I think my former boyfriend never fantasized that he would meet him unexpectedly, and I wanted to co

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How long has it been since we broke up? If it's not a long time, it's better to bear with yourself and not disturb him, otherwise he may resent you even more; If it's been a while, and you find out that he is doing well now, and maybe the love is going well, then give a ** greeting, laugh at yourself for not being sensible before, and wish him a good life in the future. If he has let go of the past, he will bless you in turn and help you to let go of your mind.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It takes courage to rely on him, if you really need to rely on him, hit him **, but I advise you to give up on him, because "when you gain something, you will lose something".

    This time you lost it, the next time you get it.

    Confidently looking forward to the next encounter is always much happier than waiting sadly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I know how you're feeling right now! I've always missed my former girlfriend, and I've always been depressed about whether I should contact her, will it disturb her normal life, but then I decided to contact her, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable! As a result, she said that she was going to get married this year!

    Ay!! It's been a long time since I said it, in fact, I think it's better for you to get in touch, after all, you once fell in love!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I want to too! But no matter who dumps whom, it's just as hard to speak, and if you bump into it, you'll be a stranger.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's gone, it's gone.

    Please don't disturb people's lives, okay?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Oh my God, you're the same as I thought.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are more women than women all over the streets, more than women.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Contact him if you want to! Say it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your dreams only prove how much you care about him.

    It has nothing to do with his reality at all.

    Neither can prove his innocence nor his innocence, it can only prove that you love him and care about her, worry about his dreams, and take care of it yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm like that too. I always like to think about things. It's good to keep yourself as busy as possible. Or just say it. If you're always suspicious, it's easy to have problems.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That is, to be with him for a hundred years and grow old.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because your life is too peaceful, and people are too peaceful, you will subconsciously hope that something will happen that makes you unpeaceful. Your dreams are not linked to your boyfriend's character. Trust him and it's OK.

    Don't break trust with each other because of something unwarranted. If you love him, you will believe in him. You're going to be fine.

    Wishing you both a long and lasting life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dreaming shows that you are subconsciously not sure enough about the relationship between the two of you, either because you are too worried about losing him, or because the foundation of your relationship is not stable, your relationship is very good now, it does not mean that it will be good in the future. However, this is a dream, not a reality, after all, so don't increase your psychological burden because of this. What you have to do now is:

    Enhance your charisma instead of worrying that he will abandon you, and strengthen your relationship foundation instead of worrying about it. Love is a pot of flowers, which needs to be cultivated with trust and understanding, and suspicion and unfounded things cannot be allowed to take root in it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I see this matter as too important, to put it simply, I am very afraid of losing, just because you are very happy, and you finally find one who has a temper with yourself, that is, you are afraid that if you lose, how to live the rest of your life is a problem, so, there is a foreshadowing deep in the subconscious, that is, I am worried about the loss of this feeling, hehe, there is nothing when I am busy during the day, but it is the easiest to expose in my dreams!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's because you care about him too much! Dreams are generally reversed, don't think too much, believe in him!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's just a psychological hint that you are insecure about him, and if you want to interpret it from a good point of view, the dream is all the opposite.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've been in this situation too, and every time I wake up, I ask my boyfriend if he's done anything bad, but I know he's not that kind of person! Haha, I personally think you care too much about him, and the dreams are all the opposite! It's okay ......

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Thinking about it day and dreaming at night!

    From what you said that you think this relationship is too important, it can already be seen.

    Now that you know he's a very single-minded person, don't think about it, it's just a dream.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I thought too much, so I started dreaming. It's okay.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What is awake is called life, dreams are fake, live in the moment, cherish the people in front of you, and don't let your suspicions ruin your happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Women are like that. Anyway, don't take it seriously, or he'll be innocent...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Dream is the most illusory thing, the landlord is going to be the egg.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I've done the same, but the dream is the opposite, believe him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    "Bad mood" is the reason for your dreams, anxious and worried.

    It is estimated that you have slept lazily and are close to or beyond the agreed time. Your biological clock (the brain has a system for judging time, which comprehensively judges time through temperature, light, sound, endocrine level, etc.) sends out warning signals, but you just can't wake up, so you feel emotionally anxious. Information about anxious emotions is transmitted to the brain, and the brain looks for similar events in memory:

    My boyfriend is missing - my phone doesn't work - everything on my phone is gone.

    This dream shows that you care about your boyfriend very much, okay, cherish it.

    And it doesn't hint at anything. All the best.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Dreams don't indicate anything, it's just that you subconsciously have thoughts about this that cause you to be cranky, and it's okay to rest assured.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Communicate more and build mutual trust, this is the most basic for the two of them, if you can't do it, give up as soon as possible, he hurts you and hurts.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Use your actions to prove that he is cranky.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Kiss.. Why do you care so much about the past? Since he doesn't want to tell you, he naturally has his reasons, although my boyfriend told me everything, but he never asked me to pass, once I asked him why he didn't ask about my past, he said, smart men and smart women don't ask, everyone will have in the past.

    Although it's the past, there must be a party who feels uncomfortable when you say it.,It's good to cherish the present.,The past.,Just let it pass.。。 It's useless for others to say this.,The main thing is that you want to open it.,Don't think about it.,Men hate women who are so neurotic.。。 I wish you happiness and good work.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, you love him too much to care about him, but I think you should relax and trust each other if you really want to know...I think you should find a time to make it clear in person! If he really has something to hide, he doesn't want to say....Then there are two possibilities: first, he can't forget the past...The past was very important to him....And he may still have a connection to the past...Even he wanted to drag it out....Second, he doesn't want the past to affect you and him now....Maybe you'll leave him after he tells you...So he will choose to hide it!

    There are many things that are in a hurry, and it is useless....Infection him with your heart....Maybe one day he will take the initiative to tell you about his past! Hopefully you'll be able to adjust yourself....I wish you all the best!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is sad to believe in him, to recall the past and not to cherish the present. You must believe in Him and love Him. And make him happier with your life, happier than before. Don't pick up his old wounds, tolerate him and love him with a true heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He loves you, and he doesn't want you to be sentimental about his past, and he himself may not want to recall. Cherish your present, instead of making yourself depressed, it is better to think about making him happy, and you are happy too, aren't you?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because you miss him, or he happens to be thinking about you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Think about it day and dream night night.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The reason why you have such thoughts is because you are an insecure person, and your possessiveness is quite strong, personally I think you should try to let go of your heart, take a very inappropriate example, if he changes his mind, you will make him more disgusted with you, if he is in love with you, maybe once or twice, he will feel that you care about him like this, but for a long time, your love will make him have a kind of pressure, and this pressure will make him slowly disgusted, produce a feeling of disgust. Therefore, I personally feel that it is better to let go of some hearts, deal with it indifferently, do what you should do, whether he changes his mind or not is not something that he can stop, or do a good job of caring for him, but give him a certain amount of personal space. This may give him the feeling that he will always have a troubled conscience if he changes his mind about you, and perhaps it will be better.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Understand that I'm just as suspicious as you are sometimes! That's because you care too much about him, that's why you will suffer from gains and losses, try to trust him more.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    No way. It's your personal problem, just look for an ugly one, don't have money, and work in the fields all day long.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Everyone has their own space.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    What is there to discuss. Care a little more. Let go of the mood a little.

    When 2 people are together, they are to be inclusive. His temper is stubborn. You can be softer.

    You can get it back when you're happy afterwards. Happy. He wouldn't care.

    Send a message to make an appointment. Have a drink or eat something. Just say you're hungry.

    If he still cares about you. I'll come and take you to eat. Don't put on a face after 2 people meet.

    Have a good talk. Pour out all your worries. You'll be better that way.

    But don't be hard when you say it. lest they fall out again. Hehe: There's not much more to say.

    I'm a man. This is my opinion that I am not fully aware of it for myself

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    A woman's small belly chicken intestines, a man's ingeneity, a slap can't make a sound, and a person's efforts have little effect!

    Two people sit down, face to face, talk calmly, be more tolerant of each other, trust each other, and the relationship can be much more harmonious.

    You have to do what you promised, you can't heal the scar and forget the pain!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Girls will become sensitive when they fall in love, magnify a lot of small things, and be open-minded, but he doesn't really do anything. You communicate with him and say that he has always been like this, but he will change it slowly, and there is nothing wrong with smiling more every day. A woman who loves to laugh is the most beautiful, and in his opinion, your smile is a way to express your happiness in love.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    What to do, find out what is the reason why he is cold to you. Isn't it that your unhappiness is shown on your face, question one, who caused your unhappiness, is it your boyfriend, if not, you don't smile at him for a day, and no one will accept it. On the other hand, if it's your boyfriend who makes you unhappy, you shouldn't be smiling, and that's not the solution to the problem.

    As you said, this will only accumulate contradictions, and people get along with each other, whether men or women want to get along, it is communication, and communication is communication. Question 2, as a man, of course I like to see the most beautiful side of my girlfriend, is your most beautiful side cold and expressionless? I think absolutely not.

    So, if you don't want to break up and want to talk about it, then reflect on what you did wrong and change yourself. Whether it's the opposite sex or the same sex, it's still necessary to restrain oneself from each other. It is not possible to follow your own temperament. I hope you understand what I mean.

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