time.

    However, you can agree to meet a few more times a day, and it will be much better.

    For some changes in life circles or the insecurity caused by busy work, you don't have to give up at all. Because this is just a misunderstanding caused by the decrease in your communication, it is easy for you to break some of the current uneasiness as long as you talk more often, go out for a walk together, and talk about your thoughts. Don't end a relationship because of some unnecessary misunderstanding.

    Love life should still be done and cherished!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When both parties feel uneasy and feel that the other party will give up on themselves, can they continue? I think this phenomenon is a kind of mood of gain and loss in love, and it can also be said to be caused by distrust of the other person in love. I think you should analyze it, if you really love each other, then in the process of your relationship, what is the reason why you obviously love each other but do not trust each other?

    Why do you feel this way? I once suffered from gains and losses in love, because I was in a long-distance relationship with him, and the only thing I could contact every day was text messages and **, this feeling is actually very bad, not that I have to disbelieve or distrust, but I will be inexplicably afraid of inexplicable uneasiness, and I feel as if I can't catch his feelings. But in the end, it turned out that my uneasiness was also right, it turned out that he did have another girlfriend, so I have always believed that this feeling of uneasiness will definitely not be groundless, there must be some details or some daily relationship with the expression or feeling, there will be this feeling of unease.

    When both of you feel uneasy, both feel that the other party will give up on themselves, this phenomenon I think there must be something wrong in your relationship, the feelings of men and women in love are actually very sensitive, maybe even you don't care about the small details, so that you bury the uneasy seedlings in the relationship, and then slowly grow up, so that this uneasy emotion becomes bigger and bigger, I think, if you don't get rid of this source, even if you love each other again, your next relationship process will be extremely hard and tired, And this will be one of the biggest reasons why you can't continue! So! Communicate!

    Communicate! Communicate! Say the important thing three times!

    Remember to communicate, tell each other your innermost thoughts, tell each other all the reasons that make you uneasy, and then think of countermeasures together, so that you will go further! <>

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not in general!

    We all want to love someone, and no one gives up on each other because they love each other too much, right?

    If you give up, there must be something bitter!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    True love is not necessarily about having the other person, if you really love him, you should make him happy, or let him pursue happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are many kinds of love, if it is love that hurts each other, it is better to give up, because love is to make each other happy, and each other has this mentality, and happiness will last for a long time!

Related questions
7 answers2024-04-25

If the content of the agreement does not violate the mandatory provisions of the state, it is valid.

21 answers2024-04-25

From the perspective of society, you should take the initiative, and my point of view is that whether it is a man or a woman, as long as you like the other party, you don't have to care who should take the initiative, and there is no ** rule in the current society that men must take the initiative. Your current situation is also quite optimistic, but in the end you still need to take the initiative, have you ever thought that this person is yourself, although I said that you don't have to care about who should take the initiative This is my own opinion. What can be done in this case is to keep changing and try to get along with her as much as possible, I don't recommend that you do it in one step, I think you should first use some more subtle language to hint at it, let the other party have a spectrum first, so as not to have an unexpected thing to happen to everyone**.

4 answers2024-04-25

What are some tips for convincing the other party?

1. Assert and be confident. >>>More

26 answers2024-04-25

The conflict between husband and wife has risen to the level of communication and consensus, and it seems that the subject is a person with a high level of education, and it stands to reason that people with a high level are very easy to solve when they encounter problems, how can it reach the level of a cold war? >>>More

17 answers2024-04-25

Of course, it will not fade, but it will enhance the relationship between each other, because children are definitely the bond that enhances the relationship between husband and wife, and can also make the whole family more harmonious and happy.