My husband is immature, obsessed with games, and loves to roar, do you want a divorce?

My husband also loves to play games, this is his way of venting his heart, my way to deal with it is not to quarrel with him, but to subtly influence him, for example, often let him participate in family life, more contact with his son, slowly it will be better, you can also tell him, husband, it's not that I don't let you play, but I hope you accompany me and my son more, don't quarrel with him, every time calmly say, maybe the effect will be better, I hope it will help you.

It's best to sit down and talk first, after all, there are children; Think more about your children; If it really doesn't make sense, you can tell him the seriousness of the matter and make a fuss to see what his attitude is; Even if we come together and have children, try not to divorce, no matter how innocent the children are.

It's easy to say anything if you don't have children, you still have to be cautious when you have children, talk to your husband well, it's impossible to be so immature all the time.

I'm having the same problem as you now, my husband is immature, I'm tired, but I'm reluctant to go to this home, are you divorced now? How are you doing? Want to know about you – a person who is struggling with marriage.

I really don't approve of your divorce How good it is to have a home Many people want to have a home But there are also many people who can't get a home Have a good chat with your husband Be gentle How much do you QQ Let's talk.

Marriage is not child's play, you have to think about it, I can only tell you. Whether you are rich or poor, it is the same for a long time, and people's lives are not as romantic and eternal as they appear on TV.

Try to find out, maybe he is troubled by something, maybe something doesn't go well, your husband is bored in his heart, and he uses other ways to make himself feel better.

You can consider taking him to a psychiatrist to help him with his Internet addiction.

For such a husband, I think there is no need to choose divorce, because it is not easy for two people to know each other, and they must cherish it, not to choose divorce when they encounter any kind of thing, but to deal with the misunderstanding between each other.

Therefore, I have the following suggestions:

1. Communication

For many things, it is communicated, we should take the initiative to find our husband, and tell our husband all his thoughts, let him know what he is thinking, so that when we lose our temper, the other party knows what kind of situation is caused, rather than thinking that it is unreasonable, so maybe your husband will have obvious changes, or even give up his own game, to accompany himself, enhance the relationship between each other.

2. Pressure

For men, when we feel that our husbands are not enterprising, we can put some pressure on our husbands, because in the case of pressure, we can better weigh and let our husbands change from lazy to active, so that husbands can gradually become aggressive, which is also the best guarantee for our children. After all, every parent wants their children to live a happy life, but they don't want to lose at the starting line.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that everyone in ordinary times, when doing a thing, must think twice, to think about it, after all, two people are together, must cherish it, think more about the previous hard days, so that the contradictions between each other can be resolved, I hope everyone can pay attention, and adopt such a concept, and then implement it concretely, to see what the effect is, and then make corresponding adjustments.

If your husband is addicted to games and doesn't want to make progress, he should get a divorce, because with a boy, if he is not motivated, then you will not be happy in the future, so it is better to divorce early.

I think if this man is addicted to games and has no motivation and sense of responsibility, he will get divorced, and you will feel very tired if you live like this, and marriage is a matter for two people.

Obsessed with games is easy to play things and lose their minds, and the unhappiness of the real world is more likely to lead people to indulge in false success in online games.

First of all, you should first tell him how you feel, let him understand, see if he is repentant, but also see if there are children between you, if so, give him another chance, if he still goes his own way, then divorce.

I don't think you should talk about divorce, you can patiently persuade your husband to be addicted to games, and if you can't persuade yourself, you can seek help from your elders.

Divorce is not a game and cannot be easily spoken. You can talk to your husband calmly, understand your thoughts with him, see his reaction, and if you are obsessed, you can consider whether to separate.

Many people's husbands may have such a situation, which has to make him aware of his responsibilities in this family, and ask him to accompany his children to study and go out for activities, and not to divorce easily.

Online games are a time-killing thing, and I suggest you talk to your husband about it, ask him why he likes online games, ask him if you are important or online games are important, and you give him a chance to see what he does next.

When a woman encounters this kind of man, she should not be soft, but let him know what a sense of crisis is.

Legal analysis: Yes, but the procedure of influence is determined according to the procedure that your husband is addicted to, the emotional basis of your husband and wife, and the impact on your life.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

What about the economic conditions, if you don't have money, you don't do your job, you play all day long, you should leave.

1. You can sue the court for divorce;

2. The legal condition for divorce by litigation is that the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, and if the relationship has not broken down or has not been completely broken, it can still be maintained, and there is a possibility of reconciliation.

It's all six. The child has also grown up.

You're about to retire too.

What kind of life pressures are there?

Cultivate your own hobbies.

Square dancing or something.

Just play your own.

What kind of divorce?

What else do you expect him to do for you?

It's easy to get too addicted to the game and get out of reality.,If he can't get out of the online game, he's going to have to hurry.。 Only when he regrets it does he know what reality is and what is illusory. What is true and what is false.

It's not that your husband doesn't love you. But he loves games more. Find a way to bring him to his senses.

Games are, after all, an unreal structure. Let him put down the game and get back to work seriously. I used to be a gamer, too, a game fan.

Of course, it's a bit hard to let go. As long as you want to let go and muster up the courage, you can still put it down. The most troublesome thing is that I don't want to put it down, because if I put it down, I feel like I'm going to lose something, I'm going to lose friends in the game, I can't find friends to talk to, and I feel like I'm bored without a game.

The main thing to make him wake up is to find a way to make him willing to give up the game. The more you play the game, the lazier you get, even if he used to be known for his diligence, as long as he gets addicted to the game... Needless to say, you get the idea.

If it really doesn't work, then ... Say something that shouldn't be said ... Let's get a divorce!

Does your husband read information or play online games?

Look at the information to see nothing.

It's not so good to be addicted to games.

Life is not a game, if the two are confused and cannot change him, then choose to leave.

If you don't get a divorce, you should live separately from him for a few months to see if he is willing to correct it, otherwise you will have to divorce.

It's good to play games properly, so that men can spend less money, know how to save money, and of course know how to take care of their families. But don't overindulge, and you're not a child, just be fine in a while. This way your husband won't grow old and do things that are sorry for you.

You have to think about both sides.

It can only be to blend in, influence him, and make 135246 with her, resolutely what he should do, regardless of the time he should play.

If he doesn't agree, he will go his own way Husband and wife are birds in the same forest There is no grass at the end of the world Good man Yes.

Communicate well with him and educate him well.

It can be seen that this wife is a career-oriented woman, she is self-motivated, and she also hopes that her other half will be the same type of man. The man showed similar traits at first, so they got married. After getting married, my husband seemed to be a different person.

This netizen's husband reminds me of Yang Li's words in the talk show: Why does he look so ordinary, but so confident? ”

When two people get married, it is like cooperating to run a company, and Gao Shirt requires partners to work together to fight for a better future. If one party is working hard, but the other party loses itself and relies on the other party everywhere, the company may have the danger of withdrawing its shares.

Even in the strange story, Cheng Lu mentioned with a serious face: "Men, you still have to rely on yourself." Yang Mi also admires independent men very much, and has a natural liking for such types.

Many girls are very desperate for their careers. For women, a man who is hard-working and has a strong sense of responsibility for the family is still very manly and attractive.

Marriage is like a bank, it takes two people to manage it with their hearts, and they need to save love together, so that life can become better and better. You are blaming yourself now, and you are angry at your husband's behavior, and under the blame and anger, you feel helpless.

I know how easily it can be to get depressed when a person feels helpless, but you may not even have time to sink into your emotions right now, and the most important thing for you now is to get a job.

In fact, your problem has gone beyond the scope of psychology to solve, and your dilemma stems from how to solve the problem of family survival. I don't know what your family can share for you right now, such as taking care of your children, or providing you with some financial support for the time being so that you can free up a little time to plan your career.

At present, your husband cannot provide financial support for the family, and it seems that he does not even want to take on this responsibility at all. You said that your husband has been playing games for a long time, I am not completely sure whether your husband has become "addicted to games", and if he is indeed addicted to games, your family predicament cannot be solved by him.

You must know that you will probably have to work your own in the future to provide a better life for yourself and your children. You are willing to work hard and be willing to take responsibility, so hold on a little more and use all your strength on how to solve the current professional dilemma. There is no need to quarrel anymore, arguing more is a waste of your energy.

If he is already addicted to games, you alone arguing with him will not change him at all.

I'm sorry I can't actually help you, but your message does make me a little worried, and I hope your life will gradually get better, and you can let me know after this difficult time.

But if you think about it seriously, what is the purpose of his game? Is it really to fulfill the dream of professional esports in the past?

You try to change the angle, if you are your husband, what is the purpose of playing the game roller keys?

If I were your husband, I would think that the game world is more interesting than getting along with you.

This is the key issue, and if you talk about it at this level, it's not just the addiction, but the daily life of your marriage, from communication, mutual attraction, to the crisis management of the two people, and the key conversations, which may deviate from the original track.

You said, Ji Beipin said before marriage that you can't accept a man who plays games, and he also thinks that he is not, but now that the problem has arisen, you should first find out the essential problems that affect the relationship between the two of you, and then consider the divorce issue.