Why is it so hard for us to make true friends?

Most of the interactions between people are based on the premise of the exchange of interests. Of course, there are also true friends, it depends on fate.

Affected by the environment, everyone has to consider many factors when making friends, such as interests.

Because we are all afraid of being let down by others for our sincere efforts, we are all very careful.

In fact, I feel that if you want to find a true friend, then you should know how to give sincerely.

There is a sentence in "Zengguang Xianwen", don't persuade people lightly, only when you really have the ability, what you say is weighty, and someone will be friends with you, which is why you feel that you don't have a true friend, so we have to become better.

The environment has been changing, and there are fewer and fewer friends, and the original good friends, with less contact, will fade, and when they grow up, their feelings are biased towards the family, and there will naturally be fewer friends.

There are more and more snobbish people in today's society, they grow up and get married, and then they educate their children to be like this.

As you grow up and see more of the world, it becomes more difficult to guess what kind of mentality the people around you are facing you.

The first is a matter of vision, and secondly, sincere efforts may not necessarily be rewarded, so there are fewer and fewer friends.

It's not that everyone has become apathetic, it's that empty friendships really don't have real meaning. Only by using material things to drive feelings can we build true friendship.

Life is very stressful, few people can stop and talk to me deeply, true friends are not formed in a day or two, but need long-term communication.

Because everyone's interactions are based on material things. For example, if you buy a bottle of water for someone to drink, they will appreciate you.

As I continue to grow, I want more and more things. In the past, people used to call them good friends when they were accompanied by eating, drinking, and having fun, but now you have to know what you are thinking and be able to understand and enlighten.

It could also be that your social circle is a bit narrow. You can expand your squeamishness appropriately, meet different friends with your friends, go to some parties and the like, so that you can broaden your social circle, you can meet more people, and you can also make a lot of friends, friends are developed in this way, you are sincere with others, and others will also give you sincerity.

If you can't always make true friends, you have to consider whether you treat others with sincerity, if you use sincerity to treat others, you will definitely be able to gain the sincerity of others, because people are always mutual.

Because true friends are to make friends, if not, you or the other party is not sincere enough, so you can't make true friends, it may be that our own character has created us, or our personality is too open, and everyone gets along, but they don't care much about the people around them, can't give them a sense of security, and there is a possibility that the social circle is narrow, there is no opportunity to make more people, there will be no new blood injection, and you can't meet like-minded friends, There is also the possibility that your sincerity is tortured by others, because you often complain and bring negative energy to your friends, so they are not willing to have a heart to heart with you.

Personally, I think that the reason why I can't always make true friends in my life is because I usually don't communicate too much with other people in life, so I rarely find true friends.

Because I didn't open my heart, I couldn't make real friends in my life, but I always tried to make some changes.

The reason why you can't always make true friends is because you don't know how to communicate with others, and you will always offend others.

Because people nowadays are too realistic, they all follow reality, so it is difficult to make true friends, but true friends are not absent, but they have not met them yet.

It may be that the way of making friends is wrong, in the face of intimate friends, we have to maintain it well, we can't just wait for the other party to pay, any kind of feeling, we need to pay for each other.

Because you don't open your heart to each other and can't treat each other sincerely, you can't make true friends.

It is rare to have a confidant in life, and countless people have sighed from ancient times to the present, and there are many people who do not have a true friend in their lives. You still have a long way to go, and the opportunities and hopes are much greater than others, so keep up the good work.

As for why you ask why you don't have a true friend. First of all, tell me that you are ready to make true friends? There are prerequisites and conditions for making true friends, that is, to be sincere to others, to be faithful, tolerant, and to give selflessly without expecting anything in return (spiritual and material).

If you feel too stupid and embarrassed to do so, you're not ready to make real friends. Secondly, be prepared for failure: even if you do the above, you may not necessarily be able to make true friends.

Because there are differences in fate and personality between people. Just like falling in love, unrequited love is not good, no matter how much you give, the other party just doesn't want to deal with you. Therefore, to make true friends, you also need to respond to each other and attract each other.

First of all, I beg your pardon for my blunt remarks. Why don't you always make real friends...?

I thought the reason for this was myself. You should be bold enough to find out the cause of the problem from yourself...

Of course, a confidant is hard to find... Perhaps, this 'fate' has not yet arrived...