How do you go on a blind date? What to say and write? Wouldn t it be embarrassing?

Updated on society 2024-04-28
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Are you a boy or a girl? Girls should be reserved, just smile more, don't talk too much, boys! Just be generous, ask how many people in the other party's family have what ideals they have, etc., which vary from person to person....Relax, don't be nervous....The boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, and there will always be something to talk about when the time comes...It's not expected to catch up with the changes, so you don't have to think so much in advance...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Blind date is not a job application! There are not too many rules, but one thing is that you must truly express yourself, so that the other party can fully accept or not accept you, and let go. Don't care about success or not. Just be yourself. I wish you to find your beloved soon!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, introduce yourself first, and then look for relevant topics to enhance your relationship. When strangers meet, there will definitely be embarrassment, and it's good to be familiar!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, you need to introduce the information between you, and if both parties are interested in meeting again, it is better to meet again. After meeting, you can talk openly and honestly about your respective requirements and standards for the other half, and if you can meet them, you can continue to understand each other further, their respective personalities, hobbies, family background, outlook on life, values, etc., in fact, marriage is a transaction. There's nothing embarrassing about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, your question is really interesting. I don't know if you're a boy or a girl? In fact, it is a natural law for men to marry and women to marry, so what's so embarrassing about blind dates? !

    The key is that you have to have a sincere heart, and as for whether you can succeed on a blind date, it has to go through a period of communication. Whether the shoes fit or not is not wishful thinking on your part, don't you say?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, you should use snacks in your dress, and the first impression is very important when you go on a blind date. When communicating, talk about each other's experiences, education, interests, and hobbies, and if they happen to have been to the same place, or have common hobbies, then open the topic. In short, details are important, and details determine success or failure.

    I wish you a successful blind date.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What age is it now? Hehe! Are you meeting each other for the first time?

    Don't be nervous, just let it be. The main thing is that you don't think too much, now the first step is to be friends with the other party first, not boyfriend and girlfriend (on the premise that you like it). Then you know how to do it yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feel like getting to know his friends first!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you have something to say, you won't be embarrassed.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just introduce yourself, and then find out what you want to know, there will be embarrassment, the question is how do you minimize the embarrassment...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's talk about topics that you are all interested in, there is definitely embarrassment at first, and gradually it will disappear when you become familiar with it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The first point is what not to say on a blind date.

    1. How many times have you kissed.

    Although blind dates need to be honest with each other, don't talk about everything. Out of curiosity, some people ask each other at the beginning: "How many times have you kissed each other?"

    No matter who listens to such a question, it will feel very heartbroken, and it also hurts self-esteem a little, so you must pay attention to proportionality when speaking.

    2. How do you feel about me?

    It's best not to ask the other person when chatting on a blind date: "How do you feel about me?" "If the other person doesn't like you, it's going to be this issue.

    If the other party falls in love with you, but is too shy and embarrassed to say it, you can only laugh it off. At this time, the blind date atmosphere will definitely be awkward, so such a problem is not good.

    3. I have also seen many conditions better than yours.

    Blind dates must have a sincere heart, and it would be too boring if you kept making comparisons. Don't say on a blind date: "Actually, I've seen a lot of people with better conditions than you."

    This is very annoying, because you are here to go on a blind date, not to belittle others. If you don't even give face to the other party, there is no need to continue the conversation.

    4. I don't like Xiangzhen to be forced to come like a yard.

    When you go on a blind date, you have to learn to speak, often many people don't like blind dates, so they say directly to the blind date: "Actually, I don't like blind dates, and every time I go out on a blind date, I am forced." The person who said these words may feel nothing, but the person who listens to them is very embarrassed, because such words are too hurtful, and it is recommended not to mention such topics when going on a blind date.

    The second point is to avoid embarrassment when going on a blind date.

    1.Good image.

    If you want to date without being embarrassed, it's best to start with a good image. Ladies can dress a little more formally, and it would be perfect if they wore light makeup. Men are mainly clean and comfortable, and the most important thing is to look energetic.

    After doing this trick, the blind date is already half successful.

    2.Prepare the topic.

    In order to effectively avoid the awkwardness of dating, you should think about the topics you can talk about in advance. For example, interesting experiences you have had, such as recent hit TV series, can be your talking point. But it's important to note that it's best to pick a light-hearted topic.

    You can ask more questions about the basic information given to you by the introducer, and ask more questions about the other party's hobbies and expertise, so that it is easy to generate new topics and arouse the other party's desire to communicate. You can also talk about things that have just happened around you recently, which will make your relationship feel closer.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. What to talk about when you meet with your blind date for the first time.

    1. When you meet with your blind date for the first time, you can talk about the city attractions, talk about the places you have been to before, and what are the good attractions in these places, if both of you like to travel, and you can talk about it in particular, if you have a good impression of each other, you can find an opportunity to travel together.

    2. When you meet with a blind date for the first time, you can talk about your own interests and hobbies, and at the same time, you can understand what the other party's preferences are, whether there are similarities with yourself, and if you have common interests and hobbies, it is the best, because you can have a common language.

    3. What to talk about when you meet for the first time with a blind date, there are many topics to talk about, if you are not very good at talking, then you can listen to each other more, and you can also talk about some things about work, of course, you can simply chat.

    2. How to chat on a blind date for the first time.

    1.Learn how to greet each other naturally.

    When chatting for the first time, it often starts with a boy saying hello, the most common is nothing more than saying "hello", or adding a smiling emoji, but this kind of chat not only makes girls have no desire to chat, but also is too common to make girls have the slightest interest in boys.

    For the first time, choose a more pleasing way, it is easier to get off to a good start, such as bringing some topicality, such as a simple self-introduction, or some questions, like you have dinner?

    In any case, the polite girl will definitely reply, and this is your beginning, only when the beginning is established, and then there will be infinite possibilities.

    2.Chat with humor and strive to be an interesting soul.

    In the process of chatting with the blind date, it is actually an opportunity to show your personality, and at this time, if you often say something "Have you eaten?" "What are you doing?" "If you wait, it's easy to talk about the topic to death, because these pies will make girls feel very unnutritious and have no desire to chat.

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