What should I do if my parents are ready to give me 10,000 yuan and the rest?

I think if you have worked for a certain number of years and have a certain financial ability, then it doesn't matter if they can't pay for it, you can handle it yourself.

If you can't afford to pay for marriage, and your parents are only ready to pay 10,000 yuan, is there really no money or other reasons?

If they only give 10,000 yuan, you don't have enough money, and you have already decided to get married, then you can only go to someone else to borrow money and work hard to repay it later

You are ready to get married, your parents are ready to contribute 10,000 yuan, and you will do the rest by yourself, you don't know what to do?

Parents will give you a little more if they have money, but they may have really done their best, don't force your parents, solve the problem yourself, see how much money you have, make a list of must-haves for the wedding, make a good plan, do more with how much money you have, don't owe foreign debts, and have a simple and unique wedding.

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It's normal if you don't have money, these things like getting married by yourself are your own, and you're an adult! You should work harder and be responsible! Let's work hard to make money!

Parents pay more or less is a heart, don't be demanding, the future road still has to rely on your own struggle.

It shouldn't be easy for parents, just do 10,000 if you give 10,000, parents are not obliged to bear the cost of their children's marriage.

1.Do your own thing, you are already married, and you have long reached the age of financial independence.

2.In the past, parents borrowed money to get married, but now it's yours.

3.Out of the better than not out.

If the mother's family conditions are average, and the abdomen can only be in class, then it can only be like this, you have to rely on your own efforts, then there is no way, you can only rely on your own efforts.

If you can pay for it, you will receive it, and thank your parents for earning your own money.

I should thank my parents, and there are many parents from poor families who can't come up with money.

The husband's family has this heart, which means that the family is reasonable and noble, and your parents are too little, how can this be compared? It seems that only you can take some of it to your parents Besides, you persuade your parents not to have that kind of thinking.

You can tell your parents through your siblings that if your husband's family smashes the pot and sells iron to give the bride price, your daughter's life will be very difficult in the future. Generally, after saying this, parents will think about it.

That's your parents are wrong, and it's not selling your daughter, it's just a heart.

You just say that you can't care about how much money you get, you don't care about people's hearts.

It's just a little affection, you just tell them to be nice to you, and it's better for your daughter to be happy than anything else.

This kind of thing should be dealt with with with him, not by you alone, I am afraid that your parents will take a more fancy to his attitude towards you and your family!

Patiently explain to my parents that as long as the family is happy after marriage, it is more important than anything else, and I think that as a parent, I can understand the next generation.

It's not a bride price, it's okay to honor your parents.

Since people say that they will accept it with a little heart, they don't want to sell their daughters.

Ten thousand is not enough? When is your husband a cash cow?

You have to ask clearly, what kind of money is this??

You can't say who's right and who's wrong, but it's understandable that you should discuss something and then have no result. After all, they are elders, and they have to be respected and cared for. It's really inappropriate to just shake your face.

In other places, it is necessary to respect the elders, but I think you have done nothing wrong in this matter, some positions cannot be changed, if you compromise a little, your answer status will be lower in the future, and in this way, your husband is not completely on your side, you will have to rely on yourself in the future. I think what you should do is still to do it, so that your husband feels that you respect and value his parents, but you can't compromise them too much, otherwise you will have no status at all in the future.

The marriage is married, if you don't want to be embarrassed in the future, stop this matter, after all, family harmony is more important than anything else!

I think the old man should give you the red envelope

Tolerance, it's as simple as that, since you have integrated into this du family, then you have to follow everyone's dao

Pace, and how your husband is specialized, he will tolerate your one, the family is different, after all, your current family relationship is not so stable, you have to learn to be a stupid woman, you should be careful, don't worry about yourself, don't embarrass others! Wishing you happiness!

I'm prone to lack of security myself.

du If it were me, I would think 1I don't think I was busy forgetting it, so I didn't give the dao to get married, and I can forget this thing once??? 2

If you want to reconcile or something, the money is for you and not for her, and she can only reconcile the accounts within her own jurisdiction, right? How can you account for your daughter-in-law???

How to say that, many times they only say the reason when you mention it, and many times you don't mention them and they won't ask, which only shows that your mother-in-law didn't make it clear, if she wants to give it to you, she will talk to you, there are too many similar things, you don't say that he doesn't do it, you say your fault.

Forehead. This one is a bit hard to calculate! I would like to ask how many months or years have passed since the engagement to know how much I will return.

Since the parents don't say it, isn't it just 5,000 yuan, even if it is filial piety to the parents.

If your parents don't say it, don't ask for it, just repay the favor.

You should get married, and having an extra lover can share your troubles for you, reduce your pressure, and better honor your parents! Have a great day!

You should have your own home, didn't your parents help you? It's time for you to make a lot of money.

I'm going to get married next month, and I'm struggling about this at this time, what can I do? Won't your boyfriend give you money, and you won't get married? Do your parents want to bring the money back to you, or do they want them to stay and get your own drink?

Anyway, at this time, I think if your boyfriend really doesn't want to show it, you better forget it, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed. Although your parents said that the money they wanted was for your self-defense, and they were afraid that they would need to have children in the future, what could one or two thousand yuan do? If you don't have money, you don't want to have children for the time being, your in-laws have money that is someone else's, it has nothing to do with you, this is not clear, you want your in-laws' money, and you have to see if people give it, how can you have money and be comfortable, no one's face will be seen.

You can tell your husband that it is good for his parents to take it out first, and then you can bring it over and return it to your in-laws, so that your mother will have a good face, provided that you really have to pay it back, otherwise your credit will be in trouble.

Have a good time with your parents, can't you?

In fact, when you get married, it's okay to buy less, and people in the past got married, just a few things, and they are happier and more harmonious than the current people. You can get married. If you have some economic foundation, you can buy whatever is popular.

Privately hand over some money or transfer points without Alipay or something.

In most places in China, the woman's parents want the bride price for the good of their daughter, in order to ensure that the daughter is not bullied by the man after marriage, so the bride price is for their daughter, and the woman's dowry is from the woman's parents.