Now that I m 21 years old, I always feel that life is very empty and boring

If you don't want to live, jump straight from the stairs.

If you don't want to die, go out and look for a job.

Stay online. Find a time to chat with friends and find something to do.

Chances won't come to you.

None of us here can give you the opportunity to earn money to support your family.

Let's actually go out and find a job! As long as you can mix and eat.

It's better than staying at home!

Hey, me too, I'm a woman, I just don't think there is any goal in life.

Then set a short-term goal for yourself, and gradually set bigger goals in the future.

The young man does not work hard, and the boss is sad. People have no ideals, and they have no coordinates like a ship. If my guess is correct, you're still financially dependent on your parents.

Let's make yourself independent first. Be down-to-earth, don't be too ambitious. I believe that I am good.

Good luck!

I think it's better to find a job, like a restaurant and other places with a lot of people, and try to socialize with them and communicate with them more, it will be much better.

Your life is your own choice.

Someone else can never replace it.

You can find something to do in everything, and you're probably a boy, and you don't feel empty when you do more exercise.

Read more books, participate in more group activities, exercise more...

It's also a good idea to travel with friends!

You should allow yourself to do more meaningful things, such as helping those around you who are in need, and you will see that your existence is valuable.

Fill yourself up!

In fact, I am about the same age as you, and although I know a lot of truths, but that only plays a certain role in guiding the direction and enlightening the mind, and the real life and consciousness still have to rely on yourself to experience it in order to feel the beauty and meaning of life.

What do you say, friend?

Dude. There's no way you can go on like this. IMHO.

You don't have much confidence in yourself. Since you've been in society for so long, you should have seen a lot of things. You said that you have no money, no technology, and no girlfriend, which is indeed a rather depressing thing.

You should pursue it. Identify a direction and move forward. Struggle!

Then please a good wife. You probably won't be whining like this here anymore.

Cherish your life!

Don't waste time.

You're not too young, get a good job. Let's do something meaningful.

A busy life is fulfilling.

If you're a man, go find a friend and talk to your girlfriend about what you're talking about.

If you're a woman, go out and play.

In fact, the landlord didn't suffer from depression, just inexplicable anxiety, because he was confused about what he was doing and what he was going to do.

I think in order to change this situation, first of all, I want to make sure that it is a good thing that you think that life is boring, because you are bored, so you will think, as you think now, you will think about life, you will think about your own value and the meaning of existence, you will think about some problems more meaningful than you usually are busy studying or working!

Sociology believes that our life is divided into several different stages, each stage has a different purpose of life tasks, we have to play different roles in different stages of life, facing different people, therefore, our life should not be boring, because our life is not only our own one-man show, it is a child, he has to learn, he needs the protection and help of many people; It's an adult, he needs to take care of the elderly and children, he wants to realize his own value and meaning, he wants to dominate the world, and so on. As we move from one stage to the next, you may be able to think about it and ask your heart: What should you be doing now? Is it learning? Is it to work? Should I enrich myself? Or should you do what you love? What do you like to do?

Take the first step firmly and live well! We all have to believe that life is good.

I wish you a wonderful life.

Your life is not your own, if you want to die, wait for more than ten years.

Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it!

It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

Have a good mood!

It may be that you lack a goal in life and have nothing to do all day, if so, you can cultivate your own interests and passions.

This is a normal reflection of people, because you have too little to do, causing you to feel bored, empty, etc., all because you are too idle, find more things to do, don't let your brain cells rest.

Get a job, make friends, bosom friends, preferably friends of the opposite sex! This is very helpful for you, but don't think about it, people will be a lifetime, !

Because this situation is a contagious disease in today's society.

Few people feel fulfilled and happy at any point in their lives. On the contrary, it is normal to have various feelings such as joy, anger, sorrow and happiness from time to time.

When you are working towards a goal at a certain stage, you will not feel bored and empty in the process. When you accomplish this goal and the next stage of the goal has not yet been set, you will have a sense of loss. It doesn't matter, try to adjust yourself, set a short-term goal, don't set that kind of lofty goal, you can't achieve it in a year and a half.

It's best to set a milestone, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal should be both achievable and achievable, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving the goal.

The goal can be anything but sports, English exams, homework, skills, reading a book, making a friend. Hope to give it a try. Instead of being bored every day, try something that will benefit you in the future.

People live to seek answers, and when a person is confused or puzzled, he is always looking for answers and solutions to things.

Man also lives for his own desires, when a person is hungry, he craves food, when he is bored, he craves happiness, when he is lonely, he craves love, when he is poor, he craves money, when he is powerful, he craves food and beautiful women, when he is about to die, everything he longed for before is floating clouds! He only longs for a healthy body to survive. Let's see what kind of person you belong to.

So, don't worry about this problem anymore, it's not a problem at all, as long as you are healthy, quickly adjust your mentality, experience all kinds of ups and downs brought by life, and feel all kinds of beauty brought by life.

Because you don't have a goal, just find yourself a long-term goal, and you will find that you are actually busy.

Because of confusion. I'm bothered by some annoyances, I feel like I'm blank for everything, I don't feel bored, I feel the same way.

Participate in a variety of activities and try to get yourself moving.

It's best to make more friends and be positive.

I'm still empty in my 20s... It's home.。。。

No reason.

The body-mind reacts normally.

The choice at the intersection of life is confused, and expectations and fears coexist.

The biggest reason is that I don't have any money, and like me, I don't have any friends, haha.

It would be better to involve yourself in more activities.