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I often hear people say, "The person who really loves you, no matter how painfully injured or wronged, will never leave you, and the person who leaves you does not really love you!" But is that really the case? Love can indeed make a person who constantly tolerates for you, extends your bottom line for you, and even ignores yourself lovingly.
However, don't forget: people's hearts will be cold! Not to mention people's hearts, even if it's a raging fire, if you don't add fuel, there will be a time to extinguish.
One rejection may arouse fighting spirit, and a hundred rejections can destroy people's hearts; A snub, you can smile slightly, a thousand snubs, but it is icy and penetrating! Flowers that are not supplied with nutrients, no matter how gorgeous they are, will eventually wither; In deep feelings, if you don't get a corresponding response, it will slowly become shallow, and no matter how hot your heart is, it will always be put in ice water, and it will slowly cool down.
Don't always think that people who truly love themselves will always love themselves desperately, even if there is, what qualifications do you have? Whose time is life, don't take it for granted that the love given, because no one's contribution is in vain, being loved is not only a kind of happiness, it is also a responsibility!
2. What you can't get is always in turmoil, and you don't know how to cherish it after you get it.
If you ask a girl, "What period do you think a boy loves you the most?", many girls will tell you that they are in the period when they are being pursued by a boy. Indeed, the average boy is the most willing to give love when he pursues his beloved girl, the main reason is that the girl does not belong to him at this time, and he clearly knows in his heart that if he does not show enough love to the girl, the beloved girl will not agree to his pursuit. Therefore, he has to pay a lot of love to realize his true heart.
And when the boy successfully chases the beloved girl, he thinks that this is his woman in his heart, and he is no longer afraid that the beloved girl will be suddenly run away by others, so the vigilance in his heart will be reduced a lot, and the boy will still love the girl very much, but as time goes by, the love and attention to the girl in his heart will involuntarily decrease, just like being born in sorrow and dying in peace, love is comfortable for a long time, it is easy to ignore many problems. You will forget that what you have also needs to be cherished, otherwise you will still lose it.
In fact, many times we will become the person who doesn't know how to cherish after getting it, probably because we think it belongs to us in our hearts! Many people's love is often separated before they understand how irreplaceable the other party is, and often after they lose, they really understand the importance of cherishing!
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Summary. Hello dear!
After the breakup, the girlfriend must have been hurt, and the wounded heart can't be soothed, her heart is so broken that she has no interest in you. After a breakup, we must maintain a good attitude to live, lost love, as well as the love of family and the friendship of friends, there are too many meaningful things in life, we still have a lot of things to do, and there are still many people worthy of our love.
What does my ex-girlfriend mean when she says she feels like she doesn't love me that much.
Hello dear! After the breakup, the girlfriend must have been hurt, and the wounded heart can't be soothed, her heart is so broken that she has no interest in you. After breaking up, we must maintain a good attitude to live, we have lost our love Wang Qiantong, as well as the love of family and the friendship of friends, there are too many meaningful things in life, we still have a lot of things to do, and there are still many people worth regretting and we love.
She doesn't feel like she loves me that much now, and I shouldn't try to win her heart back.
It can be tried to be reversed. Many men don't like to chatter about their girlfriends, but waiters are women in love and often like men to confide in them. Only when you have a common topic and language between you will you understand that the other person has already put you in the depths of your heart.
When you break up, you must learn to explain to the other party, and let the other party empathize with your feelings. If you don't say something, the other person may never understand it. Tell the other party that you have not done well enough in many areas, but you believe that you can do well through your efforts in the future.
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