What should I do if my friend steals and is told to my relatives and friends by my in laws?

It's none of your business for your friend to steal, it must be that you have stolen more than once, and it is estimated that you have not been caught stealing expensive things, but this kind of behavior is really shameful, that is, thieves, thieves, there will be retribution, if you don't change it, sooner or later there will be a big incident and go to jail, then all your relatives and friends will know. Since you've done it, are you afraid that others will know? After knowing that it was embarrassing, it was completely changed, as long as it was changed, everyone would forget about it.

Face it head-on, you don't have to be responsible for other people's behaviors, your friends dare to do it, but you also have to tell your mother-in-law that you know other people's things, don't go around talking about it.

Well deserved, what is the cost of stealing? It's about taking the risk of disrepute. Since you steal it, you have to take the risk.

I don't think it's right for your boyfriend, but I think it's best not to tell anyone about this kind of theft, and if you're in a good relationship, you can understand it, because everyone makes mistakes.

Face it head-on, and if you do something wrong, you will be held responsible.

The questioner evaded a key question: Who told the in-laws about the theft?

Your question is not clear, is the 'in-laws' here your in-laws or the in-laws of your friends?

Paper can't contain the fire, even if the in-laws don't tell others, it's a matter of time before others know. Everyone needs to take responsibility for what they have done, so don't do it if you are afraid of being embarrassed!

Although stealing is not good, it cannot be spoken, so that the thief cannot face other people's criticism! It's not good for him either.

Stealing is an illegal act in itself, and if someone finds out about it, it should be corrected and not repeated, otherwise it will not be respected by others.

Hello friends. Since it has been told.

There is no way to take it back.

And it's a fact.

Your friends can only accept it.

Next time, don't tell these "big mouths" about secret things, so as not to suffer from the fish in the pond

Theft is inherently illegal. Should be caught by the police and taken to the police station. Transformed. Be a new person.

As long as you don't say it, you can't control other people's theft, and you can't control others telling your relatives and friends about other people's theft, just take care of yourself.

What selfishness, stealing is stealing, pretending to be something nice. It is estimated that it was found out by calling the police and looking at the monitoring. The amount of 300 is small, and if the case is not filed, it will be detained for a few days at most and it will come out. The fine counts as good luck.

It's really uncomfortable psychologically.

After marriage, the property of the two parties is joint, and since it is jointly owned, it must be jointly disposed of. So you have the right to know. It is recommended to find a suitable opportunity to have a frank and honest conversation with your boss to express your confusion and doubts.

But the way you talk and the attitude are very important, so that he doesn't think that you are asking for guilt. Otherwise, it will backfire. Try to use an understanding tone to find out why he gave money.

Express your hope and generosity, and hope that next time you will give money, how much to give, and you will have a discussion. Knowing it with affection, moving it with reason. I'm sure your husband will respect your opinion.

If the money he gives does not affect your life, then you should take the initiative and give it to her old man with him. This is an act of filial piety, and he didn't do anything wrong, he raised his mother with hard work, and he didn't use it to drink flower wine, so why are you unhappy? If you give money to your mother, don't you think you shouldn't?

Obviously, your family's economy is not transparent, and whoever uses the money is their own money, not the family's. Therefore, when a man gives money to his mother, it can be regarded as a filial piety.

Support him, you love his family and he loves yours too. That's the truth.

You chill him, and he will chill you on the long road of life. To help others is to help yourself. How much more is it the nature of a biological mother?

I believe that you will also secretly give money to your husband and mother-in-law, what should he do.

How to deal with it?

The first copy depends on how much money is stolen.

Second, what did you do to steal money?

Third, how many times it was stolen.

Fourth, what is the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law?

Fifth, what is the daughter-in-law's character?

Sixth, what is the temper of the mother-in-law.

If the normal relationship is okay, the mother-in-law has a good temper, take the initiative to admit the mistake, it should be no big deal, after all, it is all a family, take out the attitude of admitting mistakes, and be more filial to the in-laws in the future, and the family and everything will ......be prosperous

Stealing raw and cooked: It means being greedy, so that you can steal food, whether it is raw or cooked.

搲, read "tile", the meaning of scooping.

Tell your husband, you definitely can't say it directly, tell your husband, let your husband say it.

You have to communicate with your husband, and then solve this matter together, communicate with your mother-in-law to see if she has any knots, and let your husband stand in your camp at the beginning, and you will take extreme measures alone, which will cause family conflicts.

It is recommended that you install a camera, and then there will be evidence to call the police, good luck!

Add a lock, and she will know it in her heart.

Why are your in-laws doing this? What is the purpose?

Don't slowly persuade her to stop stealing in front of others, don't say it directly, tell her awkwardly.

This is something that can't be helped, as long as your in-laws still remember that they have a son, this kind of thing, how can parents and children have an overnight feud, they are always connected by blood, you can have a better mentality, but your sister-in-law doesn't have a job, right? If you still don't have enough money to spend, you can help your sister-in-law find a better job or introduce her to a better partner, but there are no other ways. I'm a woman, and I think that's a more realistic answer.

It seems that they are all saying that the landlord is not!!

If you want to make trouble so that your sister-in-law doesn't talk to her in-laws, it's not enough!

If the sister-in-law is already married, she really shouldn't ask her parents for money anymore. If she is not married, there is nothing wrong with it, at most, this sister-in-law loves to spend money, and her parents are a little used to her!!

If my sister-in-law gets married, I think it's okay to ask my husband's opinion first, if someone's son doesn't say anything, then you can only endure it, although I understand that this is really unbearable! For the sake of my husband, be generous!! As long as your husband understands you!!

My sister-in-law asked her in-laws for money to spend, there was nothing wrong with it, they were all from their own family, why were they so careful.

You are really poisonous, and you still want to use your scheming to make your sister-in-law not talk to her in-laws, as for it?

If the family has something to say, not to people, if you have any big opinions, you are embarrassed to mention them, ask your husband to come forward and talk about it, and it would be good to solve the problem. It's not unreasonable for family and everything to be prosperous, but don't do anything to sow discord.

Do what you have to do and don't be self-defeating. The money of your in-laws is not equal to the money of you and your husband, if you are a smart daughter-in-law, you can teach your sister-in-law to manage money, can you become a winner in the open and secret fight? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China is complicated enough, do you still want to have an ambivalent sister-in-law?

Long pain is better than short pain, everyone spreads out and says that it always helps, and they are open in their hearts, not afraid of what others think.

My sister-in-law is bad enough, you are insidious enough......It's wrong to ask your parents for money, and your parents are willing to give it, can you manage it?

Do you still need to steal? It's just open, what can you do?

Isn't it good to be sunny in our hearts, big sister!

People are mothers, can the relationship be not?

Is it closer than you? Don't be naïve.